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Re: appearance vs performance
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Well, I know this is question for guys, but I could say that it would be like 40/60. Appearance is very important, but you guys are looking for fun and be pleased. It doesn't matter how hot a girl is if she doesn't perform right, how can you be satisfy?. Sometimes, girls who are less pretty can give you the best BJs or the best sex ever. I am a very sexy and pretty woman, and I can say that my performances are even better. I like to see guys ended with a nice smile.

Catalina Del Castillo

I've always wondered what you boys preferred when it comes to FABULOUS LOOKS or just plain INCREDIBLE Shags? I see a lot of beautiful Victoria Secret models/Playboy Centerfolds in ads and many of them ask for 1k for 1hr. Most do not have reviews (I wonder WHY?) whereas others are dynamos under the sheets and are not typical 10's. If I was a guy, I personally would go for PERFORMANCE because it's the experience of 'connection' rather then just looking at a pretty woman.  So, if you could only have ONE choice - what would that be and WHY?

many kisses!
xoxoxox
Chloe

I'll never get to the performance if not for the appearance.
However , if performance is lacking I will not repeat.

Sorry for the wishy washy answer , but I am after all from DC !


And also when are cuming to chicago. Again?  I've been waiting for your call like a redheaded stepchild sitting by the phone awaiting an invitation from a boy to go to the prom;);)

XXX-Giselle

The captain of the wrestling team will be in Chicago soon ! But be forewarned...probably not the kind of boy your parents are gonna approve of.

In my personal life I am totally cool with dating and having a woman who is not the hottest looking OR the best in bed. If I find a woman appealing, a certain look, the way she carries herself, her personality, our rapport, I have no problem even if I would only rate her a 6 or 7 appearance/performance on the TER scale. I am not wealthy and have very limited funds for this fantasy land, that is a factor. If I'm spending hard earned $$$ I prefer to have the best looks/performance I can get. Remember this is the fantasy part! I WANT the HOTTEST gal I can find with the BEST performance lowest BS factor with the lowest cost.   My last few encounters in the fantasy have been with the same gal. She meets my physical desires to an absolute T. Her body is a solid 9.5. Her face is closer to average than her body.  She is not at all hard on the eyes, but not a supermodel.  When it comes to performance she is a solid 8. I have a good time with her. We get along well, the sex is great (she even told me so lmao) conversation is nice and it's fun to lie around naked with her afterward getting to know each other. She is a good MIX of what I'm looking for. If she allowed MSOG she would be 9+ in performance as well. I have set myself a price point of max $300 unless I want something way beyond normal (porn star or camera session or two girl etc) If a gal is over $300 I will most likely NEVER see her. For me at least it really is a balancing act. when I find the perfect balance I will have an ATF. This gal would be on the side of looks are slightly better than performance. I've had it the other way too. BOTH were fine. I guess the best way to sum it up, for myself at least is... Looks and price point are most likely to get me to your door, performance and price point may just keep me coming back to your door.

TP

I can overlook certain performance issues when I am really turned on by a provider's appearance. For instance, I have seen providers who are not exactly GFE or have given up an acronym or two for the sake of eye candy.
If I am not turned on by her appearance, I may as well stay home.
My performance can be more important then hers and can relate directly to appearance.

I am also not looking for a connection that either does not really exist or is only in my mind. That 20 year old hottie and I have no connection in reality.

Let's face it (pun intended), It's the "looks" that gets us to the phone/email.  It's the accuracy of those looks and the performance that makes the time spent together okay or phenomenal, and makes us want to repeat, so yeah, it's both, but, for me, it's the looks that floats my boat.

I agree with the comment that if the looks aren't there I'll never know about the performance. However, everyone has different tastes and what I'm attracted to isn't necessarily what other guys are attracted to. There are certain things that I love and other guys would probably be like "huh"?

But if I'm already there and had to pick between awesome looks and awesome performance I'll take performance.

Appearance because for most of the guys here, this hobby is about fantasy, not just physical satisfaction.  If she's not attractive to me, i would not enjoy myself physically.  If I'm just gonna spent the time with my eyes closed making a withdrawal from the spank-bank, I might as well save my money and stay home.  This is just for my needs.  In a perfect world, I'd just see you and not worry about making any tough choices!


You know it's Appearance!  Performance can't be bad, but appearance takes the cake!

While appearance has to be "good enough" it doesn't have to be top of the line.  But performance has to be exceptional or I consider it a total waste of time and money.  Flaws in appearance are easy to overcome but flaws in performance can be gamebreaking.

