What are people's feelings about putting a pic up on a verification site (p411 allows you to do this)? I had a provider tell me it could be dangerous for a hobbyist to put a pic up and she's only seen one guy do it. I certainly can understand why but I'm wondering if other hobbyists put their pic up and not worry about it? Do providers prefer or like seeing a pic of a hobbyist in their profile? What are your thoughts?
..maybe 3-4 had a picture on their profile. Funny thing....try ALL used a pic from 30 years back....wtf..lol It's nice to know who'll ill see on the other side of the door but the 30 year old pic is too funny.!
the same can be said about facebook, but you shouldn't be giving a provider your facebook info.
I think everyone should keep their personal RL info seperate from their Hobby/escorting persona myself.
I dont think a guy should post his pic on a verification site nor do I think he should send a pic to a provider as part of her screening process. If thats what she needs to give you an "OK", you might reconsider how much you want to see her.
that they put their pictures on the p411 profile. I think it is a personal decision, to your own comfort level. Kind of the same as providers showing their faces in their pics or not. Personally, I am single and self employed, so have a lot less to lose than some other hobbyists, however, I still would never put my pic up on any hobby site, or send my pic to a provider for verification.
Yes, I did post a pic on p411. I'm single, retired, and have little to lose if someone I know happens to see it. I realize everyone is not in my situation, so it's not always a good idea to do as I have done. It's a personal choice.
I had a provider I saw recently give me an interesting response to this question....
She preferred that there be no pic on your verification profile because the ones she's seen are so outdated (as previously mentioned), but primarily she really enjoys the excitement and anticipation of seeing who is on the other side of the door she knocks on. So you girls really do get butterflies when doing this!
You're basically a phantom. Meaning you're single, don't answer to anyone at your job, and have little connection to your extended family or friends. That picture can be used for any purpose by anyone out there...