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Re: I Agree & BDSM Services Should Not Be Deducted 10's Are Not Just 4 Escort!
sympathyforthedevil 51 Reviews 739 reads
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Not that I agree with the ratings rules but section 7 limits your score based on services provided. I don't agree with that because I think enthusiasm should be rewarded.

I think that there should began option on reviews to be able to write a rebuttal if u don't believe that the review is fair.


I recently had a review where the reviewer marked me down because I didn't give a bbbj. Anyone can see on my profile that I don't offer that service, but the reviewer clearly didn't do his homework before booking and was therefore disappointed....

Ladies and gentlemen I would love to hear your opinions on this matter
Xoxoxoxo
Eva bliss :)

I have been in this game long enough to see lots of bs & I know for a fact my rates have been adjusted because of a few naughty activities I cater to that may not be recognized as normal, or vanilla.

Not that I agree with the ratings rules but section 7 limits your score based on services provided. I don't agree with that because I think enthusiasm should be rewarded.

It would be interesting to have a rebuttal capability, bu it would be a he said vs she said thimg. Your consistently high reviews out weigh one not as high. A discerning hobbyist will figure it out.

I would have to agree with you on this one. Every girl has her own specific menu and it is the gents responsibility to know what is on her menu. You have every right not to offer a BBBJ, and you should not be given a lower rating because you don't offer it. I do my research before I see a lady. Along with reading her reviews it's just a matter of doing some research on her site or ad. Hell, ask her! but knocking her down because she doesn't offer something isn't right. Also after reading your review it seemed like it should have been higher than 8/8. Just my two cents.

-- Modified on 2/8/2012 9:11:16 PM

Your reviews speak for themselves...and oh my goodness are you sexy!!

Posted By: missevabliss
I think that there should began option on reviews to be able to write a rebuttal if u don't believe that the review is fair.


I recently had a review where the reviewer marked me down because I didn't give a bbbj. Anyone can see on my profile that I don't offer that service, but the reviewer clearly didn't do his homework before booking and was therefore disappointed....

Ladies and gentlemen I would love to hear your opinions on this matter
Xoxoxoxo
Eva bliss :)

I agree with dave4145, but with a lot more words! :)

Don't waste your time trying to dispute something most of us would filter out anyway.  Rebuttals would just further highlight and prolong attention to that issue rather than letting your intelligent posts and great reviews simply paint a great overall picture.  Just like there are red flags in providers ads, self-descriptions, etc there are red flags in a hobbyists review especially for something so clear.

YOU GIVE THE BEST CBJ ON THE PLANET!

Some even sais that it was even better with cause the way the condoms glide on it...

Also, he should be glad, it means you are 100% safe and he will never have to worry about nothing after seing you!!!

I do agree that loosing a point over a service that was not even offered in the first place is harsh!

Eva, you know you are a 10!
You blow my mind at every 3some, you are one of the best i actually ever seen...
Hope this make you smile girl!
Kisses

That being said, you shouldn't fret about an 8/8.  Although we've not met, Eva, in my opinion the 8 for appearance is more of a "WTF?" that the 8 for performance!  As stated, seasoned hobbyists will ignore the anomaly of that 8/8.  

The review system is not perfect and the ONLY way I know for it to be fair and balanced is for ONE guy to review every available provider.  In the interest of doing what's best for the ladies, I've volunteered many times to be that ONE guy!  

Chin up, tits out, legs spread......enjoy!! :)

Well true he should have known that you don't offer bbbj but I kind of see what he is saying. I guess at a certain price I expect certain services. So if the person is at a certain price but does cbj do they make up for it some other way- e.g., playing with the jewels or letting me do certain things like rimming or are they just an amazing f...ck etc.  So in his mind he didn't think you were amazing but he also didn't think you were terrible either.  I don't think you were rated lower solely because of CBJ but the totality of the experience price versus what was received.

I think the problem is though that he just kept repeating his issue with a CBJ at that Level. It's like he didn't read her profile. I've been victim before of missing the fine print in lieu of amazing visuals - but then don't come back and whine in a review about it.  If you wanted a different type of service you shouldn't have come calling.  It's not the 8/8 - it's the backhanded nature of his comments.

And his crack about the mattress on the floor - I've visited Miss Bliss' "Palace of Seduction," many times - its a platform bed people!  It has a headboard, linens, the place is fully furnished. You have to wonder - did he really see her given what he's describing.  

And as another Poster commented - if you've experienced Eva's CBJ you wouldn't be complaining about it.

Chin up kid - move on - NEXT!

