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No, because it serves no benefit to the individual lady
HarlandSanders 2 Reviews 466 reads
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She's not better off seeing someone who drives 3 hrs to see her vs someone who drives 10 minutes. If I were you I would not discuss rates, unless it was a discount on a multi hour rate maybe.

MilfHunter11180 reads

just to see you, shouldn't that be taken into consideration when we discuss rates ?

Just asking...hope to not offend anybody.

Please no smart ass comments from the hobbyists that think they know everything.

ever discuss rates? This info should be on her site or profile. When a gent tries to discuss rates it really freaks me out. Did you check out all her info before making a 3H drive? Doesnt make sense to me to drive all that way and not even know how much you're spending.
Hugs and kisses
TL

MSHSEX560 reads

Read his post more carefully. He never said that he actually made the 3 hour drive yet. He was postulating a hypothetical situation. I give him credit for contemplating this questionable course of action first instead of actually doing it. He's thinking ahead.

Posted By: terrilynn
ever discuss rates? This info should be on her site or profile. When a gent tries to discuss rates it really freaks me out. Did you check out all her info before making a 3H drive? Doesnt make sense to me to drive all that way and not even know how much you're spending.
Hugs and kisses
TL

Then what do to do? I will tell what I do. I don't call because I don't want to discuss rates either

Posted By: terrilynn
ever discuss rates? This info should be on her site or profile. When a gent tries to discuss rates it really freaks me out. Did you check out all her info before making a 3H drive? Doesnt make sense to me to drive all that way and not even know how much you're spending.
Hugs and kisses
TL

My rates are clearly posted on my website.  This could be a dangerous practice.  You have to be careful what you discuss in email and over the phone.  Too many questions can be perceived as LE....Just my opinion. I also think that your driving time should not affect a provider's rates.  


SK

AGREE 100%! Milfhunter, saying this only to help you, honey. If a lady is willing to discuss rates with you, before meeting you, warning bells should be going off in your head! I REFUSE to see someone who wants to discuss rates or do dirty talk before meeting or ask any explicit questions. My safety and dsicretion are paramount to me and in order to protect my other friends, I would rather decline someone than answer or discuss such. It does not matter if they are driving 3 hours or 30. Only trying to help you see the ladies' point of view, in order to help you be more succesful in booking. Once a lady meets you a few times, then she may be more than happy to consider your plight.

Posted By: Khori
My rates are clearly posted on my website.  This could be a dangerous practice.  You have to be careful what you discuss in email and over the phone.  Too many questions can be perceived as LE....Just my opinion. I also think that your driving time should not affect a provider's rates.  


SK

MilfHunter1420 reads

I was just thinking if a respected/credible hobbyiest...(with references) was willing to take a day off and drive 3 hours just to see you......you would be flattered and there might be a little wiggle room.

But I do understand, but I must add that it's been my experience that sometimes rates may be negotiable.  I just believe some provider are much more firm on their rates than others. You do run the risk of pissing the provider off by asking, though.

why didn't you post that in your original post?

because your question sounds much more like a newbie-type flier

good luck!

MSHSEX488 reads

Of course rates are negotiable, but it's usually when discussing extended appointments with a working girl, NOT how long or far you travel to see her.

Posted By: MilfHunter1
I was just thinking if a respected/credible hobbyiest...(with references) was willing to take a day off and drive 3 hours just to see you......you would be flattered and there might be a little wiggle room.

But I do understand, but I must add that it's been my experience that sometimes rates may be negotiable.  I just believe some provider are much more firm on their rates than others. You do run the risk of pissing the provider off by asking, though.

side as well. I have heard there are ladies whose rates are negotiable. However, I am not a hobbyist, so I do not get to see that side of things! lol...most ladies I know get pretty miffed when people they don't know ask to negotiate. I have a few friends who drive in from Mississippi or Alabama, etc. and been seeing them for years, etc and they do longer engagements, that is a different story, but, they never ask for lower donations. Respected hobbyist and good references may sway some ladies, but, I think most ladies put a lot of thought into their rates and feel they are worth it.

One REALLY IMPORTANT point on negotiating with a lady...do it like you would negotiate a salary increase or a contract....IMHO....start out with "Is this negotiable at all?" and if they say "no", drop it. Again, just my opinoin. There are a few hobbyists out there who try to negotiate often and word gets out QUICK and can hurt your hobbying choices for future fun. Again, just trying to be helpful and hope it is percdeived as such.

I'm sorry no because the hotel room that I got to meet with you didn't give me a discount because you were driving 3 hours.
I'm sorry no because Eros or any other advertising media didn't give me any discount because you were driving 3 hours.
I'm sorry no because the gas station that I put gas in my vehicle to come to your appt didn't give me any discount.
I'm sorry no because the adult toy store didn't give me any discount on the toys and the lingerie I'm wearing to meet with you.

I think you get the picture.....

Posted By: MilfHunter1
I was just thinking if a respected/credible hobbyiest...(with references) was willing to take a day off and drive 3 hours just to see you......you would be flattered and there might be a little wiggle room.

But I do understand, but I must add that it's been my experience that sometimes rates may be negotiable.  I just believe some provider are much more firm on their rates than others. You do run the risk of pissing the provider off by asking, though.
-- Modified on 5/5/2012 6:58:29 PM

...why should she care about how far you have to drive? That's considered a 'YP'

Sir Cumalot

socracy404 reads

I don't know why you expect immunity from "smart ass comments" on this one.

MilfHunter1376 reads

for smart asses that think they know everything not to reply. I knew it wasn't going to happen, but I asked.
I just don't understand......I just don't jump into conversation where I'm not asked and it really doesn't concern me.
Some of you, ought to consider getting a life.
I do appreciate those 3 lovely ladies offering their perspective.

