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request a face pic. Or possibly try webcam chat.
ALEA See my TER Reviews 424 reads
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I also offer webcam... If she doesn't want her face all over the internet possibly... a webcam might calm your fears and hers too. you can talk and see each other ....  I love to cam and think it is an excellent idea.

I've had several occasions where a fellow has had long conversations via webcam so they can feel comfortable in setting an extended appointment without actually having met face to face first.

But whatever her method of calming your fears... always good to be open about your concerns and ask her.  

If she is insulted or offended she doesn't have a good personality and that in itself should be an ender.

hugs,,, happy hunting.

DownBoy1508 reads

I've had a couple of experiences where the provider's face wasn't shown in the ad, and then I find out that I don't find her very attractive.  Some times just the body isn't enough, it's what you look at when you're on top.  It then ends up being a less than satisfactory experience.

Does that happen to you?

Don't arrange dates unless the escort's face is shown.

1) Apply Bag to Date!
2) Bend Date Over !
Warning -- does not work for the obese!  ;-)

Some of us have been around for awhile, have great reviews and a need for privacy.  It doesn't take a rocket scientist to look at my photos and see the shape of my face and that I'm not a dog.  Be careful with the advice.  :)

Hugs,
Ciara

shudaknownbetter360 reads

I've not had a problem with this.  I've not been disappointed...  but if I was I'd just use other positions.  
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I will send an email of my face.  No problem.  After a few emails back and forth. :).

See if that works for ya!


Good luck!


Kisses
khori

You might be willing to send a face pic, but 99% of women who blur their faces won't. Once she e-mails her face pic, its on the net and she no longer has any control over where it goes or who sees it.

I will send a face pic.  My reasons may be different than most, as to why I won't show my face on my site or on TER.  




screen.  Once you send a pic, you have no control over it from that point forward.  You may not care now, but you have no way of knowing how much you will care tomorrow or five years from now.

That is very true. You just don't know what the client is going to do with the face pic that you send him. Trusting that someone will do the right thing and not share the pic is NOT enough.

We have blurred the faces of Story and Candle on our website and never have not had any problems at all. Maybe because Story is drop dead gorgeous and Candle is just plain hot.

after I got outed...nope no more...it caused me ALOT of grief...

ThatsInteresting308 reads

Backchannel boards, hobbyist-only websites etc are probably circulating your face to people who have never been screened by you.

Experienced providers don't share their face unless they are fully prepared to accept the consequences of their face being shown to everyone.
If you blur your face on your website and would have reservations about everyone seeing it, I would suggest that you stop emailing people with your face.  Clients can live with it so long as your reviews are in order.

If you are contemplating showing your face occasionally or don't have issues with your unedited images circulating on private channels & boards then by all means - continue sending your face out.

but this is all part of discretion.

After all I went through...nope I will never send a picture..then a photo of me is out there putting me and Makenzie together...

I also offer webcam... If she doesn't want her face all over the internet possibly... a webcam might calm your fears and hers too. you can talk and see each other ....  I love to cam and think it is an excellent idea.

I've had several occasions where a fellow has had long conversations via webcam so they can feel comfortable in setting an extended appointment without actually having met face to face first.

But whatever her method of calming your fears... always good to be open about your concerns and ask her.  

If she is insulted or offended she doesn't have a good personality and that in itself should be an ender.

hugs,,, happy hunting.

Clients can still take snapshots of you while you are on cam. I dont recommend this method if you are looking to protect your identity. You dont want to risk unblurred webcam images to surface on the net.

Narcissism! Soooooooo attractive! NOT!

fucktard_repellent247 reads

So you're the guy that she sent the face picture to.  Are you going to show it to all of us?

I guess I've been pretty lucky so far. The ladies I've seen, who have their faces either blurred or cropped, have turned out to be quite attractive. I look at it from two points of view. First, her performance is much more important to me than her appearance. Second, all of the ladies I've seen have gone out of their way to look their absolute best, just for me. These are women who wouldn't give me a second glance, if they saw me on the street.

some would consider pretty... and while it was, it just was not my type - whatever that is.

oh, and the lady had skills.... so much so that I wanted an extended date with her... but much to my chagrin.... she did not do din-din dates.

Ask for a picture of the top of her head and her ass.  That is what I plan on spending the majority of my time looking at(unless it's a dinner date).

I'm not married. Most people I know know I'm a scoundrel and self-absorbed.

Besides, it's cool when the ladies say 'Ohh! Oh yeah!'

LMAO!!! ;)

Well I have never had a guy turn away... but...

Girls...

I didn't listen to other girls and fuzz my face or crop it out...well it eventually bit me hard..

I got recognized and the jerk outed me to family, friends and my employer...Worse part was he lied to my employer and got me fired.  I am fighting it but so far to no avail...

Pls do not show your face and if you are like me you have hairstyle that is easy to recognize,,crop off your head.

Believe me every guy that has seen me tell me that I look beautiful and do not look my age...I have never had one client turn around...

I don't let it bother me. Most of the providers I have seen didn't have a face pix. The pix they show were enough to get me interested. Then I read the reviews and see how the meetings went. Read enough and you get a good indication.

About half those I have seen did not have photos. I have not been disappointed. It certainly is much safer for her.

My new ATF just got outted by another provider, and she had her photos on her website and several other locations. Fortunately she managed to shut everything down before any damage was done. But it sure has put a dent in her business.

In ten yrs you don't know where you are going to be or what you will do as far as choices go and I prefer to protect my future by Not blasting my face all over the internet.
theres no taking it back once you have gone and put it on the web.
I know I won't do this forever and one day I want to walk away clean. If you have put your face on the web it will always be out there.

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