If the Lady Companion is genuine with it and not just doing it to 'perform', then I love it.
Especially if she's whispering it in a breathy voice in my ear. Very hot!
It's a turn-off if it's forced and gratuitous. Keep it real!

Those young whippersnappers don't have a monopoly on individuality.

Which is another way to say every guy is different - even us old guys. For me, it depends on what your idea of "dirty taliking" is. I love it when a woman tells me in no uncertain terms what she's feeling, what she wants, and what she's going to do to me.  But if it sounds like she spent 30 years in the Navy... that might be overdoing it a tad.  

And I'd love dirty talk in Spanish. I wouldn't understand it, but I bet it would sound sexy as hell !

One lady who meant well was so over the top IMHO that I started laughing; couldn't help myself.  Same thing goes for the way too dramatic moaning and screaming.

I hate dirty talk — about excretory functions instead of sex functions.
I hate cursing — about (usually) nothing, often misusing sex words or dirty words “for emphasis".

Can we please talk about what we’re enjoying, wanting, planning?
Can we please not dirty it up with outhouse stinks, or reminders of them?  

Sex can be messy, but it isn’t dirty/filthy (at least, that’s not my kink).  
If you suck my cock, if I lick your clit, they should be clean before and after.  
Semen isn’t filthy, neither is pussy juice.  Not disgusting to me or (I hope) to you.  
OK?

This older man wants you not to be confused, nor to sound confused, between pleasure and filth.  

The best thing anyone ever said to me was a provider, softly in my ear as I was about to penetrate her, “Fuck me.”  Just once, but I remember it with tingles to this day

pero necesito aprender mas espanol para hablando correctamente.  Quiero poner mi lengua en su cono.  Correcto?

been with providers who have said things like "I just love to suck your cock" which to me is fine. Do I really believe it, not realy.

I have also been with providers who say things like "stick it in my fuck hole" which to me is a bit beyond what I want to hear.

Just my 2 cents.

nm

After all, we are dirty old men, aren't we?

I bet hearing it in Spanish would be a turn on.

Give me an example of what you consider dirty talk. PM me if you like.

I can use those dirty nasty words as good as the best dirty talker but find it vulgar myself. I do talk about using your tongue in certain ways or moving in different directions or perhaps the taste and feel of my juices. I will say fuck me but when i'm usually in the heat of the moment. The funny thing is I can feel when my conversation is not appreciated. It either lends something to the experience or it get's lost in translation and my partner seems to lose his momentum. You really do feel loss of momentum long before it's all that noticeable. I really do get lost in the moment and have to turn the switch off so my partner can enjoy himself more. Many men do hate any type of verbal stimulation that interferes with their mood or concentration.  

Kisses Haley

Which was pretty hard core re sex, drugs, partying and so on. We might seem mellow and whatever on the outside, but inside is a different story.   If a provider is not putting on an act with the dirty talk, then bring it on.   What you have to say is likely pretty tame  compared to what were used to during our 'prime'.  Older does not necessarily mean conservative or needing to be sheltered.

If you're talking dirty in another language you could be telling me you're walking your dog at the beach and I'd go crazy. I understand Spanish a little so I might know what you're saying. But if your naked an speaking another language to me I'd be in heaven. Or a southern or Australian accent. I'm all yours.  

Personally I like two types of banter during sex.  

First, I would like a provider to give me signals she enjoys what I am doing.  It can be verbal, words, or the way she kisses me during foreplay.  I am not looking for "your cock is so big" (which is a lie as I know the older version of my cock is not) or any of that kind of stuff*

Second, I do like the occasional teasing conversation.  Example, while in foreplay and messaging a providers pedals, I whispered to her a question, "what is it like when a guy cums in your mouth"? I was pleasantly surprised when she purred back that she loves the hot explosion inside, the heat.  Man did that get me going.  

Finally, there is my ATF.  Her beauty is so striking, in every way, I just whisper how beautiful she is.  Not sure if she believes me, but it is true.  

*I have, on three separate occasions unsolicited - and with a few civilians,  been told I shot an abnormally large load.  Peter North I am not but it puts a smile on my face

Dirty Talk

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