Thanks for the insight. I forgot to account for traveling gentlemen. Happy to know that they may be considered "regulars" as well

All your points make sense. Especially the expectations of regulars. I had recently reconnected with a lady who I use to see often about a year or two ago. She recognized me and asked me why I hadn't seen her and to be totally honest I didn't have an answer. Time and situations just get in the way I guess but we made up for lost time and had a wonderful time catching up

As my regular? You get emails following up on topics we've discussed, you get schedule updates, you get pictures before they go anywhere else. You get to see me during times when I'm not advertising at all...

I'm almost never interested in new clients. I see one new person a month on average. That's all. But the beauty of this industry is everyone chooses how to operate and what works for me may not work for someone else.

xo

I completely disagree with this sentiment. I enjoy new clients. But having a regular and establishing a relationship with a provider can mean a lot.

 For me, a lot of my regulars are like my friends. We communicate more freely in between appts (within reason), it’s easier to schedule and I’m able to accommodate them more easily, and since I know more about them my incall amenities are tailored to their tastes. The personal chemistry is there so less awkwardness in an appointment. It’s easier for them to get sessions with other ladies in my absence because I will refer them to someone else - and I can match them with a provider friend better because I know both parties and how they’ll get along. And like, Norah, there are times when I have to limit my availability.

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I get your point as I had that same feeling with one of the ladies I keep in touch with. For the most part though I think there are benefits. Like some of the ladies pointed out, the more you see someone the more chemistry one can build. There is no initial "getting to know" one another phase that tends to happen during a first meet. You also have a past shared experience that can be built upon. They also tend to know what your likes and dislikes are whether its small talk or more intimate things.
Last week I had the pleasure of reuniting with a lady I hadn't seen in over a year or two and was pleasantly surprised that she remember me and the things we talked about way back then.
I am currently seeing two ladies on a regular basis and after a couple of visits they know exactly what I like in regards to play time and exactly how to get me off.
As silly as it sounds it's the small details like remembering previous visits or calling me by my name as opposed to a term of endearment that really stands out to me but that's just my two cents.

That's a nice way of putting it. I feel the same way.