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First of all, get yourself VIP status to learn about the gals you are considering seeing.  Considering the amount of $ you invest in the session, VIP is very short money to invest to maximize your return.

As far as BBFS goes, there's plenty written on that in the various threads on many boards here, so do some research on those if VD is a big issue for you.  I would think that you would not want to go there if health safety is a big issue for you.  In addition to the female condoms mentioned, you can always avoid using a condom by doing other than vaginal sex, for example oral or Russian (beween her tits) or Italian (between her butt cheeks).  They feel just about as wonderful as BBFS, IMHO.  Even a good hand job is a wonderful experience if done by a real pro.

You will not be able to obtain any meaningful information regarding her health status, so don't hope for that.

The fact that she travels is not a problem, many quality gals do.

The fact that she appears on Backpage is not in and of itself proof of anything, but many ripoff artists do use Backpage, so you want to make sure that the gal has many good reviews on TER or elsewhere before taking a chance on her.  This gal has only one review, so that makes her  a bit iffy.  (The reviewer however is welll known on TER's boards, however.)

Have you read the Self Help Manual that is linked on this board?  If not, I suggest doing so ASAP.  Knowledge is power in this hobby.

Recently just found out about this whole world of escorting/hobbying and found a few girls I really would like to try out. Problem is I am very scared of catching an STD from one of these women, so I havent called yet. wanted to get some experienced people's opinions and advice.

i found a girl on backpage that appeals to me and wanted to kno wat you guys think. i heard alot of people avoid backpage and i would like to kno why. are they more prone to std's on that site??? and wat sother sites do u recommend??? (im in philadelphia)

also i would like to go raw with this girl (no condoms) because I hate condoms, but i kno it increases std risk greatly. is there any way to kno if this girl is clean?? check for bumps in private area, sores in/or around mouth

in our session i was planning on giving and receiving oral, and sex with no condom.
NO ANAL
maybe a little kissing

here is a link to her reviews on site but im not vip so i cant see everything....
http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=196323

it seems she travels from state to state.. is that more cause for concern???


any help would be appreciated..

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You really need to spend sometime reading the boards to get a feel how the hobby community feels about bbfs. There is no bigger "third rail" than bbfs.  While it is part of hobbying, and now being discussed and written about openly in reviews on TER, for safety reasons you really should rethink your strategy.  I've been doing this for quite awhile, and in the beginning like many hobbyists didn't like using covers, but I used them.
Now there are FC (female condoms) which gives you almost the same feel as bbfs. BTW, I have been offered bbfs from providers, I always decline.

to the STD part of this, girls can get pregnant (hey it happens).  I wont get into the whole abortion debate, but there are plenty of providers that probably wouldn't have an abortion.  Talk about an EXPENSIVE session - one you could be paying for every month for the next 18 years.  That's probably your biggest risk with bbfs.

As far as the STD thing goes the only way your going to really minimize that is for both of you to be tested, but even that's not 100%, and it costs $200 - $400 depending on where you live.

Good luck, play safe, and have fun!!

WTF, BP and BBFS?? Learn to do this P4P the correct way, or don't do it at all. Stay away from BP and forget BBFS.
Find a well reviewed lady here on TER and don't be cheap!! Your just asking for trouble if ya don't see the right ladies and do things the right way.

First of all, get yourself VIP status to learn about the gals you are considering seeing.  Considering the amount of $ you invest in the session, VIP is very short money to invest to maximize your return.

As far as BBFS goes, there's plenty written on that in the various threads on many boards here, so do some research on those if VD is a big issue for you.  I would think that you would not want to go there if health safety is a big issue for you.  In addition to the female condoms mentioned, you can always avoid using a condom by doing other than vaginal sex, for example oral or Russian (beween her tits) or Italian (between her butt cheeks).  They feel just about as wonderful as BBFS, IMHO.  Even a good hand job is a wonderful experience if done by a real pro.

You will not be able to obtain any meaningful information regarding her health status, so don't hope for that.

The fact that she travels is not a problem, many quality gals do.

The fact that she appears on Backpage is not in and of itself proof of anything, but many ripoff artists do use Backpage, so you want to make sure that the gal has many good reviews on TER or elsewhere before taking a chance on her.  This gal has only one review, so that makes her  a bit iffy.  (The reviewer however is welll known on TER's boards, however.)

Have you read the Self Help Manual that is linked on this board?  If not, I suggest doing so ASAP.  Knowledge is power in this hobby.

according to her one and only review - she is everything covered, you wont even get a bb bj from her.  