Thank you everyone for all of your opinions.....

You guys are right its not worth wasting the energy wondering about someone's vindictive review....

You guys are great

xoxo Eva :)

i don't think the review was vindictive.
the guy didn't do his homework and honestly an 8 and 8 score is pretty decent, if not perfect.

don't worry your pretty head over ONE review when there are dozens of others that cast you in a different light. i for one also have ONE "meh" review and i can relate to being irked about a lower score when you KNOW you preformed to the max and gave him a great time. in a month you'll be totally over it and be laughing while seeing nicer guys who you'll prob have better chemistry with and who will appreciate your safety concerns and respect your menu.

and read the ad.  If you follow that, you will not be disappointed.  FYI - I have not meet Eva, but she is high on my list and I have read great things about her.

Posted By: missevabliss
...if u don't believe that the review is fair.  I recently had a review where the reviewer marked me down because I didn't give a bbbj. Anyone can see on my profile that I don't offer that service, but the reviewer clearly didn't do his homework....
My thoughts:

1) How is the review not "fair" just because he stated his disappointment that you do not offer BBBJ?

2)  Re "on my profile":  Obviously you must mean on your TER profile, because in your personal website you do not have a "services" category, which many providers do have.  Your website does say, however:

"Don't Discuss Specifics such as "Oral"  "BJ" or "Sex"  or "Trips to Greece" or the "menu". You will be ignored immediately."

Thus, you want to chastise a client who paid you $500 when apparently the ONLY place it says you offer only CBJ is your TER profile, which you did not create.  

What is the conclusion as I see it?  Either he was so cheap that he did not pay for VIP here....
or, he was so overcome by the beauty shown in your photographs that he did not read your TER profile and reviews in detail.  

In my opinion your being given the opportunity to express your disappointment with his expressing his disappointment would not rise to the dignity of a pissing contest.

strong words my dear but I'm more than happy to hear your input

He had different expectations than what I provided and that was the source of his disappointment.

I can understand where he is coming from completely. I believe that he should have done his research because If i told him that he would receive XYZ when we met then thats solicitation.
Just trying to stay safe on my end. Everyone knows that to keep things legal, that its only time provided technically. Stupid Archaic laws

Perhaps my disappointment comes from the feeling of being chastsized for practicing what I would consider safe sex.

I don't knock anyone elses practices for sure, to each her own of course, it simply has to do with my own comfort level...

I love you guys for your open honest input, and it wasn't my intention to blow this out of proportion or anything, the whole review sounded a little back-handed though... There was no mattress on the floor lol and if he was so disappointed in me then why would he say that he would come back to play?

What can I say, I'm a girl and I'm sensitive about these things.
I'm over it now but i was being overanalytical sensitive about it at the time :)

You wrote, "the reviewer marked me down because I didn't give a bbbj." I think it would be more accurate to say the reviewer chose not to "mark you up. "

His obligation is to *not* give above a 7 unless additional services are provided. As stated in the guidelines, "An escort provider is only eligible to earn up to a 7, unless she is willing to perform one or some of the following during a session: Kisses With Tongue, Bare-Back Blow Job, Really Bi, and Anal Sex, or More than One Guy." If the reviewer thought your performance was out of this world but you offered only one of the additional services, then the most you could legitimately get is an 8.

The reviewer has no obligation to give a higher score regardless of the activities provided. You could provide every acronym in the book and then some, but if the reviewer was displeased with your service, he could legitimately give you a 1.

Then again, considering how inflated the reviews are, maybe you are justified in being angry. Maybe an 8 or 9 is the new 7.

Posted By: SDLinguist
You wrote, "the reviewer marked me down because I didn't give a bbbj." I think it would be more accurate to say the reviewer chose not to "mark you up. "

His obligation is to *not* give above a 7 unless additional services are provided. As stated in the guidelines, "An escort provider is only eligible to earn up to a 7, unless she is willing to perform one or some of the following during a session: Kisses With Tongue, Bare-Back Blow Job, Really Bi, and Anal Sex, or More than One Guy." If the reviewer thought your performance was out of this world but you offered only one of the additional services, then the most you could legitimately get is an 8.

The reviewer has no obligation to give a higher score regardless of the activities provided. You could provide every acronym in the book and then some, but if the reviewer was displeased with your service, he could legitimately give you a 1.

News flash: I do everything on that list except bbbj.... Just sayin..... Doesnt matter now though.... It's a done deal time to move on....




Then again, considering how inflated the reviews are, maybe you are justified in being angry. Maybe an 8 or 9 is the new 7.

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