We all want to reach that illicit point where the sublime takes over for those few fleeting moments. Would you give up on all the other nuances because you couldn't reach that point any more.
Kisses Haley
Not as long as I have my tongue!!!
I have met with quite a few men that don't cum
There is more to the experience that has benefits than just cum
So they still come for
Intimacy
Desire
Bringing pleasure to others
Enjoying looking at and touching a beautiful naked woman
conversation
flirtation
And I have met a few that had medical problems and they could not cum
Until I made them cum
So I also say never give up
Keep sharing intimacy
who is unable to cum but there are not many. I wonder if every man would seek out sex no matter what. My experience is that men I have seen for a long time continue to see me but not many new friends arrive at my door in this situation.
Seeking out someone new is maybe less desirable for some reason. Maybe fear of performance anxiety or just feeling awkward about overcoming the conversation of cumming at all.
Kisses Haley
And for the men of TER to find a skilled and sexy provider who will be able to relieve his anxieties and any awkward feelings. Sometimes seeking out someone new will even produce better results.
Haley, they keep coming back because you make them feel sooooo good!! 
Finding that special someone in todays hobby is so daunting. Having to put up with some of the BS and drama. Some inlicted some just occuring. Lets face it this hobby inviolves intimacy and some ladies just do NOT relize that and deliver mixed and confusing messages Hell, I got that crap when I was married. So when I find that special lady.....welllets just say she will be pleasantly surprised if she keeps and open mind and is willing to share imacy..
its own reward.
It doesn't matter whether you're talking, caressing, or having sex- an orgasm is just one part of the overall experience.
I don't have any problem in this area from a medical standpoint, but I have spent an entire hour just talking to a naked lady. Even though I was there for a different purpose, I was having so much fun lying naked on the bed talking with her, that the time just slipped away. So there are many ways to enjoy the company of a beautiful woman.
Ahhhh....my two favorite ladies!!!
Kisses Haley
For the gents we are faced with many potential problems as we age, ED (huge or should is say small LOL), prostate cancer, low T etc. All affect the performance we once had as a youth. I believe that unless you re numb down there you can still reach an orgasm. Problems like cancer may prevent ejaculation but the rush of hormones is still there. From time to time we may have experienced a problem or two (particularly multiple pops) BUT the ladies of the hobby are very intuitive and have always made it a non issue and seem to know what to say and do. So HELL NO, there are so many other aspects of adult play I will never give it up!
sometimes I get that. Its a great feeling, not exactly the same mind you but nothing to sneeze at.
had prostate problems therefore he cannot cum but I have been seeing him for years.
He let me know upfront when we first met and he is a really nice guy.
I asked him why does he want to see me he prefers the cuddling and kissing.The great conversations that we have about many different topics.Sometimes it is not all about sexual intimacy but rather the connection and comfortable level two people share.
He likes to cuddle and talk even though he does not physically cum he says he still has the feeling internally.
I think that as long as I can become aroused, I would find it very rewarding still.
I have no idea what happened. Suddenly the above post was submitted. Huh?
As I was saying I don't think I'd give up. I'd still want the time together, the companionship, the conversation, the touch and feel of a woman.
I inadvertently hit the Enter Key when I meant to hit the Shift, and the post goes flying off without you.
I wish they would fix that and require that you hit the send button only in order to make a post.
Hell No!!,
I have learned much more about the journey and pleasing my partner, than the end result.
Jarhead
Eatin' ain't cheatin'
I put out very small amounts of cum but I have between 1 to 3 successive orgasms. As I explained before I taught myself how to do this when I was younger. So I am assumiong you mean orgasms and not how much fluid is involved. Either way I as others have stated just love to feel and kiss and hold a pretty lady even if there is nothing else involved. When i do overnights with a lady most times we have sex a couple times and maybe once in the morning. But its mostly sleeping holding her in my arms. Thats one of the best feelings in the world.
defined as being able to rise to the ocassion. I sometimes have what I call "dry" orgasms.
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I had not thought about that contingency. I would still want the intimacy, and would want to see a woman who made me feel great, no matter what happened. It's nice to know there are women who are prepared to handle whatever problems come up.
I assume we are talking about orgasm and not ejaculation. In my case you live life as a red blooded Italian man until one day you learn about PSA.... and suddenly are faced with a totally unexpected prostate surgery. Yippeee .... the bad stuff is out and hadn't spread..... but what.....??!!! You can orgasm but can't get a hardon....what!!!! It may take as long as 2 years to recover...maybe??? Options..... Wait, take shots in the pee pee, use a pump, or get a prosthesis. The prosthesis is actually not a bad way to go... pump it up and go forever. For me..... as I ponder the future..... I found a delightful woman who gives a wonderful 2hr massage with HE..... and she does it in such a way you forget your condition. Its a circumstance that attacks your self image and confidence....but the desire for feminine touch and the joy it brings does not go away....So..... make the best of a bad situation..but don't quit enjoying it....