I’m curious if older gentleman prefer more menu options as opposed to just vanilla GFE?
for me, as long as there is lots of DFK, hand roaming, and the rest of the normal GFE stuff, I'm happy.
LLAP,
Swim
I totally agree with you mate
I'm more of a "risque" type during my longer rendezvous. On my short visits, I'm more of a "hit it and quit it" thing.....I'm an enigma...lol.
If you are referring to any "Kink" like BDSM, then no, not for me.
If a gal will do CIM, I like to see my load before it goes down the hatch, or flow onto her breasts.
Outside of that, GFE is just fine with me.
I'm not into swinging from the ceiling fan so vanilla GFE is fine for me. But being older and using a cover, passionate DFK throughout is essential. Otherwise, it's hard to get aroused enough to finish.
In my case, I'm carrying enough extra weight I'd be nervous getting into a sex swing. 
DATY, BBBJ, DFK, massage - no FS
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I'm turning 70 in a few months. I remain interested in the same sorts of activities I've been interested in since being a teenager. So I don't think that really changes with age.
Yeah, I've gotten more filthy as I get older. When i was just starting out it was about how many times I could cum. Now I'm much more interested in greek, toys, red ropes, all that shit. I like girls that I can get to know a little bit and we can both relax.
As I just turned 70, I find my ability is still good, but my sense of urgency is much greater. I feel the need to have more good sex more often, before I lose the ability or pass. I like the same things I liked at 25.
Sadly, since I retired, my income is fixed, and is losing value daily with this inflation. So, I need to keep costs under control. No $500/hr providers for me. Damn!
Let's act with agility/
Because we'll soon reach senility
And lose the ability
Tom Lehrer
Vanilla GFE works fine for me. Foreplay, making out, touchy-feely, etc...Doesn't take much to please me pretty lady!
...have a crush fetish or want to wrestle etc (or rather me dominate them during wrestling).
I'm not mad at it :--) but there's been quite an uptick in that for me.
Like this?
Hell yeah!!! Love the visual from down there. Especially when she is really into it.
Pussy worship & smothering
I love the visual. Yes! Sign me up. Lol smile for me! Xoxo
Love that to be you on my face Queen with my balls restrained like that. Hell yes.
Where did this term or how did it cum about ?
Vanilla then add some nuts or wipcream ... (o)(o)
"Plain vanilla" for years has been used as a term for the most basic and unexciting version of any service or experience.
I was one of the first to use the term GFE on the alt.sex.prostitution newsgroup with 300 baud packet readers before there were websites. It was a "GIRLFRIEND" experience meaning a for-the-moment interaction as a real person, intimacy like with a girlfriend. It had NOTHING to do with sex acts. It later was perverted to mean something totally different.
I am age 76 and have always enjoyed more intimacy and sensuality and caring touch giving a massage, caressing, holding tenderly not just sex acts. I now mostly enjoy in Canada without any legal issues and reviews on the huge boards that often review personality and not just sex acts and the huge great agencies.
Just seeing this or would have jumped on it sooner. Absolutely more curious as getting older, and have enjoyed everything (almost) that I have tried. For example, bondassage--expensive right? But love it in the hands of a true practitioner. Bring it on!
It’s funny because I’ve been offering these services way before they had a name for it & charged to teach providers. Some of us are self taught with years of experience. Kind reminds me of culinary arts who want $20k to train you it’s not necessary to be successful.
Agreed--credentialing is no guarantee of quality. Creativity and enthusiasm are the keys.