they say the eyes are the mirror of the soul..have you ever been with a provider and see the passion in their eyes..i have..and i also have seen the opposite..cold and indifferent..what say you?
I agree, eye gazing is a wonderful thing to do with the right person, and when a person is not feeling it, the eyes will tell you right away that something is wrong.
anywhere else, doing anything else.
I have to laugh when I hear guys on the GD board that talk about how great they are at DATY or how many orgasms they give the women they're with. If they'd take a moment to look at their sex partner's hands they would have a much better idea if they're really taking them to orgasmic ecstasy, or just getting their egos stroked by an expert provider.
was with a favorite of mine who I was going to see for the 4th time or so. When I left my work site I texted her that I was on my way; she immediately came back with "Great, I'm SO EXCITED!" When I go to the location and entered the room, my first impression was that I coould actually see the excitement n her eyes! Needless to say, that set the mood for one of the sweetest & sexiest sessions I've ever experienced, because I was so turned on at her excitement to see me. I've always believed the eyes don't lie!
especially when you are engaged in a wonderful session. eye contact is important but when the eyes are soft looking then you have it...that is one way to tell believe me there is a difference there is lust , passion and a caring for that person when you hit it off, that can never be faked... just my two cents...
Or an ass man I tell them I have become an "eye man" since all I can do is look these days..At least that is my story to the outside world. I do absolutely enjoy the eyes of the beautiful ladies I see and do more than look at. Over the years,several ladies have let me photograph them in various stages of undress and I took the most beautiful eyes and created a collage of eyes in the sky.
I have to agree with Robin, Please explain?
Tori Blake
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We express a lot through our hands. For example, think about what your hands are doing at the dentist's office. Are they relaxed, or are you gripping the armrest because of tension or stress (I personally grip the shit out of the armrests, even when I try to relax).
A woman's hands during sex are equally expressive and if they're just lying there limp, she's not really that into it. If she's gripping the sheets or you, or showing some other reaction, then she's feeling it. It's just one more "tell" to judge the response of your partner- obviously, there are others.
Watch the hands of a porn actress if you want to see this for yourself. Ignore the ridiculous soundtrack and just watch her hands. Or listen to the sound track and see how totally out of synch it is with what she's actually feeling. Now, some porn stars can actually get into it if the scene is allowed to run and the director doesn't stop the action 10 times for lighting or camera placement, and you can see that as well.
I'm sure the good porn girls know how to fake that too, but the average civie girl will tell you a lot with her hands during sex.
Lady I have been seeing now. First time I saw her, the look of Lust in her eyes absolutely blew me away. It will forever haunt me (in a great way!) And every time since then. I have never seen that look before. OMG.
That I was first made aware of this about 15 years ago by a porn director. On several occasions, I rented my airplane hangar, and the toys it contained, as props to a company that arranged locations for a group of erotic photographers.
Naturally, I needed to attend the photo shoots to make sure nothing got damaged. During one of the shoots, I had some time to speak with the guy that brought all the models, most of whom were moonlighting porn stars. He had directed porn in the San Fernando Valley (I live in So.Cal., so it's not that unusual). As we killed time talking about some of the models, he told me that looking at a girl's hands during sex is how they can tell she's really into what she's doing during a scene, or if she's just going through the motions.
Despite the cheesy production values of most porn, they do realize that if a girl isn't into it, it will come across to the audience. So they look at her hands to see what she's really feeling, because most actresses know to control their faces (it's acting after all).
The only time I've ever noticed a gal's hands is when they were on my cock.
Thanks for bring this up.
Oh, by the way, I found some footage of you at your dentist's office recently, and you are absolutely right about your hands.
I wonder how many chairs that poor guy goes through.
(Check the clip at time reference 1:40)
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Valerie so very true, eyes say it all.