San Diego

Re: She No Showed ... but claimed she did
saila2alias 569 reads
posted


Its not profitable for either TER or providers to out anyone with STD's, either providers with them or clients with them. It turns into a he said she said with no proof. That is why blacklisting or bad reviews are not in place to keep us safe. All highly reviewed providers know very well if they get one review of a 7 or less all they do is submit a request to have it removed for whatever lie they want its its gone. Reviews are really just a hidden form of advertisement, which is why providers ask gents they see to leave them a review and give them high score's, to help them get more clients and make more money.

Safety doesn't come into the money making system for anyone, its up to each person to deal with there mistakes on their own and let each next guy who makes the same mistakes suffer the same consequences. Live and learn the hard way all around.

Many guys who have been on the scene for many years know very well from private communication which providers right here in SD have HIV+ as well as other std's. Its VERY common for most to have herpes or hpv or other stds and should be considered the norm and expected.  Some providers hook old grandpa around their finger by providing them bare back in the heat of the moment, and old grandpa is head over heals and dumps his 401k to spend as much time with the provider as possible after his bare back experience with such a young highly reviewed girl.  Its horrible but its a fact of whats going on around us if you look behind the curtain at the truth.

Please don't fool yourself thinking guys with "references" means that they are safe and clean. Many providers who have horrible experiences will still vouch for the same guy to other women. Keep in mind other providers are competition competing for the same money from the same guys.  They will be nice in communications then talk bad about you to clients behind your back. Its a dog eat dog world in every business.

The best thing you can do to be as safe as possible, is to set your own safety rules according to what your willing to risk. Its safer to provide only cbj's, but most guys will avoid providers who do not provide bbbj's out of preference. So its a trade off on what your willing to catch in terms of stds and how much money you want to make. Some providers who only do FBSM do quite well and do not risk nearly as much as providers who do FS, but their income can be limited by the women who get the clients for the FS, some married men prefer FBSM over FS so they don't feel like they are cheating on their wife.

On a side note, it sounds like you went to the wrong house and responded badly to him which made him not want to see you. Thats about it.  Its good to hear your working a normal job on the side for health benefits, many providers can become jaded from not working more than a hour a day in this line of income as a provider.

Keep it safe everyone, you have no idea how many bad things are right in front of you that you don't know.

I am really starting to doubt the idea of "outcall".

I have been in contact with a lady on this board and we agreed to meet at my place. I give her the address about two hours prior an and I thought we were good to go.

About 45 minutes to our meeting, she sends me a text saying she will be 20 minutes late. Okay...what is 20 minutes in this world.

I get a call and she says she in out front and coming to the door. "Great I say...come on in." With in 3 to 5 minutes she is calling me upset and saying WTF. I say..."you must have been at the wrong house". She gets pretty graphic with lots of adjectives and I say I guess it is better we didnt meet. I didnt get the call to say..."where is your house...how do I find it?".

My gut tells me she either got so lost or she didnt come.

This is minor to the next story I want to share with you about a girl who claim something. I guess beware of those you invite over.

Bottom line if you live here, don't play here.

I agree with you... As much as I prefer to host after a few experiences, the only way I would host again is with a trusted girl that I have seen multiple times before...
It is also one of the reasons why I prefer to have fun in Vegas at this point...

Hello Everyone Im Diamondgrl and Im a Well KNow HIGHLY reviewed Spinner :D
I Prebooked an appt with this guy Right Here and to make a long story short..
When I called him from his front door and he said Knock on the door..(mind you ALL the lights were off lol,
I Said NO!!  come and let me in please..he said im Coming... and He hung up..
I stood there Freezing for 3 Minutes (isnt long in normal life..but when standing in front of a door at 945pm its a little chilly...Oh Yes and He had Me wear something slutty with heels..So I Gladly Did like always ;)
He doesnt Open his door nor do any lights turn on :(
..I Walk Back to my car and call while asking him.." where the heck r u..its so cold and you didnt open the door..
He slowly and creeply Replied...HMMM why didnt you Knock????..
ARE YOU FREEKING KIDDING ME?
I called you from your door..and your spot light turned on bright as ever on Me !!!!
BULLSH*t is all I can say..
He said you Must have went to the wrong house..
OK he must not be involved in todays society with high tech devices because my GPS in my tablet gives you a CLEAR picture of the House when you get to your destination..
His text even says "my house has ......"
I Had to put MY OWN name out here bc Im a WONDERFUL provider and ALWAYS
show up to my OUTCALLS/INCALLS ON TIME :D
Ill admit that sometimes flaking happens but not after I already drove ..an HOUR drive TOTAL

