As we age, happy endings are often a lot less than they were in our teens and twenties.  However, often the quality of the happy ending is better than ever, especially if the provider can work with the hobbyist to make it last longer.  Have any of you had particular good experiences with providers who helped make it a longer experience?  I've had several FBSM's that were almost (!) as good as full sex.  Having a provider that can bring you to the edge, back off a bit and then work it again can lead to a more explosive orgasm in my opinion.  Combine it with a prostrate massage and it can be mindblowing. I've found a few who are good at this, but for the most part it is the more mature provider who can make it work.  Reactions?  Recommendations?

I love to lick, tease, please and then back off, make that bj last the entire session if the guy can handle it that long.

The longer I can keep him from releasing, the stronger the orgasam is.

.....it's slow, sweet, attentive, affectionate etc

.....this video gives a good display....it starts about the 45 min mark.  http://www.metacafe.com/watch/5608703/yoni_lingam_massage/

I do love offering slow journey to the clients who ask that. (some people mention about that in reviews about me)

Many clients especially older ones and very sensual types are really happy about my special service which I learned in Japan.

And I DO enjoy doing that. I just love  bringing them slowly to the ultimate intense pleasure after a long, sensual tease and denial act.

By far, that defines my best hobbying experiences. Ladies - please take note. If you can do that, You are the ones that I will want to come back to again and again.

but even with the best tantrika, I sometimes get so excited by them that I ejaculate more quickly than I would have prefered to.

This happened just recently, and what is even more amazing is that I had come several times the day before with another provider.

Sometimes the intensity of a particular gal is just so strong that it overcomes age and physical condition.  I'm not complaining though, I'd do it all over again, and I'm sure I will.

For tease and denial, Brenda Boobies, but there are more out there, I'm starting a bucket list.

Any good ones in the Washington DC vicinity?