I always love Dan and Jennifer for straight forward reading. I also have quite a few "friends" who visit me and start off by stating that they are very vanilla. After that I discover that they actually do have a fetish or kink that they would like to explore but don't actually realize that it is categorized in that manner.
My common response is that "one person's vanilla is another person's hot fudge sundae with whipped cream and a cherry on top!!