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It pays to be assertive in certain situations.
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I know it's hard as a newb, but you have to speak up in certain situations. Learning how to finesse the start of the adult activities takes a little time and practice. Also reading the juicy details of the reviews help. Some escorts will rip your clothes off you the minute the door is closed and locked, others will talk to you for 45 minutes when you have an hour appt. With good research you should be able to figure out which providers are talkers and which ones are doers.  If you're to cheap to have a vip membership look for terms in the general part of the review like "eat your wheaties"  or "bring your A game" or she's "a toe curler" or "take your vitamins".  Those phrases usually mean she's going to fuck your brains out.  
Good luck!

I mean, if we agree to meet in the hotel bar and have a few drinks together--does the time start with the first hello, or when the key slides into the door (I mean what I wrote!). That is, when we leave the bar and hit the room. In LV, for example, it can be a long way from the bar to the room.

I ask this question because I see a lot of reviews that start with, "We met in the bar as agreed and shared a few drinks..."

Thanks!

You need to assume that if you meet for drinks the time will be on the clock unless the provider specifies it.
There might be some providers who might meet you first for a drink to get to know you without being on the clock but many providers expect to be compensated for their time whether it is drinks or BCD.
I have met a gent downstairs for drinks many times but in these situations the gents booked multi-hour appts which would allow enough time for a quick drink first.

if you want drinks before you play, you need to book extra time.

There may be some exceptions, but they are definitely the exceptions.  And, in my experience, the exceptions are usually made by new girls.  More established girls are definitely going to expect to get paid for the entire date.

In my experience the exceptions are usually made by experienced girls with repeat clients.  On one occasion, I called a gal in her room and she said she'd like to meet me in the bar for a drink.  Since she was the one who offered, it was clearly OTC and when we were done we went back to her room for the booked time.  Another time, we'd finished a session and she said she was starving.  Then she said I was her last appointment of the day, so I said I'd be happy to take her to dinner, "just friends."  We had a nice time OTC, too.  So, while I agree with you in general, there are always exceptions.
Personally, I prefer not to drink before a session.  Both because the alcohol makes me foggy and also because by the time I get to the hotel I am way past ready to get it on!

but those aren't usually the meetings that the reviews are referring to.  

The OP is a newbie asking what's 'normal' for a meeting, and it's still true that the norm is to pay for the time spent drinking.

but I'm also not a newbie.

I generally ask any gal if she is interested in a drink or lunch/dinner.  And I absolutely don't pay her to eat or drink on my dime.  Nor does any gal expect that, at least the ones that I like to be with.

As always, YMMV.

and in Vegas where many of the hotels have security at the elevators, it's SOP to meet them in either the casino or a bar off the casino. And yes it can be a hike from the casino floor to finally get to your room even if you don't stop for a drink. However, if you're worried about the 10 minutes it might take to get up to the room, maybe you should rethink seeing escorts. Clock watching and penny pinching by hobbyists usually don't go over well with escorts. Vegas is a town of high rollers and whales, that's why the donations are high and top escorts have 90 minute minimums or more.

Thank you for your post.

I am not worried about the 10 minutes, I just didn't want to spend my whole date in the bar thinking the party had not started is all.

Newbies have newbie questions. I appreciate hour guidance.

I know it's hard as a newb, but you have to speak up in certain situations. Learning how to finesse the start of the adult activities takes a little time and practice. Also reading the juicy details of the reviews help. Some escorts will rip your clothes off you the minute the door is closed and locked, others will talk to you for 45 minutes when you have an hour appt. With good research you should be able to figure out which providers are talkers and which ones are doers.  If you're to cheap to have a vip membership look for terms in the general part of the review like "eat your wheaties"  or "bring your A game" or she's "a toe curler" or "take your vitamins".  Those phrases usually mean she's going to fuck your brains out.  
Good luck!

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