I'm travelling. Actually I'm on a yacht right now but that's another story.  2 days before leaving on this trip I had a first visit with a new provider/SB. At her suggestion we had an overnight! It was spectacular. She is beautiful, incredibly sexually responsive, and the fact that she's 50 years younger than me is also a huge turn on. I can't wait to see her again but I won't be home  for another week at the soonest. Normally I would have had a follow up second date much sooner so the delay is really frustrating. And I can't wait to visit my long term atf when I return as well. Do you guys and gals miss your favorite playmates when you are separted?

Whether SB (not for me, you guys do as you wish) or provider, the primary directive here is "do not get attached", or so I thought (think).

Otherwise why not simply go into a regular relationship?

Just my deux centimes...

Good question. I do have a regular relationship. We love each other very much and are totally open and honest about our mutual desire to enjoy a variety of intimacies in our lives. We practice polyamory, as ethically as possible. As much as I like casual sex, I also like casual love. So I make no attempt to stay unattached. On the contrary, I give myself emotionally and lovingly to all the women in my life whether they accept and reciprocate or not. I strive to do this without any feelings of jealousy or posessiveness, and generally succeed. But it is bittersweet leaving on a trip knowing I won't see these lovely lovers for several weeks.

when my Bennys leave town.

Enjoy your time away to let the desire build...your next date is going to be awesome!

...the more the merrier.  Seriously if you visit too often it looses excitement.  My favorite playmates are the ladies in Tampa and they are not far away!