I'm 64 in good shape, drug and alcohol free and exercise daily and full night's sleep. My testosterone level is fine for my age according to my doc, yet my climaxes over the last few months don't have the same sensation, and seems that I ejaculate with less fluid/sperm. Anyone here have similar at this age?
I still enjoy the euphoria in climaxing but it feels less than a "shot my full load" climax. A little uncomfortable about trying testosterone if the doc says my levels are OK. My sex drive and desire are just a little above "OK" recently. Could be stress related to work or just getting older. When I go to TJ for a 2-3 day trip, first night no problem, second and third nights, gotta work much harder to pop. I do keep in perspective however, that when I was in my 40s and 50s, I did not have sex every day, maybe 1-2 times a week.It's normal to release less semen as you get older. Just a natural function of aging. It still beat the alternative. I strongly recommend against testosterone injections if your serum testosterone is normal - too risky from a cardiovascular perspective.
I think the most intense orgasms come from hand jobs. That's because the physical stimulus is the most intense and prolonged.
I'm 69 and my climaxes have decreased also. I know when I climax and thats about it. I was losing sensation also but got it back with a pump that was suggested on another site, I'm hoping to get more climax back. on the other site --ank t--k it seems it just old age and all the pills, injections just get you hard. my feeling is keep using it or you will lose it.
this is what advanced age has in store for all of us.
I’m 70, and have been noticing an accelerating decline for over 10 years.
So, what to do?
Good diet and exercise can help.
Some recommend testosterone, but I’ve had no experience with it
Seeing good tantra providers is something I’ve found to be one answer. I saw one recently and my release was incredible. Like back when I had hair on my scalp.
Here’s hoping you can slow the clock down.
I'm 67 and things are definitely not the same as even 5 years ago. Doggie was always a sure thing...now I can't even stay hard long enough to cum at all. The only thing left that works is bbj and that's about 60%. At least a week out, I stop masturbating and stop watching porn. It helps but still not the same intensity.
I guess it varies. .Just did a two-day trip to TJ and I popped with condom (RCG and missionary) with two different girls over two days. Saw a third one at night on day two and it felt good but I could not pop as I think there is a limit , or maybe not. I have recently popped twice withing 24 hours watching porn, so I guess it is the mood and circumstance. New chicas that are exciting to me make the pop better. The climaxes this time were better than last trip.
Yes, I don't watch as much porn or pop before a trip to TJ, but I have read it is good to release sperm regularly so body reproduces it. Finally, I still prefer a handjob with DFK because I think it is more intense.
our state has recently legalize pot for recreational use. I did some researching and it seems to help some people with sensitivity and dull orgasms. has anybody tried it and what was the results or thoughts on the matter.
Cannabis is known to heighten one's sensory perceptions. Food tastes better, music sounds richer, jokes are funnier, orgasms are more intense. If you are new to the world of cannabis proceed slowly and cautiously. That's especially true with edibles. Start low and go slow. It takes time - sometimes an hour or more - to metabolize edibles and the effects can last for hours. If you take too much you may feel uncomfortable, but don't worry you won't die. Personally, I prefer to micro-dose - relaxed/lightly high. Achieving that effect requires 'trial and error' dose experimentation. Stay on your home turf too. Don't get behind the wheel. Good luck and enjoy the experience.
I can usually cum early in a session. In fact generally have to fight off cumming during an initial blow job or when first fucking. But if I avoid cumming long enough there is a definite transition to a state where it takes very vigorous physical stimulation to achieve an O. Since I enjoy longer encounters it's pretty often that I end up in the difficult to O situation. But I still prefer that to cumming too early.
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That's when its a good time to finish with a hand job, which can be very vigorous. And a little trick that seems to work for me is to have her squeeze my balls a little (most are very cautious with that so I always have to tell them to squeeze harder.) For some reason this can put me over the threshold and I can actually feel the O originating from my balls. It's now my default suggestion when an O isn't easily coming. Just a tip, might not work for anyone else. But works for me.
Man your reply is actually my modus operandi!
Easier for me to come early in a session, and much harder if I hold back from popping. Then I have to finish with the escort giving me a handjob, and it takes much more work to pop. Yes I have them work the balls too but I'm not sure I want her to squeeze them LOL.
Unless you're with a dominatrix the ladies are afraid to squeeze hard. I have to keep telling them to squeeze harder.
...on them like milking a cow. With the right rhythm, it's udderly fantastic.
I am older than the originator of this thread and probably older than almost all who responded. My advice--forget about the volume. That just goes away with age. Orgasm without ejaculation is a real "thing" and I know I am headed for it. But, much to my surprise and delight, age has not diminished the intensity. In fact, quite the opposite--I have had the best orgasms of my life since passing the 70 mark. Experimentation has brought great rewards. Bondassage, tantra, tease and denial, edging--whatever leads to a long slow build up has been the key to success, at least for me. So don't sweat it. Just enjoy it!