As a hobbyist, I am always polite and gracious to providers and historically would therefore never meet a provider while under the influence of anything more than a glass of wine. I would consider it rude. Now that marijuana is legal in 29 states, it would seem like that might be fair game at some point. I’ve also read a ton about MDMA/Molly and 2c-b. The former opens emotions and increases intimacy, while the latter is as close to an aphrodisiac as anything humanity has discovered. Are any of these fair game for either use or discussion with providers, and under what circumstances? I am of course not advocating that anyone use illegal drugs, but I’m curious about the community’s thoughts.
Party & play...
I've had clients ask i allow them to party & play!! I say do whatever you want as you don't put me in harms way. Maryjane is definitely harmless prob a lot of providers are MJ friendly. The other harder stuff (drugs) prob your gonna have to research & inquire. Make sure not to pick a crackhead & get robbed!! Lol
For mdma you're probably want a longer session, that stays in your systems for at least 5hrs or more pending the person, I prefer X if you want long lasting sex. (Yes I have done it in my civie & hooker life & im not ashamed of it). Do it with someone whom you trust okay..
Good luck!!!
I guess you travel lol
...(weed only) with certain providers only after I know they like to smoke and Fuck. It relaxes us and helps the senses last longer. Certain types of weed makes me silly and fun for the provider. As for alcohol and sex, rarely do I partake except maybe one drink to loosen things up. Haven't had sex while drunk since before becoming a hobbyist and in college.
When I was super fresh I had a guy ask me about “partying” with him and I thought he was literally asking about going to the club. I asked him how long would our date be and told him I don’t go to the club unless I have a table booked w/ bottle service LOL
The hobby term for doing drugs with a provider is partying.
Anyway, yes this is a thing and it honestly falls under the whole “don’t discuss” category, but if you want to ask at least wait until after you’ve been screened. Some “party girls” will even provide the substance of choice, and you can do them or you both do them together. (I personally think this is a terrible idea. In this line of work, I frequently reference tidbits of advice one of my summer flings from high school shared with me as he was a big time drug dealer: only break one law at a time)
Yes, thanks but no thanks!
There is enough of a risk to include more (drugs)... Not interested!.
At first I thought was "going to a club" (silly me, I know haha) and I am definitely not the club type of girl... more like a lady that enjoys couple of cocktails and a nice dinner.
IMO it's a bad combination but again... to each their own.
I’m right there with you. Physical activity, fitness, age, the drug, and personal tolerance to the drug make things too unpredictable. The last thing I need is someone to have an unexpected reaction to something they took... with me being the last person who was with them and the only witness. No thanks!
That's a perfectly reasonable perspective. After studying it for quite some time, it's pretty clear to me that if used cautiously, MDMA is essentially risk-free. People that have gotten into trouble on it almost always either overheat or drink too much water to avoid overheating. Both of those can be quite dangerous. But they're also easy to avoid. I don't much trust network television, but a 2004 investigation estimated that 110 million doses of ecstasy had been taken in Manhattan over a three-year period and the coroner believed that two deaths had resulted from that. For anyone that's interested, that's on YouTube and is called "ecstacy rising."
All that said, I definitely wouldn't try MDMA with a provider without having tried it on my own first and understanding from a personal perspective what impact it might have on my behavior.
Is a bad idea in a p4p situation no matter how you slice or dice it! Ok, a little pot is one thing but you are talking about mind altering drugs! Thanks but no thank you. Bring all the weed you want lol but leave all the other drugs at home.
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I’m not sure I understand the distinction you’re making here. Both marijuana and alcohol are definitely mind-altering. Alcohol is a CNS depressant. THC is actually characterized as a mild psychedelic with similar effects to depressants. MDMA is definitely a stimulant and it’s effects are definitely different, but it’s pretty clear that MDMA is less harmful and less risky than alcohol. It’s basically impossible to be violent while under its influence. Reports consistently say that increases the intensity of sensory inputs, so music sounds more intense and massages are out-of-this world pleasant. It also massively increases emotional receptivity.
