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Re: Your post begs the question....
heelsandbras 296 reads
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well, some hobbyists cancel all the time others threaten the girl "see me or i post a bad review", etc etc. If a guy can post on a board about a no show why a girl can't do the same on those boards?..it is a 2 way street.

that never saw you and it is, he said, she said!!
I've learned along time ago, that life is not FAIR.
Do you consider this fair? ( if it were to occur )
Makes me wonder now, if some of the guys on that list, REALLY deserved it ???
Ok Lungman haters, Blast away!!

Why in the world would a girl that never saw someone blacklist them?  It makes absolutely no sense.  

Would they do it just to be an ass?

In the view of most clients and providers, blacklists should be used only for clients who stalk, rob, don't pay, threaten, etc.  It is never correct for a provider to blacklist a client for NS/NC.  She certainly should put him on her own DNS list and even alert her friends, but blacklisting or outing is a major no-no for this kind of offense.

Dude, did u have to show that pic...damn. (makes me soooo horny )...lol.

well, some hobbyists cancel all the time others threaten the girl "see me or i post a bad review", etc etc. If a guy can post on a board about a no show why a girl can't do the same on those boards?..it is a 2 way street.

making veiled threats to "find out where I am staying to teach me a lesson." Some guys are annoying while some are straight up a danger to the community. I guess it depends on the provider to decide which is which. If all they are blacklisting is your handle, no harm done. Women will still see a guy who is blacklisted.

@ the poster above...it makes perfect sense to blacklist someone who has made threats. Should we wait til he calls the cops on us or tries to harm us in person? Men are blacklisted all the time for NCNS, but I would never use real info for something such as that. Shorting, ROBs, threats, assault, all warrant a true blacklist. Being annoying or writing a not so good review, does NOT warrant a guy's life being ruined!



-- Modified on 5/31/2012 10:53:45 AM

What if a person has done none of the above?
They tell u your ship has sailed in the hobby world, "the ball is rolling" ( referring to, I THINK, hey buddy, your getting BLACKLISTED )
Actually, it is no big deal, but it does show the TRUE COLORS, of SOME ladies )

twice since then in other threads, and it is only drawing more attention to you. Just let it go until something actually happens. Like I said, your handle means sh*t and you only have 2 reviews. It is not like you can't delete it and start over like all the other guys who are blacklisted do lol. We say things on these boards that mean nothing outside of here, so until someone actually does something...don't worry about it.

Maybe for once, i feel like being a little PISSED OFF!!
But your right..this is a fuck-board, and in the real world, really means nothing!!
Besides, that list is not gonna keep a person from getting laid.
Some women would fuck, "Jack the Ripper", if the envelope was fat enough!!....lol.

Some providers and agency owners use it as a threat. Providers and agency owners hallucinate everyone else in the business takes their word seriously. Truth is while providers and agencies hold hands and sing kumbaya in public, most of them don’t like each other and are directly in competition with each other.

Suppose, it makes them powerful. It doesn’t work those who have been in the hobby for while. Another funny thing is that most hobbyists stick around longer than providers so who has better record.

Jerks and assholes excluded and their reputations precedes them everywhere before they arrive.

I seldom if ever agree with London but in this case she is right..

Just let it go and move on. Learn from it and put it behind you...........

was suggesting that providers are blacklisting people they have never seen for no reason.

It would be sort of like some guy posting negative stuff on here about a provider he has never seen for no reason.

If someone is make threats, that's a whole different story - there is NEVER a good excuse to threaten someone.

None of my business, and I don't know the entire story. It's just played out already. You can't let what people on a hooker board say, matter to you that damn much. By continually bringing it up, it only shows you're worried about it.

