I did a reasonably thorough search and haven't seen this topic discussed in a thread.  If it has been discussed, my apologies.  With that disclaimer out of the way...

What is the current obsession about spitting during oral sex?  When one observes certain websites, every BJ and DATY is punctuated with the giver spitting into and onto the object of his or her desire.  I've had some ladies do this to me.  Is it just me, or, do you guys and ladies are as annoyed and turned off as me by all the spitting?

Oral sex is all about teasing, foreplay, and (for the guys at least) bringing her to a slow boil and a thermonuclear explosion.  It's not about forcefully ejecting saliva on your partner's body parts.  

Am I showing my vintage, or, do other folks feel the same way?

I use plenty of saliva during Daty but I don't spit. Just enough to make everything wet and warm. I agree I don't really enjoy being spit on during a BBBJ either. Again. Just enough to make everything wet and warm. i don't think it has anything to do with age (vintage). Just another personal preference.

but there is also something to be said for style.  So, while I agree that a lot of "forcefully ejecting saliva" as you put it is not appealing, lol.  It is hard to beat mother nature's own, for making things slippery.

I don't spit during DATY, since there is already plenty of juices and lubrication.

However, during a great BJ, it is very sexy for the lady to spit on my cock for more lubrication. Especially that back of the throat thick spit that is the best lube. Also, it is the best lube for russian, which I also love.

Diversity makes the world go round!

you are showing your age..loosen up..i used to think the same way..after a few sessions with PSE's..i think it is totally erotic..now i cant get enough of it..just " roll with the changes" and "turn the page"..you will love it..

no to spitting.  Just gross.

I love a woman spitting on my cock and making it all sloppy and create long strings that they then lick up.  I find it highly erotic.  To each their own.

I don't particularly enjoy spitting,  or to be lubed up either, and try to mention this before oral commences.

Reminds me of a boyfriend I had back when I was real young, dumb & full of cum lol 21 & he used to spit on my pussy during sex as a natural lubricant I guess. WTF mon memories...

the spitting is really not for me. I don't like to be spit on and I think spitting is not erotic. But men (and probably women too) seem hell-bent on learning from (badly-scripted) porn, so I guess it sounds like it might be a trend. Ick.

Saliva is an incredible lubricant but it can be used discreetly for chrissakes. Spitting would be a complete turnoff for me- both as giver and receiver. I won't pee on anyone either.

But to each their own, and if you like it, more power to ya!

then just use some oil and finish with her hand.

Yes, agree about the porn, seems explicit porn is so readily accessible, it is directing sexual behavior.  Also comes to mind labiaplasty, breast enhancement, and anal beaching.  Personally, I find spitting to be the biggest turn off.

It's animalistic and hedonistic.  It's erotic because it suggests the provider is breaking form because she wants my cock so much.  In a sense it's precisely because it is so gross that it's hot.  Also, the suggestion of aggression and repulsion inherent in the act of spitting, contrasted with the submission of sucking a cock, makes for tremendous sexual tension.

...however hey if you don't like it we aren't psychic...say something