I’ve done a ton of research on MDMA and am more than a little curious about it. But the more I read, the more I believe it never should have been made illegal. FYI, the FDA recently approved a phase III clinical study on MDMA for treatment of PTSD.
I did MDMA in my younger years and it's dangerous AF. When I say mind altering, I mean you get way the fuck out there mentally and emotionally and can definitely turn into someone else. I have seen people with my own eyes turn violent on it and one friend committed suicide on MDMA. So for you to say it's basically impossible to be violent under its influence is not true. You do realize that mdMA, the MA stands for methamphetamine.... (Methylenedioxymethamphetamine ) It absolutely can and has made people violent! Yes, i have seen people damn near fucking in public on it as it does have a euphoric feeling BUT IMO its just not worth it in the end. It can also lead to unsafe practices because youll be so fucked up, you probably wont be able to even find the condoms nor would your mind even let you care. I really hope you don't plan on driving after either. Ive never seen any good outcome from any hard drugs. Not sure what research youve done but best to discuss with someone that has done it. Can't say weed ever did ANY of that. Please be careful if you try MDMA. Personally, if someone came to my place doing MDMA I would ask them to leave(hopefully by cab or uber) It can turn a normal person into a lunatic and leave them wondering just how they ended up in the hospital or jail. Who knows, you may enjoy it but is it really worth the risk?
Winnah Winnah lol
On the off chance the provider gets arrested you are only increasing the anount of trouble you will be in
On the off chance the provider gets arrested you are only increasing the anount of trouble you will be in
You seem very well determined to do dope in a P4P situation. All I can say is.... good luck on your search.
You've asked, people have given their opinion but yet your determination is still there. It's crazy but, you won't ask a provider you don't know yet willing to risk your life to cum good? Maybe I'm just one of those people that doesn't need MDMA to get off good. I want to know what I just experienced. Good luck with all that really...
What harm can a lil E do Terrilynn? 😂 I can't handle hippie lettuce but shua I'll try those psychedelics all day long ha ha
Who needs drugs when you can have a nice wet tasty pussy to occupy your mouth and tongue?
Who needs drugs when you can have a nice wet tasty pussy to occupy your mouth and tongue?
If I go down this road, I will be careful.
This is the right mindset! Listen to NOVADATYguy. Its WAY more fun when youre not high
No matter how much it might or might not heighten the senses, I think I'll stick to worshiping pussy. That is more than enough to heighten my senses. And its tasty too! (ha ha).
To each their own! EOM
No matter how much it might or might not heighten the senses, I think I'll stick to worshiping pussy. That is more than enough to heighten my senses. And its tasty too! (ha ha).
Because then I will have to babysit him. It's not all fun and games with Molly. Lol and I am not having a guy leaving my place high in life and higher on drugs getting into an accident. Then th police asking where did you come from? On Molly, it might as well be dubbed truth serum. So NO THANK YOU. 😂
The term everywhere is "partying". Do you like to party? Like the deputy said to the kid in Cabin Fever. If anyone asks me , my bar is the rack at the gym. lol I will party with some wine. Thank you.
Cabin Fever by the way is a horror film. 👻
The truth serum point is an excellent one, but begs the question. Does a hobbyist really want to see what an uninhibited provider actually thinks and feels? How about vice versa? MDMA from what I’ve read permits that. While transitory, does it make any of that less authentic? Hell if I know: I suspect it very much depends on both the provider and the hobbyist. I do suspect that the experience may well be memorable.
It's NOT always truth serum. The guy could be sweating up and down he sees aliens everywhere and that people are made of different colors. Trust me I have been around people at concerts on it and I do NOT want a client on it. It affects people differently as well. And all Drugs are not the same.
Honestly , why bother using illegal drugs to see a provider? If you must do that with your friends at a safe place where you can chill all day or night. See the provider clearheaded and have fun!! Get lost in each other, not the drug.
It's not wild sex inducing. Lol