This is an observation, not a statistical discovery. To have any statistical validity I would have to have been with over 1000 different over 45 providers (hmmm, goal?). However, the observation is that I have yet to find a 45+ provider who did not seem to really be enjoying herself. Along with that, they seem to show much more care in ensuring you feel special.
As I said, no validity here, and some of this may be generational. Thirty years from now, there may be a completely different dynamic. Hmmm, another goal, got to check them out in 30 years!
So you may be looking back 20 or 30 years from now and thinking about the time you posted on TER. Who knows TER might still be around and you could link to this post.
One thing for sure, good companions no matter there age are always desirable. Every time I think it's time to retire someone talks me out of it. Then I think of all I would miss and change my mind altogether. Yup, I'm having more fun being just who I am so why change anything. It's great to feel wanted and desired and also to look at it as lovers and friends is a bonus. New gentlemen are always an adventure and the anticipation can be so exciting.
Kisses Haley
But it does ring true in many cases. It would appear that the older the provider the more the scenario plays out as you mentioned. I am not sure why exactly and it isnt true everytime either. I have seen younger ladies do the same. My guess if I had to make one is all in the mind. The younger ones tend to depend on thier physical presence to do the trick. With some age there appears to be more wisdom and the fantasy is taken to new and deeper levels. Like wine just getting better with age.
men and women react the same with age..we all have learned to appreciate it more..good sex is like a fine wine..we dont guzzle it down like we did when we were younger..now we sip it..we savor it..foreplay..kissing..cuddling are more important to us now instead of just ramming it home..a good session is exploring and touching..more sensual and less robotic..we probably have a lot fewer sessions now compared to when we were younger..but each one one we have now just seems to be more and more enjoyable..
Every companion whom I have been with that is 40 plus really seems to be enjoying herself and really seems out to please and make sure that I am enjoying myself as well. OTOH, so has evey provider except for two in the 20s and 30s range. Hardly the basis yet for a generaliztion.
girls in their teens or twenties have little interest or skill while we guys are raging sexual maniacs. women peak in their 30's and plateau after that. We guys are still raging in comparison...look who's paying 
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I have also been with a number of ladies in the 26-45 age range who also are really interested in making sure both of us really enjoy ourselves. I agree that younger than that it may not be the same, but I've had a fairly firm no one under 25 rule for a while so can't speak with authority about them. In the futile attempt to prove a negative, I will say that I can remember no lady over 40 who didn't seem totally comfortably with her sexuality and very skilled at making sure both of us ended up happy. Thank you, mature ladies!
definately something positive about seeing MILF ladies.
Lately, I've been seeing GILFs, and enjoying every minute.
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We GILFS have fun too!
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