If the correspondence is harassing, or threatening, blacklisting is appropriate.  However, makes sure it really is.  Alas, some women have a hair trigger.  In my early hobbying days, I knew there was a good chance of being sent to another city for a week.  Well, I went to handy dandy TER, did some research and saved the URLs of the personal web site of three of the ladies I might want to see.  Three months later, I was being sent.  I relooked at the web sites, choose the lady who seemed most promising, and filled out her web form with two references.   I got an email back asking how she found me.  I had not relooked at her TER page.  She had gone under the radar, and delisted her self from all escort sites.  Her personal page was still up.  I wrote back that I had saved the URL of her web site on my FireFox three months ago in a candidate list. She wrote both of the references I provided that I was a stalker who maintained a hooker list.  Took a bit of doing to mend fences with both ladies.  Once they realized what happened, they got a good laugh.  Needless to say, number two was engaged on that trip, and my world was rocked.

Hair Trigger...yep!
Also, just friggen mean.
Beautiful on the outside, but as ugly as you can get on the inside!!
Hey, sounds like my x-wife!! ( wait a minute, she was ugly on the outside also!!! )...lol.
Their is a lady poster on here that is a straight shooter and sometimes seen as a bitch, but, she's pretty on the inside...IMHO!!

would calling me every day when i screamed at you n said dont ever call me again be harrasing, ?   or sneakin into my web site and writning crazy bright res lettering all iver what I just sat down and fixed be harrasing?   i called to apologize beacuse simply i want this squashed, i dont want him calln me any more , {he called this morning, no hard feelings, i am not mad, but please man stop messin witgh my web site and blopwin up my phone and email, i defiently am noit getn an appt with you after seeing you have the capacity to do mean things like go in and mess uo some ones hard work who hates typing n has fibromyalgia and adhesions in thier neck thats just wrong, but i would appreciate theb threads the phone calls, just end it, please, yes I got upset yes I had just come hoime from a wake n you knew that and it was mothers day n was tryn to be with family which means that wnen a provide politely mentioned please let her have sun family, maybe you d forgot who knows, but did i not call n say no hard feelings? and goo luck w everything? so why are you even questioning me? I am not the tyoe to dio bad karma stuff to peopleand stuff like you did to me by ruining my hard wotk on my siote, Thats was very spiteful and immature , I dont have any desire to black list some one, was it immature? yes do i feel threatened no!@   your nto  dorky to threaten some one, bit oif a pussy amnd a bit dorhy but harmless, a man who like has yim to go in and mess with a poroviders web site that just found out she has fibr, just finished 8 weeks physical therapy, and second time was in it this week at whidden memorial hospital, alot my clients helped me w rides so ask any one , they dont JUST GIOVER 8 weeks of physical therapy unless you are royally fucked up ok, so yah to go in and make some one have to fic=x a site when u know whats goin on them  kinda sucked , and no I am not black listed any oen Zi just want this to be over n i am not mad i dont have time toi let people who i dont know who dont matter get me mad, it was just mean spirited and as i said i dnt go blkacklisting people, so can we squash this and please stop calln me ,

All i was ever trying to do Angel, was help you, because of the pain you are in when typing.
I did type those things on your web-site, without your permission. (yes)
I guess i was upset, after all the time i spent ( hours ) re-typing everything and making it look professional, you went right back and made it look the same.
As far as calling you on mother's day, i wasn't told not to. I was calling to tell you about an appointment, like i was supposed to do.
I also spent HOURS, making appointment for you, with clients who were never responded to.
I SHOULD OF LISTENED TO OTHERS WHEN THEY SAID, DON'T GET INVOLVED, IT WILL TURN OUT BADLY, IT ALWAYS DOES!!!
I MAY BE A DORK AND A PUSSY, BUT, I AM, SOMEONE WHO WANTED TO HELP YOU, UNLIKE OTHERS WHO ONLY WANT TO HELP YOU, SO THEY GET SOMETHING OUT OF IT IN RETURN (PUSSY) I DON'T CARE IF OTHER DON'T BELIEVE MY MOTIVES OR NOT, I JUST CARED ABOUT SOMEONE, I DON'T EVEN KNOW, IF THAT MAKES ME A PUSSY AND A DORK...WELL, THEN I AM!!!!!
WHATEVER.....THE END!!!!


To Lungman

Without commenting on the origins or merits of your dispute with Angela and perhaps others,  you are obviously out of control now.  Read your posts for the last week.

