I'm always looking for new ways to improve my skills ........ So let's hear it Gentlemen, if you could cast your vote on the one thing that a lady could do to improve her skills or the time she shares with you, what would it be?
In my humble opinion, what separates the average Provider from the ones I remember and do repeat business with is how they finish. I usually like an oral finish, and "to completion" - and that means I'll be the one to let the lady know when to stop the BJ. Nothing is more of a buzz kill than those that jump up and run to the bathroom to spit, or whatever, before I'm finished. The guy will let you know when they're finished, not vice versa. If I get off while f*cking, same thing - those highly skilled will take off the condom and continue with oral and/or cuddling/kissing, rather than acting as if the time is over, unless we are indeed out of time.
I agree with John's comments, and likewise, the beginning is important. GFE to me means making out like teens on the couch, bed, bathroom sink, whereever, and slowly getting each other undressed. Although seeing a sexy lady at the doorway in lingerie is sexy too, I prefer a little bit of work getting to that point
Also, in my book, DT beats hand action any time Its nice to mix it up, but don't do the same thing the whole time down there (somewhat opposite of how I hear the ladies enjoy it on them)
What I really like is when the lady makes it clear that she's happy to be spending time with me (whether for real or she's a good actress), and acts affectionate. The same sort of little gestures that mean so much when dating make a difference in these encounters, too, like reaching out and holding my hand, touching my face, hugging me, and, most of all, smiling.
Enthusiasm - seeming to be glad she's where she is, doing what she's doing, enjoying giving pleasure, and receiving pleasure make such a difference. (Fake smiles, "aren't you done yet," turning her face aside when attempting to kiss, and such are a real let-down and turn-off.)
And as has been already mentioned, one of the biggest disappointments is not being able to finish on my schedule. Don't want CIM, fine, say so before starting. But if you say you're okay with CIM, don't stop what you're doing until he stops. There is little that's more annoying than being evicted form a nice, wet, warm mouth right when my entire being wants nothing beyond remaining right where I am. In my opinion, one of the nicest things a woman can do for a man is to keep him in her mouth, gently, until after complete "shrinkage." (I wouldn't expect this if you're not a swallower, but take at least some time, please, for me to just feel good and enjoy.)
And while the stereotype is that gals want to cuddle but guys don't, well, for some that may be true but don't act as if it is. While not as annoying as mouth eviction, having a lady jump up immediately after I've come so she can get a wet towel spoils the moment, and thereby the experience. Yes, a hot towel is great -- but at the proper time, which is after my heart has slowed and I've relaxed. Be cuddly, and if it's not reciprocated, fine - jump up for the towel. But if he cuddles back, that's where he wants you to be.
I totally agree with all of your votes..... I absolutely love the oral, CIM. No jumping up here, I enjoy the feeling that I still have you where I want you and you have just exhausted yourself I love to cuddle,kiss,eye contact, etc. all the things you would expect your gf to do in reality.