wtf is that?

uhm, please pm me and tell who this provider is so i can steer my ass clear of this headache! good grief.. thats some disdainful shit.  never such a thing has ever happened to me but i can understand that it can happen in this craziness we call life.  hey fog i say tie up that loose end before it unravels only to reveal shit you don't want to reveal!

isn't TER the only "level" playing field both hobbyists and providers have? has anyone ever been asked to not write a review on TER by a provider? and if so why? UTR reasons?

A few questions first. She uses TER to screen. But, you said she can't affect your personal and work life. However, you also said that she'll post our personal information. What kind of personal information does she have? Does she have your real name, and other information? Also, where would she post your information? If she posted here, I'll leave skid marks all over that ass. We don't play that shit around here

Your obvious concerns is that she may post your information. However, it would help if we knew which site she will post it on. For example, is it NBL?

Life in general, don't ever let anyone intimidate you for doing something that are entitled to do. That is obstruction to your liberty. If you let this one slide, then a habit of acceptance will occur. Then, if will be programed into your character. Then, next thing you'll know, everyone is calling you a bitch.

Don't let that women intimate you. Stand up for your right as a consumer, and a person in general. If you take the initial step, as with others that have written reviews about her. Then, she might change her tactics of persuasion. I'd doubt she has returning clients if that is the kind of drama she puts off.

Anyhow Fog. If I was you, I'd write that review of her, I'll even post a thread about her, I'll let all of my TER buddies know about her, and warn that provider in the RO board. I might even take it a bit further and invest a bit of money for my own advertisement about her. I don't play that shit. That's what I would do. I have given you my opinion, and I hope you make the right decision.

If you don't write the review then you are a big fat pussy for whining to us about all this and how some gal manipulated you.

WRITE THE REVIEW.

AND OUT HER IN THIS THREAD !!!!


NOW !!!!

Why would you give a provider your TER ID AND your personal information?  Who cares how much it would speed up the review process.  Why would anyone think it was a good idea for a provider to know their real name and the handle they use to post on this board?  Perhaps you've benefited from sharing your ID before - the discounts and free sessions offered for reviews - thought it might happen again, but instead got burned?
I'm not being judgmental, I'm just curious.

and providers can try whatever tricks they want to try.

If this had been me, I would seriously consider outing this woman right here, right now!

At least not now and not under your main handle.

You have couple of reviews under your belt... utilize RO.  You guys have plenty of backchannel options for situations like these.

Lina

I appreciate the comments... haven't decided if I will review yet but I'm seriously considering it.. just not sure it is worth the hastle!

Abuse of The Screening Process

Just adding my 2cents. I feel screening information is a tool that should be used only to maintain levels of security for both parties. Its inappropriate for her to blackmail you into not writing a review or writing a review if that was the case. A clients info should be safeguarded and used for screening ONLY. She could have asked nicely that you do not post a review for her and that would have been it.

I highly doubt she will remember u by then and if real pressed u can always change ur # afterwards