We've seen how some got into the hobby and how some choose the lady they want, so here’s another question. We scan the ads, the forums and some back channels then pick your next lady. Do you ever consider what the lady does with her money? Like school, family support, extra income, just for fun, buy the frills? When I first started, it didn’t matter but when I found out it was a need I found I felt better. (One lady said she wanted the money to start a business. I knew the business and had contacts, she went straight into business. Another said the same and her I offered to finance the business. She lied, she wasn't really in it for the money for a business, just a hustle story.) The only thing that I won’t do now is if I suspect she’s doing it for her ‘pimp’ boyfriend, I won’t see her. Of course we almost never know for sure, I just let me intuition take over.
So, chime in, please. So does anybody else here have that little guy setting on your shoulder? Don't be mean, please.
But I do have a conscience. That said, I don't really care what she says she does with the money because whatever she tells me, the odds that it's the truth are very, very long.
Sorry to say I’m leaving the community. I’ve been posting lately even though not seeing anyone for the past six months, hoping to stay active and return. I’ve been fighting a health battle for years but the last five months have worn me out. Looks like I’ve lost the battle.
There were a few ladies here that I had hope to meet, but never got the chance, Sidney, Veronica, Monique and a couple of others. I had a birthday coming in January and wanted to do my first double but that has been overcome by events. Should a miracle happen over the next few weeks I may be back but my life has been short on miracles and long on heartbreaks and disappointments.
Happy hobbying to all.
Sorry to hear man, hope a miracle comes through for you. There are all types of providers and associated personality types. I wouldn't worry about what they are using the money for, but just focus on enjoying the moment, because that is all there really is, Descartes and all that.
This is all about the fantasy for me. The better a woman can convince me that the fantasy is real, the better the session.
So, when the transaction has taken place, I no longer think about it.