Hi Guys,
I'll be 60 this year. I wake up in the mornings with rock hard wood. Very strong and healthy erection which tells me that I have nothing physically wrong. However, I've been taking Sildenafil on play days and it doesn't always work well. I believe it's because I'm not getting excited and it's my libido. I can usually work myself up to where I can have penetration but its not always easy. I don't start with wood. I usually have to eat pussy and get her excited and then her getting turned on gets me going. Just her naked body laying there doesn't do it for me any more like it used to. I have a good interest in sex but I don't feel that horny feeling any more. Meaning I want and desire sex but I don't get very excited about it like I used to. It seems to be a head space thing for me. Getting my head in the right place. My total T level came back at 480 ng which is considered good for my age. Stupid doctor didn't test free T. I noticed that when I'm on a 3 or 4 day fast (I'm working on losing weight) that I can sometimes start getting hard during the day just by thinking for a minute about sex. I need to lose another 30 pounds or so. I have met a woman 10 years younger than me and who needs a lot of sex. I plan to marry her. I was only with her in person for one day (long distance romance) and I didn't get hard out of the gate and it freaked her out. We tried again later that day and then all was good. She started questioning me about if getting hard is a problem (it has been) and I told her no but she was skeptical. So i brought a sugar baby over to my place and fucked her and sent the video to my woman. Lol She has since shut up about the getting hard issue. But I am concerned about the next time I'm with my woman. I picked up some Cialis to try to see if it's better than sildenafil for me. My question for you is -- have any of you improved your libido where you get that "horny" feeling and excited? If so, how? I'm trying some supplements (fenugreek, etc.) but it's too soon to tell.I started taking Vitamin E again about four months ago. It has helped, not a miracle drug, but it helps.
I've been using boron (6 mg per day) and I've noticed a return to a more "normal" level of hardness for me.
I've used Cialis over the last couple of years and, while it will mos' def' get the Dino Dick™ up and at attention for a while, I've noticed a tendency to make it more difficult for me to achieve orgasm.
My ATF gets a bit frustrated when, after a good hour+ of vigorous "goin' at it," I don't cross the finish line. She gives it her all in the effort, and I've called an end to our festivities as we approach our time limits.
So next time, I'm going to visit her without the Cialis enhancement and rely on the results I've been getting the last 3 weeks.
Fingers crossed!
Urologists are better informed on this than us random (randy) guys. It's not only testosterone but prostate and blood flow helped by nitric oxide (some foods and supplements may help).
I’m 60 and my libido ebbs and flows. I use Viagra but take it on an empty stomach; nothing to eat at least four hours before I take it. I also find that if I wait about 90 minutes after I take it it works MUCH better than if I had waited 30-60 minutes. I also find that a tighter condom really helps. Currently I’m using Over Seven and it makes penetration much, much easier.
I get much hornier when I stay more active. When I’m inactive days can go by with hardly even thinking about sex.
As you mentioned, weight loss will help, but even if you’re overweight an uptick in activity should get the libido going stronger.
I think its old age and maybe the meds also. I take v & c for insurance purposes. technicality I dont have ed. but everything varies from poor to good. the experts call it sexual dysfunction and it can get frustrating. my old doctor said it best, alot things have go right for a erection and good sex. if one aspect goes awry, sex will be less than perfect.
I have the same issues at 65. I bought this thing on a whim just to see, and I think it is a game changer. It gives me a hard on like a 16 yo. Need to play with it but I think two shots are back in play. For $9 I would give it a shot.
https://www.amazon.com/Silicone-Adorime-Erection-Enhancing-Couple/dp/B083Z4ZM9P/ref=psdc_1243852011_t3_B09R4GHMG8
I have been seeing one lady for a about 9 years. We have both been through a lot and this last trip to Vegas with her on our last night she got annoyed because even with sildenafil I was having a hard time maintaining an erection. She is nearly 40, and has quit seeing anyone but me. We talked about it over a few days and realized that I am no longer feeling lust for her. Friendship and mutual support, but the thrill is gone.
If a sugar baby turns you on but this woman doesn’t, are you sure she’s the right one?