Hello Everyone! I'm a first time poster here, so please bear with me if I am starting a thread that has already been started. I am a Newbie as it pertains to "References." I have been in the hobby for many years, but over the last for years, I have been in retirement. Well, as life would have it, my reference are now out of date. To be more frank, they are old (2007, 2008). I had written a few reviews here, but I have no White List cache either here or Date Check. What is the best way of getting referenced up?
Thanks! I actually did that and it seems as though they are being responsive. I'm a Date-Check member and one was added as a reference. The other said she would love to, but because it was beyond 12 months, she couldn't. However, we will continue to see. Thanks!
I believe for gentlemen, they verify your identity using credit card info and employment details. If you had been verified by them, I think some ladies would feel a lot more comfortable seeing someone with few references
It was rather frustrating because I kept getting rejected, but I eventually found some nice people that would do a light screening on me. Don't go for popular VIP ones, but you'd have more luck with newer, unknown providers. Also, many agencies would also do light screening and verify your date-check account.