.....it is much easier to navigate than Date-Check (which I am also use). P411 also allows the lady to give "okays" to gentleman, instead of using a grading system, like Date-Check uses. P411 also makes it easy for "newbies" to find "newbie friendly" ladies.
Please keep in mind, that many ladies do no rely solely on verification sites. I myself, still need the gentleman's name as it appears on his dl, and place of employment.
You cannot see it. The ratings are to remain private for the ladies sake. The piece of shit women who tell a client-I cannot see you because so and so said they do not recommend-are looking to get another lady hurt... The lady who is honest enough to to report the client for what he is, is trying to help other ladies-really sad some women are so stupid to think they will get points with a guy who has already been a jerk to a a fellow provider. I personally had this happen to me-and it was funny to read his less than stellar review of her another one of my guys forwarded to me after I had vented to him about the situation. IShootCraps-you are a darling-no doubt your ratings have been perfect- Guys please do not to put ladies in an awkward situation and inquire specifically about who said what about you. I know its a bit unfair as we can see your reviews-but this privacy is needed for safety... xoxooxoxox
Posted By: Ishootcraps
How do I find out my grade ? I don't think we can see it on our side.
They do use a grading system. If someone NC/NS on P411 you can't write that on their profile, but on date check you can. I like knowing what kind of track record my clients have before making a decision on whether or not to see or not. I am a member of both sites, but date-check is my fav.
Dear Addy: I was wondering how much weight do you give to p411 as opposed to date check? Also if a person had a YMMV on their profile on date check how much of an asterik would you put on it and if so when do you call the provider who issued that a question with why she did it and if you saw patterns with respect to certain perjorative ratings on date check what other questions would you have during the verification process? Finally what might be acceptable with respect to a questionable diposition and what would be a deal breaker? Also at what point would you call the hobbyist personally if you wanted to her his side of the story with respect to a certain rating?
I just wanted to thank all of your who took the time to point me in the right direction. Date-Check it is... Hopefully, I can get myself on there so i can eventually meet some of you. The hoops and tail chasing is getting mighty old.
Posted By: senyasi
I was thinking that it is probably time for me to put on my big boy pants and register with one of the screening sites, and be curious to hear your comments about which one you preferred.
I only use the tried and true method of screening, which is myself and my website. The screening sites are ok for those that make money from them, however they aren't that safe and no one really knows how much and what information they are using. I would never trust my safety to JUST a screening site.
I am sure that you are sick and tired of having to give your information over and over to independent ladies, but if you go with someone who is safe and reputable, they and you, want to be safe, not sorry.
I am a member of P411 but I only see those that fill out my secure screening form. I actually pay quite a bit more for "secure site" to let gentlemen know that I care about their safety of information.