How important is kissing ?
Launce 25947 reads

How important is kissing to you?  Now we're talking DFK here, not any of this quick hit barely touch the lips stuff (which is nice also, but...)  The ratings are:

Very Important - Don't go out with women who don't.

Important - If she's really hot I'll still go out, but otherwise...

Preferred - I really like to do it and it's a real plus on a date, but not everything.

Doesn't Matter - Self explainatory

Prefer Not To - I really dislike kissing, it's gross and disgusting and I don't know why anyone would want to do it.

Me?  I'll give it a strong PREFERRED (almost an important)!  It's a huge plus that I really enjoy.  

Last fall I had a date with a girl that I thought never kissed on first dates (this was our first) and supposedly not even after that.  We were laying on top of the bed talking and she rolled over and put her arm across me and kissed me on my cheek :-), then a small peck on my lips.  Soon she was laying on top of me sending me to the stars with wonderful kissing.  I'll never forget it (nor reveal who this wonderful Twin Cities lady was :-)

- Launce

I too give kissing a strong "preferred" rating.  I respect their
desires when they say no they don't kiss, but it's always a big
plus when it happens.


For me, about 75% of the way from "Important" to "Very Important."

I can only think of a couple of instances where I saw a Lady who was NOT into DFK for a second time. I usually like to schedule longer dates - 2 hours is kind of a minimum these days - and to spend a significant portion of them kissing.

I know it is a very "intimate" activity, and although it is not considered an HIV risk, it is a great way to share colds and flu and so forth. So I respect Ladies who don't want to kiss, but I'm not usually into spending my time with them.

BTW, I respect Launce's decision not to name the Lady. DFK can be a very "YMMV" thing, and it sounds like with his Lady, it is. Better not to raise unrealistic expectations among the Gents. Instead, let those she gifts with her kisses be pleasantly surprised.

It's very important, almost mandatory for me. It's part of the overall experience, the fantasy, the romance. For me, seeing a girl is much more than just the final act, and kissing is integral.

-- Modified on 5/23/2002 4:31:57 PM

Happy McSappy here to bring you wonderful and wise tips on the art of kissing. One of my most favorite things in the world to do.

Ahhh the kiss...sweet kiss....

The Kiss           Dante Gabriel Rosetti
What smouldering senses in death's sick delay
Or seizure of malign vicissitude
Can rob this body of honour, or denude
This soul of wedding-raiment worn to-day?
For lo! even now my lady's lips did play
With these my lips such consonant interlude
As laurelled Orpheus longed for when he wooed
The half-drawn hungering face with that last lay.

I was a child beneath her touch, - a man
When breast to breast we clung, even I and she, -
A spirit when her spirit looked through me, -
A god when all our life-breath met to fan
Our life-blood, till love's emulous ardours ran,
Fire within fire, desire in deity.
Much has been written about kissing, here are a few of my favorites, also check out the link below on kissing tips. funny :)

And when evening came she set me
In a vase
All of rare and radiant metal,
And I felt her red lips settle
On my leaves till each proud petal
Touched her face.

From Said the Rose by George B. Miles


See! the mountains kiss high heaven,
And the waves clasp one another;
No sister flower would be forgiven
If if disdained its brother;
And the sunlight clasps the earth,
And the moonbeams kiss the sea:--
What are all these kissings worth,
If thou kiss me not me?

From Love's Philosophy by Percy Bysshe Shelley


Out of a world of laughter
Suddenly I am sad. . .
Day and night it haunts me,
The kiss I never had.

From Midsummer by Sydney King Russell


You kissed me! My head drooped low on your breast
With a feeling of shelter and infinite rest,
While the holy emotions my tongue dared not speak,
Flashed up as in flame, from my heart to my cheek;
Your arms held me fast; oh! your arms were so bold --
Heart beat against heart in their passionate fold.
Your glances seemed drawing my soul through mine eyes,
As the sun draws the mist form the sea to the skies.
Your lips clung to mine till I prayed in my bliss
They might never unclasp from the rapturous kiss.

From You Kissed Me by Josephine Slocum Hunt


I believe if I should die,
And you should kiss my eyelids when I lie
Cold, dead, and dumb to all the world contains,
The folded orbs would open at thy breath,
And, from its exile in the isles of death,
Life would come gladly back along my veins.

From Creed by Mary Ashley Townsend


I love your lips when they're wet with wine
And red with a wild desire;
I love your eyes when the lovelight lies
Lit with a passionate fire.
I love your arms when the warm white flesh
Touches mine in a fond embrace;
I love your hair when the strands enmesh
Your kisses against my face.

From I Love You by Ella Wheeler Wilcox


Alas, how easily things go wrong!
A sigh too much, or a kiss too long,
And there follows a mist and a weeping rain,
And life is never the same again.

From Sweet Peril by George MacDonald

Preferred...Ive seen a local provider 6 times but she didnt kiss.But her sessions were very hot and sweaty.I believe a great attitude and personality goes along way.I prefer seeing a provider that kisses or daty.Either one is fine with me.

Penny30538 reads

My name is Penny & I am a provider from the Wi Dells area. I feel that kissing is very important to me if it is to you. I am here for you and to please you. I stay for the full time aloted, receive several cups of coffe, not a clockwatcher & oh yes, kiss if you want. Look for me. I will be around. Have a great day, Penny

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