Fellow veterans tell this young jedi what to do. I have a regular I frequent. At first the appointments were good and hot the way I like it. Now that I have been setting up appointments over a period of time, its not as hot as it use to be and she wants to talk more. I guess she feels comfortable around me. Its like when I use to be in the dating world or something. Its all good at first then they want to talk you to death. My question to you veterans how do I hit the hot switch button back on again?
You may have to resort to actually telling your friend the primary reason why youre there. She might feel a friendship is developing between the two of you that you may not see with her. It also may be she is having a harder time gettng as excited about you as sheused to and is talking more as the thrill aint what it used to be for her. We have to remember these girls do this for a living. Hope I didint rain on your parade but we should try to keep things in perspective here. The best approach may be to just ask her and see how she responds.
As your post suggests, one might not like the answers they get back. I for one always prefer the truth. Problem is, providers may not furnish that. If they tell you the truth, you might just go pound sand and they lose you as a customer. Too often, she won't tell you if the thrill is gone for her because if she doesn't you might come back once in a while. Besides the truth can hurt (both to hear and to tell). Just like when you were in High School (unfortunately) you often just have to figure it out for yourself.
Tanman's suggestion has merit. Too bad adults have to behave this way, but "the war between the sexes" has always been some kind of game for many. I consider someone who is truly honest to be VERY special. In my experience they are few and far between.
Its a hard thing to do, give it a couple of month's break. Call her in 4 months.
MY philosphy would be not to talk to her about it " just stop seeing her for a little while"
Just say you have to go away on buisness for a while.
Best of luck to you 
Switch for awhile and then after 4 months or so try her again. This did happen to me also once before. After I didn't see her for awhile and made an appointment it was like fire again so know I only see her twice a year. Don't get me wrong we all have our ATF's but variety is always a great thing.
I agree with tanman, absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Move on for a while. If she calls you need to see others, not lie just that you need to see others.
Go back in a few months and see if the absence has rekindled the hot flame you once had. If not, move on to a new ATF hot flame, until that one wanes out, and move on again.
This hobby is what it is. If all this does not appeal to you, then it is you that is hung up on a provider my friend and she is not seeing it that way.
If one is having difficulty seeing the "special" provider in question, then what choice do they have but to do what you suggest, Smarty? That only makes sense, since the only alternative is "retirement". Besides, seeing other providers helps to put things back into perspective and help the guy get his mind off of its fixation with the "hot flame". It may make her feel more comfortable as well (in which case perhaps it wasn't really all that special in the first place).
...the best sex I've ever had always came with a lot of talking up front.
Heck, one of the best experiences I ever had involved nearly 100 minutes of talking and kissing before we got down to business.
Lex - you weren't playing with those sock puppets again were you??????
...sock puppets. The lube washed out of the socks easily enough, but it was a bitch getting it out of my shoes.
But don't get me wrong -- those sock puppets were great conversationalists. Funny as all hell, both of them.
Move on. In my experience, there's no cure.