With one exception I have a loving relationship with  all providers I have played with in the few years I have been in this hobby.

is you don't pay them for sex any more, but also they take your cash or credit card when they go to the mall.  

Well, I no longer pay for sex and she has never had a headache or was too tired but sometime I have to pay for a sitter for her child. And I did buy her child a winter coat. We do many things OTC with and without her child. Thanks Alan
 

Posted By: Alan_Nimm

is you don't pay them for sex any more, but also they take your cash or credit card when they go to the mall.  
   
 Another way is, when you go to see them for some fun, they say, "Oh Cooper, I'm sorry sweetie but I'm really tired/have a headache/gotta watch my favorite show/etc."  
   
   
   
 I treat all providers with love and respect also. And I love my ATF as much as I could love a friend. But none is my SO. Many providers I know, including my ATF, have SOs. I think there's a special place in hell reserved for people who do anything to intentionally break up a good committed relationship.  

I agree

wives never fart and you better not even hint that you heard or smelled one. Now admittedly at least one of your marriages fell way outside the bell curve so we may be comparing two different universes.  

after your third session, that she has your whole life planned out together. At that point, because the sessions are so hot, it's time to talk some sense into her..........or run for the hills Coop.

Being able to say you keep in contact with all your lady friends really is an exception and most men would not be able to say that or care not to be in such a position.  

Haley, I plead guilty to being a nice gentleman and the lady in question has keys to both the front door and the back door. And btw I'm 83 lol

I'd have to say I have had a loving relationship with every provider who I've visited regularly.  But they come and go, many were just one timers, etc.  I've been hobbying 14 years, so, too many to remember by now.  But the special ones, those I've had loving relationships with, I'll never forget.  No chance any will become my SO since I've got an awesome wife at home.  Just had our 44th anniversary.

If my wife were still alive I doubt seriously if anyone in this hobby would ever had dated me.
Congratulations on your awesome wife. Happy anniversary! Yesterday was my anniversary.Happy New Year to all you old farts and the lovely ladies who bring joy to us.

I think that most of the suggestions equate a SO to a cynical version of a wife. Funny but not my idea of a SO. My idea of a SO is a loving commitment with out marriage