Hi all... I'm a newbie here and looking for a bit of advice. I am 72 and have not had sex in over 5 years... hell, I'm not even sure if the equipment works anymore. Having said that, I am wondering if anyone has any recommendations on provider's in the southbay area near silicon valley that are amenable to this type of situation? I'm not sure of myself and would really appreciate a provider that is understanding....
Perhaps you should post in your region's forum as you'll probably get a better response.
And welcome to the Hobby. I hope your equipment works and you have lots of fun!
Good Luck!
Not sure if the equipment works? Are you playing hard to get with yourself?
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Here's the secret. They care about the money you are going to hand them. You'll get an hour of their time. And then you will go away. They'll be happy.
I have plenty of experience catering to older gents. I am patient & caring, but also creative. I have many tricks to helping accommodate the special needs of mature gentlemen. Maybe we can be friends. Smile for me! Xoxo
Well, I got 3 ears on you. When I first contact a provider, I always tell her that I am a senior citizen. Haven’t been turned down yet. I try to find older providers, but I live in a fairly rural area, so early 30s s all I can find. Odd ou hit the mattress. Age seems to have no meaning.
One resource I use is P411 in which providers will list if they see seniors. You might be surprised at the number of younger ones that indicate they do. Also, as I aged, I would ask the provider upfront if she saw seniors, or I would begin my messaging with “I’m an older gentleman” so that there were no negative surprises when we first met. Don’t worry. Plenty of wonderful providers who will be happy to see you and might even prefer a more mature man.
For various reasons I'm not as active in the scene as I used to be; but when I venture back in, I haven't had any trouble finding providers willing to see older men. Many will even say they prefer us geezers. Like others who have replied here, if I'm introducing myself to make an appointment, I always mention my age, er, vintage. Haven't yet been declined. Of course there could be a first time, but if there is, I'll just look further.