MSHSEX393 reads

You really should learn how message board work. You have no control over who does or does not reply to your posts. You cannot dictate any terms at all, though you may try. Just because you may act a certain way is no guarantee or requirement that others must follow suit.

Posted By: MilfHunter1

I just don't understand......I just don't jump into conversation where I'm not asked and it really doesn't concern me.

MSHSEX404 reads

I don't think he realistically expected immunity from the community's scorn and ridicule, as indicated by his use of an ALIAS.

Posted By: socracy
I don't know why you expect immunity from "smart ass comments" on this one.  

MSHSEX445 reads

No, it shouldn't factor into rates. Why should it? No one is forcing you to make a trip of that or any length to see a working girl. If you are willing to make a drive of that length to see a working girl, then you should also be willing to pay her asking rate without any discount or consideration.

Of course, if a working girl is willing to "pay" you for your time spent traveling to see her, then consider yourself lucky.

Posted By: MilfHunter1
just to see you, shouldn't that be taken into consideration when we discuss rates ?

Just asking...hope to not offend anybody.

Please no smart ass comments from the hobbyists that think they know everything.


She is more likely to say, "you drove three hours to see me, awwwww!
And then fuck your brains out as opposed to giving you a driving discount.

Compliments go a long way !

Good luck!



Posted By: MilfHunter1
just to see you, shouldn't that be taken into consideration when we discuss rates ?

Just asking...hope to not offend anybody.

Please no smart ass comments from the hobbyists that think they know everything.

before I hit the road. I have a choice; pay up, or stay home. I don't expect any "long-distance discounts."

She's not better off seeing someone who drives 3 hrs to see her vs someone who drives 10 minutes. If I were you I would not discuss rates, unless it was a discount on a multi hour rate maybe.

MilfHunter1562 reads

Why is it, when providers are asked a question......all these men have to respond ? Do they really think anybody gives a shit what they think ?
I sincerely thank the ladies that responded  You men have an overblown opinion of yourself.
Honestly guys, I give less than a damn what you think.
Some people just have to f---king post on every thread. Get a life, people !

You said no smart ass comments from hobbyists, not no comments from hobbyists. I didn't give you a smart ass comment. I gave you a lucid, well thought out comment. I even gave you a helpful suggestion on how a discount on a multi-hour might be more amenable. I was being helpful.

So perhaps your comments were directed at the other men posting and not at me.

If it was directed at me, go fuck yourself. I was trying to help your stupid ass. If you want only providers to respond, then say "I only want providers to respond."

HS

Am I the only person who does not understand the question?

Are you saying you want a discount because you drove 3 hours to see a gal. Because if you drove there and didn't get the rate you hoped for. What the heck happen at the door? Im curious. Did you leave or stay? What if she agreed to your haggle price. If you showed up and she switched up the rate on you, you would have been pissed.

Why would you expect a discount, not being rude or anything, but honey you could have haggled at the house, verse putting gas in the car, driving 3 hours. Im just saying. Sounds like too much energy being wasted, you can haggle Susie down the street.

To each their own.

Have a good day :-)
Lisa

sarcasm361 reads

When you drive 3 hours to a restaurant or a car lot do they automatically drop their price for you?  

Didn't think so.

MSHSEX358 reads

Everyone please give him a break. He DID use an alias to ask a serious question, after all. Thanks. ha.

Posted By: MilfHunter1
just to see you, shouldn't that be taken into consideration when we discuss rates ?

Just asking...hope to not offend anybody.

Please no smart ass comments from the hobbyists that think they know everything.

cashorcredit487 reads

Just because you drive 3 hours you can't expect a provider to lower her rate.  

upsell. Definition: to try to persuade a customer to buy a more expensive item or to buy a related additional product at a discount ... The shit isn't cool when clients do it and it isn't cool when providers do it.  However negotiating rates nothing wrong with that i do it all the time, for example i would love to see you Sara, but your rate on your website says 400.00 my budget is 350.00. Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't no harm no foul. Same with Brothels the rates are negotiated, perhaps you are confused with the difference between up selling and negotiating.

To think that you're entitled to a lower rate because you drive 3 hours, not cool not cool at all you will come off as a jerk/jack. You are going to do what you want to do anyhow, my advice don't do it. Not to sound cruel or anything not my style.... think about this why would anyone give a "Fuck" about how far you have to drive to bust a nut??

Just when i think I've seen it all

Posted By: MilfHunter1


If I'm willing to drive 3 hours

just to see you, shouldn't that be taken into consideration when we discuss rates ?



bwcoyote443 reads

Milfhunter, by your logic, if I take some time off, take 3 hours to clean every nook and cranny, get a maniicure, buy a new wardrobe, run around and get the lady a special get - should that not be taken into consideration when discussing rates too?  If not, then where is that line drawn?

I know you have made it clear that you are only interested in what the ladies have to say, but this sounds very similar in logic to an old discussion about giving discounts because a guy pops quickly.  And believe me - nobody has given me a discount for that yet :(

MSHSEX355 reads

That's pretty funny, mr alias. ha. How many hours must he walk for them to break even with each other? ha.

Seriously? I have driven three hours to eat at a restaurant on Lake Hartwell in the past....Should I expect them to give me a discount? Why would anyone expect a Lady to offer a discount? They don't have to make it so easy for us guys. Thank you Ladies for doing what you do.

if you drive 20 hours to see her, it should be a free session?   That's YOUR problem, dude, not the provider's.

salonpas337 reads

When you drive to your barber do you expect a discount from him based on your miles driven.

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