I caution the use of the word "most" because it is presumptuous.
I'll just answer the question. There are definitely clients who see ladies because of both of those reasons. I don't keep catalogue but yes, many people do come to see me because they have a sex drive or interests that are not wholly compatible with spouse. So in my limited pool of encounters, I would hypothesize that if I took metrics it would probably be fulfillment of a physical void is the reason that outnumbers the emotional aspect. Do I end up building friendships with these types? If they're open to regular time together I'm open to it. It doesn't matter what "type" they are.Ladies,
I am curious about something and wanted to ask a question and hope you don't mind sharing.
Do you find that people come and see you because of problems mentally or physically in their current relationship or is it usually just to try something physical? Do you usually end up building friendships with these types?
My thought is that most people go outside of their relationship because of some type of void but I am curious as to what your experience? I would love to hear your thoughts.
Thanks for your input.
If people watch porn, go to strip clubs, and buy premium snap chats/web cam access to women.....why not just go all the way?
it's kinda just like hooking-up with no strings. You can be friends etc....but she not all up in your daily life. Much Less than a decade ago I was 25 enjoy company of these 18-30yr old ladies. I was still doing my thing in real-life with dating and the such. Maybe cause i'm not old....but it's simply hooking-up with a girl that I find attractive with minimal effort. I had no problem making jersey shore reference when that was the hot show on MTV...wasn't a need to keep the convo "mature" lol.
Ladies,
I am curious about something and wanted to ask a question and hope you don't mind sharing.
Do you find that people come and see you because of problems mentally or physically in their current relationship or is it usually just to try something physical? Do you usually end up building friendships with these types?
My thought is that most people go outside of their relationship because of some type of void but I am curious as to what your experience? I would love to hear your thoughts.
Thanks for your input.
I caution the use of the word "most" because it is presumptuous.
I'll just answer the question. There are definitely clients who see ladies because of both of those reasons. I don't keep catalogue but yes, many people do come to see me because they have a sex drive or interests that are not wholly compatible with spouse. So in my limited pool of encounters, I would hypothesize that if I took metrics it would probably be fulfillment of a physical void is the reason that outnumbers the emotional aspect.
Do I end up building friendships with these types? If they're open to regular time together I'm open to it. It doesn't matter what "type" they are.
There certainly are those fellas that tell the stories of wives who for a variety of reasons are not forcused on sensuality/touch. There are also gents who feel emotionally lost, neglected, abused. There are the adventure hunters wanting some new new to spark the soul, the drive. Monogamous life is does become monotonous even when it is great...it takes a brace and strong commitment not to let go to the desire or distraction of the freshness of a casual fling or a new presence. We see a lot of men who are in transition with relationships...who dive into work during this time and have no time to really adore a woman daily.
I make friends with many of the gents I meet...the boundaries are there but the genuiness of real connection undeniable. I treasure this. Other people are not searching a friendship- they prefer to have a moment and move on. Both are cool with me.