Ladies,
Maybe this is a tough one to answer, but does your performance get enhanced if the hobbyist is a fit, good looking guy (and a gentleman) vs. a less attractive out of shape one?

My "partners" seemed to enjoy themselves quite a bit more before I put on this 30 pounds

Fair enough Ramone. Would have been nice to hear the ladies' perspective but I suppose it could backfire on them.

My performance with ANY gentlemen is the same whether they are super fit or average. I adore men in every shape and size and truly have the best fun with those who are okay with themselves and have a great attitude! xoxooxxoox CC

Posted By: yeahay
Ladies,
Maybe this is a tough one to answer, but does your performance get enhanced if the hobbyist is a fit, good looking guy (and a gentleman) vs. a less attractive out of shape one?

Posted By: yeahay
Ladies,
Maybe this is a tough one to answer, but does your performance get enhanced if the hobbyist is a fit, good looking guy (and a gentleman) vs. a less attractive out of shape one?
Well...  I guess you all know I am all about honesty.  So here goes.  Looks to me don't matter and rarely have a thing to do with how you move which of course causes MY GOAL which is orgasm for me too.  On the site of looks though if a guy is walking off the fashion pages and too ubber hot that can be intimidating.  I have had gents who could have modeled in GQ come to visit and it takes me a little longer to warm up, WHY???  Because he is so hot there is no reason in gods green earth he should EVER have to pay.  Upon feeling them out it is generally that they are visited a provider because they don't want any commitment(THAT I get) so I can warm up to it...  I know that may seem the opposing to what you are asking but, hey that is just me.

Another thing, if you have a 6pk or a super flat tummy it can be hard to find something to rub my love button on.  I end up looking like a fish out of water wriggling around looking for some place to rub on.  However if you have a ponch, even a small one I have now found something to rub on, much easier to orgasm fully if I have both G's in gear.  Truth be known at about any weight I can figure out a way to get all the rubbing and all going so I can get my needs filled too, otherwise what is the point right?  You just have to be a little more creative about placement and flexibility.

So, performance is the end all be all for me and gages if I WANT to see a gent again.  I love what I do and want to continue to so I will be picky and visit with those I choose to only....  Though I think the only thing that trumps performance per say is attitude, that can make or break a session be it that you are a gent or a fem.  I require a little phone time to feel a guest out before a visit, and the call may not be long at all.  However if I feel that he has a attitude or is crass or rude in some way, pushy or nasty-the like I will turn him down even if he passed screening...  WHY?  Because if that happens it is going to suck and I don't want to bother.  Sorry, I have the ability to choose too.  I prefer to think I am saving them $$ because they would be wasted on me if I am not feeling them at all.

Take care and enjoy your week, Sage

Posted By: Chloe_Carter
I've always wondered what you boys preferred when it comes to FABULOUS LOOKS or just plain INCREDIBLE Shags? I see a lot of beautiful Victoria Secret models/Playboy Centerfolds in ads and many of them ask for 1k for 1hr. Most do not have reviews (I wonder WHY?) whereas others are dynamos under the sheets and are not typical 10's. If I was a guy, I personally would go for PERFORMANCE because it's the experience of 'connection' rather then just looking at a pretty woman.  So, if you could only have ONE choice - what would that be and WHY?

many kisses!
xoxoxox
Chloe
Like others have mentioned, appearance gets a client in the door. Performance gets him to return.

Personally, I view performance as a proxy for how much a lady enjoys my company. You can always tell when a lady is enjoying herself...more expansive menu, lots of eye contact, the screams aren't forced, spontaneous wetness, she suggests positions, the session runs late. When that happens, it makes the hobby all worth it.

Concise, succinct and spot on. You hit the nail on the head.

I,like most guys,prefer both but I guess I would rate performance and attitude over appearance.like to leave the session smiling, relaxed and glad I scheduled the appointment.

Well, I know this is question for guys, but I could say that it would be like 40/60. Appearance is very important, but you guys are looking for fun and be pleased. It doesn't matter how hot a girl is if she doesn't perform right, how can you be satisfy?. Sometimes, girls who are less pretty can give you the best BJs or the best sex ever. I am a very sexy and pretty woman, and I can say that my performances are even better. I like to see guys ended with a nice smile.

Catalina Del Castillo

It depends. Every guys wants a hot girl to visit but I have a few that maybe arent as good looking that I call now and then just becuase I know they give great service.  I have seen them before and I know they are very nice women so once I usually take the safe route and call them when I'm looking if nothing is popping out at me.

performance and attitude every time! Some real good looking ladies I have been with did not do much for me!

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