Hello. I have a question and I’m hoping it’s not a stupid one. I just had a friend get started posting ads as of yesterday for Transgenders in Chicago and I’m super excited for Bella Rose but I did tell her please, please, please, make sure you verify for your safety. She told me she thought that was more with just the females and TS girls don’t have to. I was curious gentlemen and also TS girls do you guys verify as well? Sorry if it’s a stupid question I just don’t want to be overstepping my boundaries if that’s not a thing. I’m just trying to look for her to be safe. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks so much in advance.
I have verified clients from day one. Because of that, I am sure I don't see a majority of the hobbyists that see TS providers, but I want the same mutual respect, and follow the same safety protocols as cis female providers. I am heartbroken when violence is perpetrated on anyone, but TS women are attacked & murdered almost on a daily basis. I have personally lost many associates and some friends due them trusting their gut or doing what is termed as "survival sex work". All money is not good money, and best to avoid those who try to describe themselves physically and as "a good guy" in lieu of actual real world information.
Do I need to say it again ? And read TSRachel’s post again . Enough said.
Well as for me, I ask a lot of questions to screen my inquirer, Or I even ask them to send me a picture too, so i feel comfortable, but now there is a Mr. Number, paid App, that has info on callers number that could be, spam, bs, or good potential client.
But nowadays, you have to be careful because a lot of people are using Text app that generate new numbers that slip through with info and can be a bs too
I can understand “vetting.” Thats a no brained....BUT, if I get to a location and the provider is not as represented, I’ll leave. Apparently there is a site TS providers use, to rate US. Again, that’s ok, but I’ve had more than one refuse to see me, because of a bad “yelp.” I try to explain, but that’s a 50/50 prospect.
i've had a provider colleague stabbed & robbed, and another kidnapped.
the loss of an appointment is nothing compared to the loss of your life.
if any newer provider would like some of the screening tips i've developed over the years (all of which don't cost a penny, other than time) please feel free to pm me.
warmest hugs,
kacy
The Yin and Yang of the dance...if I can't verify your friend, I will pass.
Equally, if your friend doesn't verify me, I will also pass!
If a client refuses to verify (in one of many ways), your friend should pass, for everyone's safety.
I appreciate providers for verification for there protection. I as a client want to protect my identity. With hi tech facial recognition tools, sending photo is like sending your full bio metric id.
What work around would ts providers accept in place of a picture
my fav verification method is a reference from another provider (and vast majority of time we do help each other that way). which is why its really helpful if a new client pre-books so that i can reach out to other provider and she has time to reply.
when it comes to new client pics, my message server actually blocks images/vids from making it to me from a number not in my contacts. i do that because i'm way too concerned with underage peeps sending me something. i want no part of that!
bottom line is that pic of a new client is very low, if not superfluous, to a screening decision by me.
i hope that is helpful.
warmest hugs,
kacy
Thanks kacy.
I do find it annoying to send a photo of me. Seems about 1/3 if goid providers blur their faces in ads.
I have ~ 50 oks on P411 so would think that should allow me to avoid sending a picture.
I suspect p411 may not be TS friendly. Can you recommend a compatible verification service for clients and quality TS providers that both providers and clients can trust and use?
p411 does permit TS providers but getting on there has been near impossible.
i had 3 of its GG providers vouch for me, but they said without a p411 client reference, no go.
alas, i do not know of a similar service/option.
xoxo
k
May I pile in again. I have recently "fell in love" with a new ts provider. Want to help her. I really trust all providers on P411 so I would like to get my new love into p411. P411 wants me to send them my info on her - websites phone numbers. They also want 2 P411 clients endorser her. Now all of this is client side info. Providers on this discussion know that p411 has run significant validation on new providers.
So multiple bottom lines: 1 I have great trust in p411; 2 I believe providers trust p411 client validation;
3 P411 has a modest number if ts's - the ones I know are top notch and safe.
I just wish there was a better win / win validation process available to secure the safety of both clients and ts providers
Nothing wrong about wanting to verify a client. The big thing is the privacy issue! If someone has a big need for a T-Lady and they are big in business, or are a big sports figure or a celebrity. Or maybe well known for another reason. Then they may be a bit more shy about being investigated.
I've been ripped-offs by some providers. Though most of them didn't, even if it didn't work out between us. If they weren't the person in the picture, I'd still give them a part of the money.
In one country, I gave these 2 fellows some money, after I beat off their attack. I felt sorry for them. I do agree with Miss Rachel, I lost a great T-Lady friend! She was Miss Vanessa Santillin, one of the best! If I knew she was in danger of getting killed, I would of got her some kind of weapon! We do need to help our T-Ladies, to work out a compromise / system, to keep them safe!
