first of all let me congratulate you on caring enough to care..people like you do not come along every day..to answer your query..it all depends on his frailty..can he dance? i would take him out to hotspot in dc that is primarily a younger person hangout..he will have a blast..younger girls tend to gravitate toward older distinguished gentlemen..he will be reliving his youth and be the center of attention..he will dance the night away with some pretty young women who will not be shy..you of course might be a little jealous but you will get over it..of course the above suggestion all depends on if and only if he can handle it..otherwise just cook him that gourmet dinner with no excitement involved..he has you there with him..i am sure in his mind that will be more than enough to make him happy..

85???

Oh I salute the dude.  Dang may I live that long let alone get it on.  Well you did FFM can you add an F?  Just an idea.  I cant think of anything else.  Food, sex, sports and booze seems to cover most men.  Maybe his favorite beverage cascading across the breasts of a beautiful woman.  Would be different lol.

You could get another lady or two to be the tables and you be the cook and dinner date.

Even if it is only to be with you, Let him enjoy the sights and sounds of sex all around you as you pleasure him. If none in your area, invite a few couples to join the two of you when you give him his birthday present.  Please let us know what you decide. And yes, I can just imagine what this thread would be like on another board

Wow.....

...that blows me away. What an incredibly nice thing to do. I can only hope I have such great friends at that age.....let alone make it to there..A very sweet gift.

I did this for a friend who is single and very much of a friend. We shared many birthdays and he always loved me in my natural look. I went to Glamor shots for photos in his favorite dress wearing a necklace he gave me. It's easy to get pictures made into an 8 by 10. I bought a beautiful frame which is always by his bedside now. I wrote a note about the many special moments we shared in a beautiful card. This would only be special to someone who really cares for you and must be single.

Kisses Haley

move my age ahead to 84 so I can have the same kind of celebration in a few months?

I hope he realizes how lucky he is to have you as a friend and lover.

Dear Angelina:
I was wondering why don't you ask him what he likes to do or where he likes to go. when you get an answer include the social fun that he likes to experience at no extra charge. You can make the event like a typical night being shared by two friends and I am sure that he would appreciate it. In fact when you get the date set give him a call and surprise him with the series of events that he would like to do during the course of the date. I am sure that it would be a memorable day since he is one of your favorite clients.

a light dinner out followed by premium sests to a game (e. g. Caps oe Wizards) followed by some quality time with his personal cheer leader could make for a memorable evening.  If  he's a baseball fan you'd have to mait a while but the club/premium seats with clubhouse buffet experience is also top notch.  Otherwise a concert or a stage show might do it; with the Arena Stage, Kennedy Center, National, Warner & Ford's Theaters, there's a lot to choose from.

This is a hard one (no pun intended) as we really do not know the 85 year old, nor his predilections.   The only thing I could come up with is a lingerie show.  Possibly several ladies.  After the  show you can help him unwind.

R&R! (Couple Retreat Desire, Cancun)

How about a trip for 2, and you can indulge in the couples massage I highly recommend!

Hi Sweetie.  I'm a March baby and I can tell you, living around D.C., if I'm doing something outside on my birthday it probably involves shoveling snow most years.  Try an afternoon date in Annapolis, the Inner Harbor or National Harbor.  Maybe a late lunch or early dinner then you can be dessert.  Or maybe a limo ride around the cherry blossoms.

HA... give him a "super senior" discount!!!  I just looked at your web page.... I'm surprised he's still alive!!!!  If the ole boy is still getting it on with you..... believe me.....he's a happy boy.... and I'm really jealous.