This Man Plays childish games and thinks its funny to leave a hard working lady of class looking like a fool..AND WORST PART ABOUT IT IS
hes even Lying telling a story just for the heck of it and for attention..
maybe I seen him in the past and he didnt get the attention he wanted so he chose to get me back lol
thats why im smarter now and I know karmas a beautiful thing!

Fool Me once But NEVER fool me twice!!

PS I HAVE ALL OF OUR TEXTS AS PROOF IN MY PHONE THAT HE IS LYING!!
My biggest mistake learned here tonight is to ALWAYS check for a recent reference..dont just go by reviews posted in the last year bc it may not be recent enough  :(
Live and Learn..

Sorry everyone Just needed to say my side and put myself out there Because story telling isnt appropiate when its LIES!




Weird story & you said, you have seen him before, so why did you need to go off of references a year ago?

Some how your story is a bit misconstrued.

Madame..Please Learn How to Read and acknowledge whats written in front of you!!
I NEVER said i seen him already lol
nor did HE..
Please reread before you think your 2. is needed  :D
Thanks!   xoxo

I did not call you out on this "board" but since you replied I have to tell you that you came to the wrong house.

I don't have a spotlight in front, Yes you called me and I said the door is open so come on in. I had my door opened a bit but normally after 3 minutes you would call someone and say...."hey....where are you". Not drop the F bomb and insult them with in 3 minutes. After that exchanges of words, I felt it best not to even try.

Sorry, but I respect people for their time and my time as well. I am sure a few of the SD ladies I have seen on an outcall basis would agree.

saila2alias387 reads


one important rule here, don't to outcalls to your home. ever. period.

Even with a provider your comfortable and have seen many times, no matter where she is located on the not accurate top 10. You really don't know the provider at all past your appointment with her.
You don't know that she really has a pimp who will call you and pretend to be her, and show up to meet you.
You don't know that she really has a big "soda pop" problem and her brain is half dead.
You don't know she has multiple std's and that is why she "takes vacation time" or "see me before I'm gone" or "I'm back" type ads' are posted. It takes time for flare ups to hide or heal from the cryo treatment, or meds, ect.

This is just one rule most unfortunately learn the hard way, and it sounds like you had a example yourself, plus doesn't she should have your real address still recorded and may show up at any time pissed about any "loss of work" from this thread now and wanting to either key your car, or steal your mail, or something else very juvenile.

Don't get me wrong, there are some wonderful women providers here and scattered on the "top 10 list", but their are also many inflated reviews on women you really don't want anything to do with if you knew the truth ahead of time or if you had 20/20 hind sight.

Do incalls, or outcalls to hotels, not ever to your home. Whats the saying "don't crap where you eat"?

just keeping it real from my own experience. Stay safe and have fun.

that was very well said sail and I like how you put it..

When I first started just 2 years back I use to obsess over the same thought because Its VERY trustworthy for a man to allow us to thier houses..(especially when most have a Family living There also )

The Std Thing is extremely gross and thats why NOBODY should EVER see anyone without seeing several recent reviews and/or Talking to one of her previous clients and make sure her kitty "looked" Normal  lol
I Honestly believe and hope im right..that a Man Would Never Lie or hide it...If a Female has a Std and its noticeable she should NOT be allowed to provide ANYWHERE
I would Air it to the entire community if i seen an obvious Disease on a mans genitles..

I have yet to hear that anyones contracted any stds through this community but you never know..it could be covered well so always do fine research and get a CLOSE UP in bright lights to make sure theres no scarring/ open wounds down there..

