Suggestion and Policy

What are you proposing?
perfectstorm 19 Reviews 3156 reads
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I always thought that the policy on TER was to ban people for things like that.
What brought this on anyway? Have you been threatened? And if so, have  you contacted admin?

Should not be tolerated. AT ALL. We are all supposed to be adults and I do not think that it is asking too much to expect us all to behave accordingly. Even if you disagree with someone or can not stand them, threatening them with physical violence should never be an option.

I look forward to hearing your thoughts on this!

threatening anyone with physical violence is never the answer in any setting, but what exactly are you proposing here on the Suggestion & Policy board?

If someone threatens another member either via pm or message board post, they should be banned.

serpius2689 reads

DITTO!! DIITO! DITTO!

Serpius

Posted By: MoreThanAHandful
If someone threatens another member either via pm or message board post, they should be banned.

serpius4981 reads

Hey MoreThan,

I do agree with you 100% on this serious issue.

I was recently threatened with violence by another TER member on another forum. That person was reported to TER and that post was removed.

I don't know if TER has a ZERO-TOLERANCE policy for potential threats of violence towards other TER members, if not, TER should do it. Period.

There should not even be a discussion about it, just put in a Zero Tolerance policy in place and ENFORCE with NO exceptions for ANY TER member.

Serpius

Posted By: MoreThanAHandful
Should not be tolerated. AT ALL. We are all supposed to be adults and I do not think that it is asking too much to expect us all to behave accordingly. Even if you disagree with someone or can not stand them, threatening them with physical violence should never be an option.

I look forward to hearing your thoughts on this!


I always thought that the policy on TER was to ban people for things like that.
What brought this on anyway? Have you been threatened? And if so, have  you contacted admin?

Yes, some guy wrote a horrible review on me but I have no clue who he is so I asked TER to remove it. They asked me to pm him & politely ask him to refresh my memory. So I did. His reply was very immature and didn't include a single detail that I asked for. He ended it with "Don't contact me again unless you want me to punch you around a little, slut.".
So I of course sent that to TER & they removed the review, but he is still a member so I think it's safe to assume there is NOT a no tolerance policy at this time.

Posted By: perfectstorm

I always thought that the policy on TER was to ban people for things like that.
What brought this on anyway? Have you been threatened? And if so, have  you contacted admin?

but violence against women (or against anyone for that matter), is no laughing matter and I would agree that such a crack earn a lifetime ban just to make the point very loudly.

serpius4021 reads

MrFisher,

Whether that person meant it as a joke or jab at that other person, this should NEVER be tolerated.

If someone make the same kind of "crack" at me... How am I supposed to know that this person is playing around? That's just it... I do not know!

On the other hand... that person may really want to beat the living daylights out of me, but used a joke to get his point across.

See? Either way... those kinds of postings / comments should get that person banned... period.

Serpius

Posted By: mrfisher
but violence against women (or against anyone for that matter), is no laughing matter and I would agree that such a crack earn a lifetime ban just to make the point very loudly.

Thanks for answering my questions, and I am sorry that happened to you. That definitelysoundslike a "ban able"  offense to me. I have heard of people being banned for less than that. Threats of physical violence should definitely not be tolerated, and I was under the impression that was the case already. Not sure what happened here. Good luck to you.

I have  twice been threatened with violence & three times my personal information has been put up on TER ,Administration has been given all evidence and even though these are ALL situations that  the person should be Banned, it has never occurred not once!The last three occurred under the "new" administration.
 Worse still,Providers and "respected members" have contacted New girls that I identified as"friends"( people I see on a regular basis)and used improper language and intimidation telling them to stop seeing me or else... One provider even admitted such actions on my local board!On this same board a few days ago another "respected provider" put up my personal family information and lied shamelessly!

serpius4139 reads

2hot4u2,

Not sure exactly what you meant by the title 'What are you proposing? Popularity contest'.

Looks like that title had nothing to do with your response to this post.

Aside from that, there seems to be more to this story. I am not disagreeing with you in regards that a person should be banned for posting private information.

My issue is this...

If you did what you did by giving evidence to TER, I would be under the impression that TER would or should ban that person from TER permanently.

By the same token, there's always 2 sides to this story and I'm only reading YOUR side. Something doesn't fit right with your story and I am withholding any further comments on this.

Serpius

Posted By: 2hot4u2
I have  twice been threatened with violence & three times my personal information has been put up on TER ,Administration has been given all evidence and even though these are ALL situations that  the person should be Banned, it has never occurred not once!The last three occurred under the "new" administration.
 Worse still,Providers and "respected members" have contacted New girls that I identified as"friends"( people I see on a regular basis)and used improper language and intimidation telling them to stop seeing me or else... One provider even admitted such actions on my local board!On this same board a few days ago another "respected provider" put up my personal family information and lied shamelessly!

Well sir,All the evidence was up on my local board for hours friday morning.E- mails sent to providers(friends of mine) and providers name& ter # were given.Also pm's sent by hobbyist and providers were given to administration.The provider who admitted doing this , that thread existed (but prolly be deleted now)
My point by the tittle is that nothing was done and that it seems to be more of a popularity contest ie; i'm in the minority as I have many detractors due to the fact I mostly see bp providers.

That thread still exist dated 3/31/2012 @6:19:55

Some people are fkin psycho and can't seperate hobby lfe from real life. If you let what some fktard on a hooker board bother you that much that you have to try and find out where they live, you need a damn shrink! Stay out of people's personal lives or you are asking for trouble. What anyone says about "London Rayne" I could give a flip about, but you fk with my family and you're not going to like the fall out.

THat's right , hence it's a popularity contest .Rules don't seem to apply to some...

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