In my mid 60's and thankfully healthy. As I mature I find that it's more and more important for the provider I'm with to enjoy our"date" as much as I do. My days of banging some good looking but dis-interested provider just don't work for me. I'm not fooling myself by thinking these ladies are dying to have sex, but I do want them engaged and enjoying our time together
My question is this; with so many ladies claiming to be "senior friendly" how do you really know? I really don't feel like experimenting and finding out during the session that the provider isn't into mature men.
Suggestions for improving the odds of finding ladies who genuinely like to spend time with older guys would be welcome.
You will never actually know. Some gals are great actresses, and you are their paying audience. These gals are quite successful, generally.
So, my suggestion is that when you come away feeling like you and her shared a real moment in time, and you feel like you are floating on air, then you decide that gal is a keeper. I've been doing this for about 40 years, and I wouldn't go back and change anything.
How to make sure you meet gals like this? That one is tougher, but reviews are a start. How they present themselves whether on the boards or how they do their websites helps make the decision easier, but I think it's fair to say that a certain amount of hunting and choosing is necessary to finding the right gals.
You are fortunate to live in "TER country" where there are a lot of TER members who write reviews.
My advice is to find the guys who's taste most resemble your own and who are also getting a little long in the tooth. If they had a good time with a girl, most likely you will too.
BTW I think what you really mean is that you want girls who at least "act" like they are enjoying themselves, the only way to know that they really are having a great time with you is when they stop charging you. lol
if you go with more “mature” providers. For example, if you see an ad for a 25-year-old that says “senior friendly” and another from a 50-year-old, I’ll bet you’ll have a better connection with the older woman. Another hint is if the provider sees ONLY older men. One of my favs has a minimum for new clients of 50 years old. She’s mid-50s and prefers the company of mature men. And she definitely enjoys sex... or she’s a better actress than Meryl Streep.
Not that a younger woman can’t have an “old soul”. One of my favs who’s mid-30s is like that. And I met my ATF when she was that age, and she has some long-time clients in their 70s and even 80s.
Of course there’s other factors, a big one being how the provider approaches the business. As others have said, you can get a feel for that from reviews. Also see how she describes herself in her ads and web site (if she has one).
I was mostly looking for 20-somethings, but it didn't take long to realize that the chemistry just isn't there, even if she's good at faking it. I started moving up in age until I reached my current sweet spot, which are ladies 35-45 (I'm 62).
...four were 26-30 and one was 31-35. So much for your "sweet spot" of 35-45.
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I've become an over 40's guy at this point in my life. To me experience and ladies who are into mutually sensual encounters are far more exciting than 20 something hot bodies who don't have a clue.
Plus middle-aged providers who take care of themselves and can carry on an intelligent conversation are hot as hell!
Just my preference, YMMV
Or you are just lying as usual.
If you had bothered reading any of his reviews you'd see that while the profiles of the girls he has reviewed often state their ages as under thirty, any idiot, even a stupid white guy like yourself would realize that their real age is actually right in CDL's "sweet spot" of 35-45 and he quite clearly says so in the reviews he writes.
So BLRPOS, are you an idiot, lazy, or just a lying piece of shit? Oh wait, none of these terms are mutually exclusive where it comes to you, I suppose most likely you are all three, stupid, lazy and dishonest. What a great fucking trifecta.
he's "D", all of the above. He has said this on the Kgirl board, and even though someone more politely said the same thing you did, which is basically, "Read CDL's fucking reviews," he insists on continuing to make an idiot out of himself with no help from anyone else. He's truly a moron and apparently not afraid to let everyone else know. Lol
...you're adamant about banging hot young bodies, I'd suggest pursuing encounters with the more matured woman. Make half your age your floor, and don't even think about TOFTT. Dive into reviews of those you're attracted to for the nuances that suggest the date you'd most like to have. I'm 70, and my own experience has the satisfaction meter closer to pegging out more often the closer to my age the provider is. The older woman more often than not equates to a more confident sexuality (often more intoxicating than physical beauty alone), which leads to better chemistry, which translates into more I "forgot it was a service" dates.
Oh wait a second. I am about to turn 62 and 31 is more my "ceiling" and not my floor. Never mind. lol
With all that has been said here. There is a gal in Chicago, reviews are off the charts, former porn star, fucks like a fiend, not for me. Her reviews have her copulating in mid air (I exaggerate) I am too old for the sex Olympics so I pass, based on the review.
Another provider, who passed through the area in September, has also done porn, but here reviews speak a different story. I was very glad to have seen her.
Reviews, reviews, reviews. I have often said I will take a 6 or 7 in looks, if she can make me feel good, lol. It just really DEPENDS. Okay that pun was intended.
Thanks for the feedback and suggestions, gents. Your input is much appreciated!
I always have, since I was young & had a crush on Sean Connery. I have had the same regular friend now for a decade, and he is 70 now. My old friend has suffered a few heart attacks, and health is an issue when it comes to playtime. I would choose an older gent over a younger man any day. I love the wisdom, the knowledge, and the insight a mature man provides. I see that I need a connection to provide. Chemistry is everything.
Exactly! Chemistry is everything. That's why I'm interested in meeting ladies who, like you, actually prefer older guys. It seems to me that a lot of providers claim to be senior friendly when they're really not and as a result the chemistry or connection just isn't there.
I totally understand that both providers and clients are attracted to different people for different reasons. To each their own. I just believe that the chances for building that chemistry that you described is easier to develop when both parties are genuinely attracted to each other. And it's not just about looks.
Thanks!
I agree with everything pretty much that has already been said. I'm almost 77 (next month) and am a prostate cancer survivor so I guess you could say that I pose a bit of a "challenge" for providers. The key for me is that the lady is patient with me and takes her time as I prefer the gentle approach. Most providers I've been seeing are in their mid to late 30's and that has worked for the most part. DFK is an absolute 'must' for me!
I agree with something I saw on another board that for us old-timers, it's "about the journey - not the destination". I almost always book a minimum 2 hour appointment to allow time for chat and warming up. 
Best of luck to you.