Stop.  Stay off the boards for at least a week.  Don't hobby for a week.  Make an appointment to see a mental health professional.  You say you're a medical professional.  I'm not, but you appear to be losing it right here on a discussion board, and appear to be demonstrating symptoms of everything from hypo mania tp paranoia or whatever.

You néed to take care of yourself, man, and no one on this discussion board is in a position to help you.

A lot of train wrecks are funny.  Unless you're playing around, this one really isn't

Posted By: lungman
All i was ever trying to do Angel, was help you, because of the pain you are in when typing.
I did type those things on your web-site, without your permission. (yes)
I guess i was upset, after all the time i spent ( hours ) re-typing everything and making it look professional, you went right back and made it look the same.
As far as calling you on mother's day, i wasn't told not to. I was calling to tell you about an appointment, like i was supposed to do.
I also spent HOURS, making appointment for you, with clients who were never responded to.
I SHOULD OF LISTENED TO OTHERS WHEN THEY SAID, DON'T GET INVOLVED, IT WILL TURN OUT BADLY, IT ALWAYS DOES!!!
I MAY BE A DORK AND A PUSSY, BUT, I AM, SOMEONE WHO WANTED TO HELP YOU, UNLIKE OTHERS WHO ONLY WANT TO HELP YOU, SO THEY GET SOMETHING OUT OF IT IN RETURN (PUSSY) I DON'T CARE IF OTHER DON'T BELIEVE MY MOTIVES OR NOT, I JUST CARED ABOUT SOMEONE, I DON'T EVEN KNOW, IF THAT MAKES ME A PUSSY AND A DORK...WELL, THEN I AM!!!!!
WHATEVER.....THE END!!!!

you've certainly made it to a bunch on providers DNS lists...you're a mess, nosy  & very high maintenance...why would a provider want that....unless rent is due, lol...go search on BP, if they're not in the know on TER, they'll take you.

*Hopefully you were not stupid & stated threatening them, etc, if so, you deserved to BL by THAT provider...not ones that you have NOT seen, DNS by others will suffice.

Disclaimer: Not a WK nor mangina.

whiny posts.

Ok, I take it back about High Maintenance...how about Passive Aggressive.

Feel better.

LMFAO....IOU's..."I'm good for it"..classic!

this topic has com up on p.o. board with him and still,NO ONE has ever mentioned this , he doesnt have money for appts any way he asked me for an i.o.u. and said"come on  you know I am good for it?"   so i mean first of all he doesnt have money to hobby apparemntly so what different does it make, lotta talk no action .

So the LESS you highlight yourself and the drama you're invoking...

The MORE likely that all of this will pass without incident.

Come on, you all know, you enjoy a good trainwreck!!
Keeps thing lively on here.
What else do we have to talk about, that hasn't been discussed a 1000 times.
Just giving the old geezers (like me) behind the keyboards, something to do!!!

What we need is an insightful post by ChgoCPA. :) IMHO.

And what is it that u are trying to say???
Spit it out!!

But spell it out for you? sure..

You wanted to cause a trainwreck, you did. You wanted to be an ass to a provider, you were.

When you are an ass to someone, you get back what you deserve. Like I said "Karma is a wonderful thing"

Why are you surprised you got blacklisted? Seriously. And someone made a valid point. I seriously doubt a provider on TER would see you after all the things you have said and done. Even if you never tell a provider your TER name, there are SOOOOOO many ways for her to find out. Its called good screening abilities.



But hey..good luck with that.

But from all your posts, it seems you have nothing better to do then sit on TER and start trainwrecks.

Once again.."Karma"

:)

I was an ass to a provider??
Enlighten me!!
I told a lady that i was going to be on-call at work, the day of our appointment and that it's possible i may get called away!!! ( then she went off on me ) who's being the ass??
Excuse me if i have to rush to the hospital and go on a transport to pick up a critically ill infant!!
If it was your child, you be damn well glad, i responded!!
As far as writing something on a ladies web-site, that was not threatening or vulgar in any way...well, fyi, she has apologized for raising such a stink about it!!
SOOO, whatever!!!
Get your so-called FACTS straight!!

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