One of the benefits  of being older is  enjoying a nice and long FBSM with a special lady.  Having her focus on my needs and not worrying about having to provide anything in return is a wonderful treat.  If you haven't tried it, find a provider in your area that provides this kind of service and simply enjoy it.  Done correctly, it's damn near as good as full sex and can bring out intense excitement and pleasure.  Light and soft caresses, a bit of teasing, a slow build up to the final climax and one is left in a wonderful place.  I'd be interested in hearing from others how you felt about the experience as well as those providers who have a special ability in this area!

and I also do FBSM with several gals as well, expecially with tantrikas.

I totally agree with your assessment.

its part of why they come to see me. Knowing that they will get a real massage and playtime all in one.

There are just too few of them. I really enjoy ladies who like to PLAY!

I've been hobbying for less than a year, but long enough to know that I don't care so much for a one-hour, go-through-all-the-positions-as-quickly-as-possible situation any more.  I tend to schedule longer sessions (90, 120 minutes) whenever possible.  And, I like to give a massage as well as get one.  Gives me a chance to explore her gorgeous body, both visually and tactile-ly.  The look and feel of a gorgeous woman's body while slowing massaging it--at my leisure and my pace--are not to be missed.  Then, too, I have some FBSM ladies who will allow touching, too.  Not much more that I require...and usually a lot less $$$ than the full escort service.

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Had it once and it was really very enjoyable

but it seems the men I have met don't really care to enjoy one.  Even the ones that have longer sessions with me.  I chalk it up to them enjoying my oral skills so much that they pass on the massage.  **wink**