if you say something she is going to be offended but if you don't you are losing out on what you need.

There's different positions that could help but if a woman doesn't take care of herself appropriately then she will lose strength in her walls and thats not a good thing in this business.

Try a new lady and see if its any better, its your money you need to be happy.

I can't finish with a regular condom either- just not enough feeling or friction for me, now that I'm older and have less sensitivity.

The female condom increases feeling because there's relative movement (friction) between the penis and the condom, whereas with the male condom, the relative movement is between the outside of the condom and the inside of the vagina, which means there's no friction at all against the penis.  That just isn't enough stimulation for many older men to have an orgasm.

Especially if you have nothing to compare it to. Are you seeing any other ladies besides her? If not maybe seeing if that makes a difference could answer the question easy. If you have the same problem with another lady no need to make waves.

Also try a different condom than what your using. Latex can be thicker with less feeling of warmth than a polyurethane type. I like the idea of using a female condom. Also sometime to much lube makes it way to wet and slippery so try a little less.

Are you using any ED pill to enhance your time ?  I have a few friends that have a problem cumming on the pill and opt for oral with a little hand boost. It's only in the end and they like watching now.

Kisses Haley

combinations.  FM condom is worth a shot.  A change in position to a place where you can get the pressure where it needs to be.   I doubly agree, at a certain point I just need conclusion.  Oral & add hand as necessary or HJ alone.  I quickly learned to request a HJ if we did not conclude & time was getting close.
As a Fav lady told me...  this is why she is a Fav...  no matter what it takes, no matter how long it takes, we will finish what we start.   And we have.
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In mish, after you enter her, have her draw her legs together and place your legs outboard of hers, then use your legs to squeeze her legs even farther together.

It makes for an excellent amount of pressure, and helps to achieve orgasm.

When that doesn't do the trick, I withdraw after a while and remove the condom, and either do a hand job, or cum on her stomach or thighs.

Whatever floats the old boat.

OMG Awesome Post!

Funny too, so kegel's are very import to incorporate in your everyday routine.  If you don't wish to move on to another provider because of the obvious years of great chemistry, then try requesting a kinky session, like watching her urinate, which can be very erotic & tell her to hold it, wait, let go, and hold it, etc....


After make love, and indicate that the kegel watching was fun maybe she would, like to see how long she can hold it in her spare time practicing tightening her secret muscle.  I am, doing kegel's now why typing it is fantastic!

You can always buy her one of these tools below.

Have you tried

accessorizing with toys?  I recently purchased a "We-Vibe" and it definitely makes things tighter for the man.  Of course the vibrations are outstanding for both parties.  mmmhmmm.....