Sounds like she's pretty busy on tour here and thus not really managing her schedule/time well.  

That's just my supposition.

In the DC area you always have clients playing musical chairs with their appointments- canceling willy nilly, moving their appointment around if they suspect you will be two miles closer to them in another location on another day, lots of shuffling and "maybes" that we are working around and against while still trying to provide the service and be on point.

She offered you an evening time after you screened and you couldn't take it. That isn't on her, that was your schedule limitations. If you were in a position to you and her would have met that night.

You make an appointment for the next day and she is honest with you and says she doesn't feel good. Maybe she was jet lagged, maybe she stayed up late with the client who took the evening appointment. Maybe no one booked her for the evening appointment and she had too many drinks by her lonesome. Maybe another client asking for a multiple hour appointment or a client she's met before  usurped your time.

Then she sends off the evening request and goes dark- maybe she realized you were the one who said evenings are no gos and she let it trail off.

Then she asks if you can come in an hour and a half - but maybe she fired off that email to three screened potentials at once after experiencing a cancellation and someone else scooped the appointment.

There are any number of reasons why a booking doesn't go smoothly when you're dealing with a touring provider. It isn't cheap to visit DC- sometimes there is no game plan and the independent provider is working against the limited amount of hours she has to work in a hotel room balancing the inquiries, trying to go home with a profit and not a loss.

I would say that if you don't like the fact that you've been unable to see her on this visit or are frustrated with her availability - wait until she comes back next time and isn't so frazzled. Sometimes it just isn't meant to be, but I say good guys who are really interested always circle back (it's taken several months to a year to meet with some clients the first time- and its always laughed about and forgotten about going forward).  

Relax and meet with someone else, this town has no shortage of visiting and local providers who aren't so harried and will see it through.

Miss. Betty is awesome!

I've experienced this type of behavior often. You should expect it. Providers will double book and cancel at the last minute.  They will confirm appointments and go ghost after you arrive and request a room number. They will take your screen info and not reply to confirm or deny your appointment request.  They will concoct bullshit reasons for canceling and then have the gall to try and reschedule you and get pissed when you politely decline. Your expectations are to high. For every provider that is well organized, efficient, and honest there are five that aren't.  All you can do is take it in stride, don't reschedule, and try another provider. You can make a simple post, "(provider name) confirmed and cancelled at the last minute". Use an alias.  Providers can be vindictive and spiteful. Never give your name or other personal information for a screen. Get a P411 account with references or TER VIP account w/Whitelist.  This should be enough info to pass any screen. If not just move on. Lastly, don't take this shit personally. Providers don't give a fuck about you. It's all about your money.

Funny, I just made a similar post. Lara Rose supposed had great reviews but she's a flake. I just came home after the second day of having to spend 3 hours on her parking lot. She kept giving excuses then bam, radio silence! I don't know if they think it's cute. It's so moronic. In my experience, the flakers are black. They keep saying they have bad experiences with black men but they're worse themselves. I'll just stick to my non-black providers, at least they don't give you the run around. I really which TER will let us review those fakers.