Ladies,

Is there a proper way for us guys to ask if you would like to use a female condom?  This direct question doesn't seem appropriate to ask up front, and, I'm not aware that there is any generally-accepted slang term to use in the outside world.  I'm thinking of a question like, "Will you be bringing your own raincoat?" or something like that.  On the other hand, I don't want to break the mood during the session by asking the question in the heat of the moment followed by a "time out" to do the deployment.  If it's appropriate for us to bring one along, is there a generally-preferred brand?  

From what I've read, they seem like the next best thing to going "au natural."  At our age, that's important!

Huh?  Why the hesitancy?  Just ask the girl if she is okay with a FC and does she prefer providing her own. She all most certainly will.  

I think the most valuable part at our age is that it can be inserted early and there is no delay after foreplay putting on a conventional one.  My feeling.  Its about the same as a quality polyisoprene (skyn) version with lots of good silicone lube (pink).  I've have learned to bring my own.

...when going to an outcall.

  FC's are wonderful, but they take a bit of practice.  Practice does make perfect!

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

This is now included in profiles, but not everyone has marked it.  I always have them with me, but if you want to ask in advance, this is the accepted way.

Some gals could take the reference the wrong way and think that you are LE trying to get them to incriminate themselves.

I would ask after the first date (If you liked the gal.) and then see if she is willing to use a FC on the second date.

Or, you could bring some FCs (in a sealed box) and ask after the meeting has started, but as pointed out, installing the FC takes some practice, so that may not work out.

profile in P411.  so I reference them to read my profile and then they know and can decide if we proceed.  that it is known before I get to the room

Preferred411 is big in my area. I put a request to have the FC installed before I arrive, in the short essay that's part of my P411 Profile. Guess I'll find out now if anyone ever reads it.

Don't you think "inserted" would be a better way to put it! lol

I stay stocked and they are always my go-to protection unless someone requests otherwise.

Seriously, they feel better for everyone involved and they never fall off (even if a member isn't hard) --- it's just a matter of time until they become a household name.

xoxox
Tori