As for Pimps and Providers going back to someones house to attack them... Ive Never heard of yet either but maybe somewhere it has,  and the guy is scared to tell.. fearing he'll be in trouble with the law also..
NEVER worry about calling LE guys/ladies  if a pimp comes and attacks you verbally or physically on your own property he deserves to go to jail
Just say they/he followed you home from the grocery store bc you cut then/him off and this happened..
I think that would be a channel 7  story .
the girls I See with pimps are Always the young 18 to 21 range who just started the business and feel they need protection..thier young and Nieve and dont realize the conscept of flushing thier money down the toilet at the end of the night..

I used to judge every book by its cover and think every girl with a black man was a pimp/provider..
Since moving to cali i noticed that women out here Love Black men and especially the black military men..
theyre easily mistaken for pimps bc of the flashy cars and clothes lol

But as for a Pimp mooching off a girl and Not allowing her to support herself and HER future is sickly rediculous..
Get a Dam Job and Let her Have Live happy whens she gets old and grey..lol
For anyone with a Pimp..
Remember that without a payroll job you will NEVER have retiring benefits or SSi..
Your crazy to think with the way the prices of everything are rising.. that you can afford to support 2 of you and save enough for your entire life with Only you Providing..
Do something like school/college/vocational program  or a part time  job to at least ensure a better life in your future!
i Just got hired at a Subway close by and its the most simple job ive ever had..
But it will give me some benefits after 90 days so its well worth it :D
Period Point Blank!!
A provider should NEVER have a man in the car with her for a outcall.If you trust the Guy enough to get his address and Go to his house..then you Should Most Definetly  trust him enough to go alone/Solo :P..

Always Check  RECENT references !!  this should be everyones procedure before scheduling anything anyways..
Incall outcall car date lol
whatever it is your booking always remember there is such things
as unsafe ro*bers rapi*t and mu*derers..
and thiefs and liars..
Just be safe bc itll make the world a much safer place!

xo

saila2alias570 reads


Its not profitable for either TER or providers to out anyone with STD's, either providers with them or clients with them. It turns into a he said she said with no proof. That is why blacklisting or bad reviews are not in place to keep us safe. All highly reviewed providers know very well if they get one review of a 7 or less all they do is submit a request to have it removed for whatever lie they want its its gone. Reviews are really just a hidden form of advertisement, which is why providers ask gents they see to leave them a review and give them high score's, to help them get more clients and make more money.

Safety doesn't come into the money making system for anyone, its up to each person to deal with there mistakes on their own and let each next guy who makes the same mistakes suffer the same consequences. Live and learn the hard way all around.

Many guys who have been on the scene for many years know very well from private communication which providers right here in SD have HIV+ as well as other std's. Its VERY common for most to have herpes or hpv or other stds and should be considered the norm and expected.  Some providers hook old grandpa around their finger by providing them bare back in the heat of the moment, and old grandpa is head over heals and dumps his 401k to spend as much time with the provider as possible after his bare back experience with such a young highly reviewed girl.  Its horrible but its a fact of whats going on around us if you look behind the curtain at the truth.

Please don't fool yourself thinking guys with "references" means that they are safe and clean. Many providers who have horrible experiences will still vouch for the same guy to other women. Keep in mind other providers are competition competing for the same money from the same guys.  They will be nice in communications then talk bad about you to clients behind your back. Its a dog eat dog world in every business.

The best thing you can do to be as safe as possible, is to set your own safety rules according to what your willing to risk. Its safer to provide only cbj's, but most guys will avoid providers who do not provide bbbj's out of preference. So its a trade off on what your willing to catch in terms of stds and how much money you want to make. Some providers who only do FBSM do quite well and do not risk nearly as much as providers who do FS, but their income can be limited by the women who get the clients for the FS, some married men prefer FBSM over FS so they don't feel like they are cheating on their wife.

On a side note, it sounds like you went to the wrong house and responded badly to him which made him not want to see you. Thats about it.  Its good to hear your working a normal job on the side for health benefits, many providers can become jaded from not working more than a hour a day in this line of income as a provider.

Keep it safe everyone, you have no idea how many bad things are right in front of you that you don't know.

what?? should be considered the Norm??
Omg what kind of society are we living in?
Dirty Filth!

Register Now!