Her reviewer has written plenty of reviews so the review itself is probably an honest one but thats not to say all reviewers will have the same experience.  You should check out ladies who have a few reviews under their belt to see if they are consistently good or if they have a mix of good and bad -  who's to say she knew this one reviewer was going to write her a review and she wanted to be sure she got a good one so she made sure to treat him special?

There was a time d bthat even mentioning BBFS in here would get the post tossed, and candidly I would avoid any provider who you had seen on the assumption that you convinced ONE of them to do BBFS.

This community is very much like the porn community - we are dependent on each other to "play safe" for our OWN protection.  One "rogue" hobbyist/provider INSTANTLy endangers the rest of us.  In other words, the girl you fuck today is the one I fuck tomorrow (or yesterday).  How well do you know ME (or the guys who slept with the girls I slept with last month/year) ?

If you don't like male condoms - find a female condom friendly provider (as someone else pointed out, it feels like the real thing - almost).

And btw - HIV/AIDS/FATAL DISEASE is totally undetectable physically in the early phases.

And btw2 - get VIP.  The generous regular responders on this board are not here to do the homework on a provider that you should be doing.

This indicates newbie, not that that's a bad thing.  However, asking a girl who gives a covered bj to do BBFS?  Seriously doubt if it would happen.  If you are so scared of contracting something, why would you even consider asking a provider to do bbfs?  You are not alone in your dislike of condoms, many of us share your disdain for them, but they are a necessary safety net for all concerned.  As previously stated, you may find yourself having difficulty making future appts. when providers read this post of yours.

Backpage is not necessarily a bad place to look, but you have got to do the research on your potential providers.  You can look anywhere, but check her out thoroughly.  Right now, I recommend that you read the self help center, link under the life preserver at the top of this page.  While this girl's reviewer has more than enough reviews to qualify as a vet, you do not.  No veteran here, male of female, is going to recommend you see a girl with only one review.  

Lots of girls travel, but nothing on her profile to indicate she is a traveler, only her phone number would indicate she's from somewhere else.  But, all 3 of her ads are in Maryland, so who knows?  Just because she tours a lot, at least you think she does, is not a red flag.  I'm seeing a provider next week, who is on tour almost all the time, but she has been around quite a while, with the reviews to back up her rep.

Swim

Use Female condoms or FC2's.  Many of us, including myself carry them.  No excuses not to use a condom!  NONE!

As many of us have children and families we intend to stick around for and be there for because we are needed.  Your 5 minutes of pleasure is certainly never going to override my lifetime.

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-- Modified on 5/5/2012 7:35:46 PM

in an e-mail or on the phone, I will not see you.

If you ask me for BBFS during our appointment, I will have to let any women who contact me for a reference know that you requested this and most, if not all, of them will not see a gentleman who has requested it.  Some women also blacklist men who ask for BBFS.  

Do not request BBFS at any time, IMHO.  

Hills said it's been offered to him, so I guess if she offers it and would like to do it with you, she will let you know.

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Unlike the others, I am NOT going to blow sunshine up your ass and sugar coat things for you.

Hobbying is inherently a risky business. The fact that you're nervous tells me that you already know this.

Don't play with fire if you are afraid of getting burned.

Posted By: jamiro12
Recently just found out about this whole world of escorting/hobbying and found a few girls I really would like to try out. Problem is I am very scared of catching an STD from one of these women, so I havent called yet. wanted to get some experienced people's opinions and advice.

i found a girl on backpage that appeals to me and wanted to kno wat you guys think. i heard alot of people avoid backpage and i would like to kno why. are they more prone to std's on that site??? and wat sother sites do u recommend??? (im in philadelphia)

also i would like to go raw with this girl (no condoms) because I hate condoms, but i kno it increases std risk greatly. is there any way to kno if this girl is clean?? check for bumps in private area, sores in/or around mouth

in our session i was planning on giving and receiving oral, and sex with no condom.
NO ANAL
maybe a little kissing

here is a link to her reviews on site but im not vip so i cant see everything....
http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/show.asp?id=196323

it seems she travels from state to state.. is that more cause for concern???


any help would be appreciated..

-- Modified on 5/5/2012 4:12:10 AM

There is NO WAY to determine if she has an std. Being hot won't tell you, being low volume won't tell you, and her saying she is clean damn sure won't let you know. Oral without protection is common and the risk is half of that of bbfs. I would never suggest bbfs with a girl you don't know well if at all, but realize you can't stop it.

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