PROVIDER RELATIONS 101--The Cover

I left this one for now as I am sure it will spark some controvery and discussion.

As the old saying goes, “don’t forget to put on a helmet before going into battle,“ the same holds true with wearing a cover when seeing a provider. Some providers may offer BBBJTC, but they do not offer BB for the main event. It is up to the individual provider what to make the decision about BBBJ. However, the client can also ask to have everything covered during the entire session.

Most provider’s have their own supply of covers. However, I generally recommend (and only because I have seen posts on the boards about gentlemen having to run out for them during the session) that you may wish to bring one or two with you… just in case. Also, because of the number of different covers out there, most providers choose to keep just a few, their personal favorites; a supply of regular or ultra sensitive and large. Some may also keep specialty covers such as the “reality female condom” and a “sensitizing” cover (for those gents who need a little help stalling the main event). As such, if there is a specific condom that you prefer, you may need to bring them. However, don’t be surprised if the provider asks to inspect the packaging to ensure that ; its not past the expiration date and the package is not damaged.

To give you an idea of the types of condoms out there, here is a small list of descriptions:

1.  Lubricated and non-lubricated
2.  With and without spermicide
3.  Colored or flavored specialty
4.  Ribbed or studded
5.  Climax control desensitizing
6.  Non-latex polyurethane
7.  Extra Large or Extra Large and Long
8.  Warming Condoms
9.  Female Condoms
10. Glow in the dark (what were they thinking)
11. Lambskin condoms

Lambskin condoms should be saved for use only with your significant other. They can protect against unwanted pregnancies, but are not safe against STD’s. Some clients may claim to have a latex sensitivity. While it is true that certain individuals do have this problem, it is not in proportion to the number of gents who claim it. The provider may or may not have non-latex covers. If you are truly latex sensitive, it is suggested that you bring your own supply. Or, if the provider does have the reality female condom, these are also non-latex.

Sadly, some gents try to pull the old “slip-n-slide” which is removing the condom during the “action.” This is often tried during “doggy.” Do not be surprised if the provider reaches back occasionally to check to see if everything is in tact and where it is supposed to be. If she finds that the cover is missing, she may ask you to leave. This is ungentlemanly conduct !

Losing sensitivity. I hear often about clients who claim that they lose too much sensitivity when they use a cover. They may inquire about BB so that they can enjoy their experience. My answer is simply “are you f*ckin nuts???” There are so many dangerous, life threatening STDs out there. Why would you consider jumping out of an airplane without a parachute? You are playing Russian Roulette for a few minutes of pleasure!  I’d also caution any gentleman who finds a provider who is willing to offer this service (even if they claim it is ONLY for you). Do you want to take that chance? Chances are that they tell each and every client that asks the same thing.

There are three options for gentlemen who lose sensitivity; 1) an ultra-thin extra sensitive cover, 2) the female condom (which the provider wears inside herself and when properly lubricated can feel almost natural) and 3) limiting the session to oral. GOING WITHOUT A COVER IS NOT AN OPTION.

So be safe, have fun and remember: NO GLOVE, NO LOVE

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