A response down the page made me wonder. I've been with several gals who squirted when they came and I have always assumed that the squirting was a result of an orgasm. But I still wonder, because one of the gals told me she didn't always squirt and had taught herself to do it (even though she also said she did come).
So here's the question: is it possible for a woman to squirt but not come? Put another way, is squirting proof positive of a female orgasm? Truth out, ladies!
PS: there are other signs I've noticed over the years, such as a flushing of the upper chest area (I don't think that can be faked but few girls do it), vaginal contractions (which can be faked, a la Kegels), shaking of the legs, rolling up of the eyeballs (both can be faked).
No, it really doesn't prove an orgasm.
There is only one sure fire proof of female orgasm and that is when you find your head richoceting off the opposite wall of the bedroom while noticing that your body is still laying on top of the gal on the bed at the same time.
That's the true test.
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No, squirting doesn't always equal a real orgasm but it usually equals a damn fine show.
that is correct. in fact, for me, squirting is very different from an orgasm. i much prefer the orgasm, but when a lady squirts, it is quite a show.
I prefer to come on her tongue.
Stay thirsty my friends.
that she squirts right after an orgasm, but when she does, she has some kind of mental control to whether or not she will forego the orgasm route. But then again, over half of what she said were not so true so go figure.
But I am very, very close. 
I am a self taught squirter, and it only increases in amount once I get it going. I get too turned on when squirting, so I like to keep the mess going before I end it with an awesome orgasm.
The best way to tell if a lady orgasms is to focus on her breathing and pay attention to her body ques. What you mentioned are good indicators that she has O'ed, but it really depends on the lady as to what will get her there. And, with different ways for a female to orgasm, it may not be the same every time. But I do applaud your exploration, if everyone is having fun and letting go then O's are sure to follow!
Organism does not always equate to squirting.
Squirting can come (pun not intended) before orgasm.
More commonly, squirting equates to orgasm, but not always.
Squirting is not peeing.
When dealing with woman and sex, all are different, and all are different on different days.
One lady who is a champ at it described it as giving into the feeling that you are about to pee when coming to a climax. Basically relaxing during an orgasm. Sort of counter intuitive.
Note: If you are getting a room to meet a lady who squirts, get two beds lest you sleep in a puddle all night long.
I've been with a few and on occasion the squirt and the O were simultaneous; however in most cases (in my experience) the squirt preceded the O and they were mutually exclusive. It's a nice touch (provided you don't have to sleep in that bed later that night).
So here's the question: is it possible for a woman to squirt but not come? Put another way, is squirting proof positive of a female orgasm? Truth out, ladies!
PS: there are other signs I've noticed over the years, such as a flushing of the upper chest area (I don't think that can be faked but few girls do it), vaginal contractions (which can be faked, a la Kegels), shaking of the legs, rolling up of the eyeballs (both can be faked).
For me, I always squirt my ejaculate when I have an orgasm. Thus, squirting=orgasm every time! Then, again, I'm a guy.
I've seen two providers that advertised that they were squirters. Neither one squirted when she was with me. Oh well, it can't happen every time.
On the other hand, I've been with two other providers who squirted, and both stated afterwards that it was their first time doing it. (One was an absolute gusher.) Both times it was during a prolonged intense orgasm. In both of those cases, it wasn't the first time I was with her. I saw each girl subsequently, but neither squirted again. Oh well, it can't happen every time.
If you think squirting = orgasm, then a provider will deliver this fantasy for you. I have seen girls whose reviews say they squirt. But they have yet to squirt with me because I am not interested in that . I am sure if I mentioned it to them, they would do it.
Most girls can't squirt no matter what you pay them. Whether they're orgasming when they do squirt is another issue.
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Why would NOT want to squirt? That is one of the hottest things I have even seem. If I was in your area, I would meet with you jiust for that. :P
.... a video of a lady (porn star) squirting on command.... she wasn't having an orgasm and she didn't even seem aroused at the time.