Mine was not screening the first time I tried this and I ended up robbed. I made several that day, bringing extra cash, dealing with an upseller, showing said cash and not sharing said info after the fact. In my defense, I didn't know about any of it,(TER, screening, and the rest.) and by the time I tried again it was years after the fact.
Second worse mistake was seeing a lady because of a bad review. According to the review she was using old photos from before she was pregnant. She was very pregnant (7 months). The guy just left. I like the looks of a pregnant woman. So I gave her a try. She didn't rob me but the 15 minutes of a hand job in 60 minutes of the session was not the best deal. I would have reviewed her but She was leaving the next day to go to her folks, she showed me her plane ticket. She said she was leaving the hobby. She was pregnant and pregnant women get a small break in my eyes. Plus I was the dumb ass that seen a bait and switch pregnant lady with only one bad review, a bad review at that. I asked for it.
We were in Tijuana (many years ago). I hook up with a bar girl. To me safe, I leave my wallet with my buddy as I run off to the hotel to play. When I come back a few hours later I find that he hooked up with girls and is having an orgy…… using my money! I got the last laugh. The following week I sent a T-Girl to his room. He did not figure it out until --- well---until it was too late.
I had scheduled an overnight date with an outstanding, well reviewed provider. While I was preparing at home for the date, I cut my upper lip while shaving. It was more than a little nick too. I took the longest time trying to stop the bleeding. I finally was able to stop it, and finished prepping and dressing and went to pick up the lady. Our date started with dinner at a nice high end restaurant. While eating, I must have nicked the same area of my lip with my fork, and it started bleeding again. I put a lot of red spots on a nice white restaurant napkin trying to stop the bleeding again. My date even pulled ice cubes out of her drink and told me to try putting ice on my lip. The bleeding finally stopped again, and we finished dinner and went to a show. Eventually we ended up back at the room, and during a shower, I managed to start the bleeding again. It took lots of napkins to stop it this time.
My date was very understanding and helpful, and we had some great sex, and massage, and cuddling, even though I bled all over her white pillow case. We eventually fell asleep, and the next morning had a little more playtime, finishing up with breakfast and goodbyes. While I still had a great time with this lady, I really really regret not being able to DFK and DATY, which I really enjoy, and so does she! I just can't believe I was such a clutz that night. I am usually not clutzy or accident prone, but that was just a weird thing that happened at a most inopportune time! I felt stupid for doing that, and still regret that while the date wasn't a total flop, and we did the best we could to make it fun and exciting while playing safe with the blood issue, it just could have been so much better had we enjoyed daty and dfk!
OMG! It is so rude to laugh, but looking back on a situation like that, I'm sure you laugh a bit now too!!
I'm sure it gave a bit of interest to the date! As a provider, it is sometimes the small things like that, that make it easier for the two of you to become a bit more comfortable with each other! It gives you something to talk about and also a easy way for her to remember you if you ever need her as a reference!!
It's not rude at all! Yes, I definitely laugh about it myself, now. As you said, it is definitely a memory we share. I am sure we will both laugh about it on our next date, and yes it will always give her a memory if I use her as a reference or even for a future date. I don't think there's a chance she will forget me now "Yep, I'm the one with the bloody lip!"
My only reegret, as I said, is that I wasn't able to DFK and DATY! And that sucked! Especially on a long overnight date. Maybe if it was a 1 hour, blow and go, it wouldn't have been so bad. But we made the best of the situation, and still had a lot of fun in other ways. And the fact that she was so understanding and caring, really humanizes the whole experience.