What's the expected length of time I would expect a provider to work me over? I'm a guy who's relatively new to this hobby and each time I have an experience it's a big deal. Normally I'm not to quick on the trigger but my excitement gets the better of me and well....game over. My thought is that since the BJ is the main event for me a talented provider should be able to draw it out a bit (with my help of course). But what's reasonable? I certainly don't expect porn star longevity but I don't like to be a minuteman either. Do most providers try and make you pop quickly or is just me or my choices? love to get some input from both sides. thanks. I used an alias for obvious reasons : )

have gone up to 30 minutes with tease and denial.  It's great fun

BJ is about the only way I can make it.  Relax, she has naughty bits to play with and have fun. Are their things that don't pop you quickly? If so, use them to slow down the climax time. I'm sure the ladies who may be answering will have good advice.
If she is a clock watcher and wants to get you in and out as quickly as possible find another provider. Good luck

I'd rather tease and retreat, tease and retreat for the entire time you planned on being with me or until you tell me to keep going for a finish. A little chit chat, a little 'back rub', a little this and that :

there is a way to give a bj, by slowly making love to your cock and simply slowing the pace down.  Not all of us want to get it over with fast  Bj's are my addiction.  lots of tongue teasing, playing with the balls, etc.

Ohhhhh YEAH

and the women who do them well!

Its more just a nerves/pleasure thing where your nerves are working with you instead of against you.

Start off with, maybe, a mutual massage- or a handjob- or maybe you please her for a bit before its your turn.

The more relaxed yu fell, the less you'll worry about "when" you come.

I could also suggest seeing providers who allow MSOG, like I do- when one just isn't enough  

Maybe its the girls your booking, or your lack on communication "I want you to make me last longer" is usually a pretty easy feat.  

Either way, stop worrying so much and have some fun, will ya?

In most cases I can feel when a man is close and change the motion to prolong things. I have given a 2hour BJ that exhausted my gentlemen friend when he finally exploded.

What can you expect ? Hopefully and honest provider who will give you your time. It's up to you to communicate your desires and let a lady know you don't want to cum yet. Some ladies will keep you on the edge of your seat the whole time like me while others could care whether you last 5 minutes or less.

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I think it depends on how much time you have purchased. They will tell you themselves that they are here to do what ever you want. (within their menu of course)  If you want an hour BJ then that's what you are paying for.  Just don't pay for a 1/4 hour quickie then take an hour to pop. Of course if you pop quicker than that, they won't mind one bit. Then the good providers will find something else that you would like to do for the remainder of the time purchased.
 By the way it almost always takes me a full hour to pop, I haven't had anyone complain yet. Of course I pretty much always see providers in their 40's or over.  Sometimes I can tell the younger one's just want me to cum and get out. Hence the older one's are my preference.
 Have fun, this is a great hobby.

bit of Russian with your fantastic breasts might be just what the dr. ordered of a nice pearl necklace finish.

young providers who are just starting out usually want to get you to pop as quickly as they can so you will leave.

Like what others have said, a true GFE will stay after the pop and offer massage, mutual touching, DATY, etc. to give you your full time.

I would seek out a provider who enjoys and specializes in doing BJs, if that's your main event.  Although, I'm sure most providers would grant your wishes, if you wanted to spend an entire session having a prolong BJ.

I had one ATF who could keep me on the edge for what seemed like hours and she knew exactly when to slow down or stop to keep me going over the edge.  I also know one provider who incorporates tantra into her sessions to prolong the big "O"

I would say communicate with your provider.  They can't help you if they don't know what you want.  Otherwise they'll just go through a routine.

This is the key to success.  The women I've met really do want to please you and hope to keep you entertained for the entire time you have booked.  Now I never cum from a bj, so they can go as long as they want and I don't need to worry about ending too soon.  But talk to the woman and tell het what you want.

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the over 60 board is the best. Great input from a variety of perspectives. I even found a wonderful date through this thread for when I visit DC in June...big hint there. thanks again all.

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I can personally attest that when it comes to these matters, Angelina is definitely one of the best. She delivers, bar none!