im so over whelemd wiht proving im real, ive done videos, u even got reviwed on her, but it seems the more i prove im real the less calls i get, im confused what can i do to boost my cliental , it seems like they always want the real girl in the photos but they still give me a hard time after me keep providing them with more proof that im real, a bunch of guys consit to bash me on how im using fake pics but i have toon of proof, i try to limit my pics because im scared of other girls using my photos all over and i can not keep up with them, also watermarking my photos seem to distract my beauty in the pictures so some clients ignore the ad i feel, i need some advice on what should i do to have a more exscluive cliental
that your reviews prove you are real and they even verify that the photos are of you.
People play games and want to be picture collectors. All they need to know is you have reviews and go from there if they want to book. Don't feed the time wasters.
They do it to everyone, not just Ts gals, and most of the time they are just looking for free things.
Don't even talk to the ones who say your pictures are fake. Seems that some of my TS friends get that same treatment because some guys are all weird about it. Why even bother with guys who are nasty like that? If your pictures are real, according to your reviews they are, then don't go providing more proof. Just reassure the "for real" guys that your reviews and your videos show you are legit and leave it at that.
Link them to your reviews and whatever else you have and that is all you can do.
Ever go to swinger's parties, I've met some transgender providers who do very well ??
Hi,
So I looked at your TER review page and cannot find any ad with your pictures. If there is a site with your actual pictures, it's not listed. I even looked under Eros San Francisco and Eros San Jose.
Your personal site on Tumblr says pics and videos coming.
Perhaps you need to update your ads/Website?
yes i recently took all my pics down from tumblr, to re-create my blog, but if someone simply google's my name pics my pics will pop up. and i always have the max photo's on my advertisements. i also provide ft. so im not sure where im going wrong here. but i do have new photo's coming and a new site being created so hopefully things change
Your pics don't actually pop up. I tried it. Not a single pic. Plus, I'm lazy. If I want to see a girl, do you really think I'm going to waste my time googling her picture when I can just skip that ad for someone who actually posted their picture? What it says to me when a girl doesn't post a pic, is that she's ugly or fake or a man who wants to rob me. If you want to prove you're real try posting some photos of yourself! The best is a video of you clearly saying your phone number. No music, no dog nose app, no mouthing the words to a song, just your face speaking your phone number. That's the ONLY real verification that a girl can post. Reviews don't mean anything, I've seen girl's who had reviews that weren't the girl in the ad more than once.
It's very easy for girls to dismiss guys wanting pics as pic collectors and time wasters, but we have to take our safety into consideration just like you do with your safety. It's not unreasonable to ask a girl with questionable photos to provide more. I've done it many times, and sometimes girls have provided the photos and I've gone. Other times, they haven't and I've seen another girl. It would seem that you have a problem with your photos if that many guys are asking for more...
of course i post pictures & videos my ads , so the " NO PICTURES " thing is mind blowing ... yet annoying
... and frankly I see no reason they aren't posted. What others are saying here is true. Missing pics are red flags! You really want to fix this. The business is way too competitive. Don't worry for now about others taking your pics. Watermarking us fine. If you look great .. show the world!
Here's the deal, whether TS or GG, other girls steal pics, it's just the nature of the business. I've seen girls on BP and other places say that their pics are real, I've even asked "are your pics real?" just to show up and it NOT be the girl in the pictures. If you want clientele then you need to do what will get you clientele. Many times the only thing that has prevented me from seeing a girl has been me asking could she send a pic. You decline, I don't come, simple as that, at the end of the day it's my money and who I want to see. Same result as others, I looked at your page and Tumblr, no pics so I really don't know what you expect. Truthfully, just a video when you post does nothing anymore as the bullshitters are even stealing those off Instagram, Twitter, etc. A couple of options for you:
1) Offer FaceTime for verification
2) If a guy is willing to verify either on TER via PM or P411 via message or work info, then send a pic
3) Post a video/take a photo of the city you're in with the date/phone number
I googled your phone # and the pics came right up. I don't think the issue is your looks. I think the real issue that you are AA aka black. All the pics I saw were professionally done. As others have written, some candids with # placard might help. You could do videos in the Dylan Subterranean homesick blues style. That would be a unique and a competitive edge. I suspect most dudes are drawing conclusions that you are not a transformed chocolate goddess but rather a King Magazine model pic stealin', bait n switchin', hard hittin' gangster and that the story yet to be written will NOT conclude with a happy ending. Unfortunately, the number of clients who have been burned or robbed by an AA provider is high, and this doesn't help the honest and earnest ladies like you.
im actually bi racial im thai and trinidadian, born in new york city, i guess my brown skin and with my photography photo do make me look like im from one of those magazines as you stated, but i also provide facetime and videos and signs of me with my number ... i feel really bad for the guys who have been robbed , but i dont think its because of my skin color, everyone has a prefrence and whats for me will be for me, with that being said, reading is fundemental i always statenumerous options to verify, i just think guys hate to read but then complain about the real vs the fake
Sometimes I get a little hesitant when girls try too hard to prove they're real. From a hobbyist perspective, it's very hard to tell what you're going to get from any kind of ad. We've talked before on other threads and you seem really cool which is super important to me. I like being able to communicate with a provider. I think for you it's more building a rep than anything. Make some friends and get some word of mouth going. Posting on here and talking to TER members is great. Update are good too, new pics, put the date or some familiar landmarks in your pics.
i agree ! when i first started in this bussiness i thought taking porfessional photos will do me justice and show more of my elegance, but it seems to had made it harder sometimes guys dont even belive im trans, unless they realy do show up. so ill definetly take your advice on the nre pics and posting more. thank you!
The fakes in this business (90% of the girls who advertise) end up ruining it for everyone else. You cannot imagine how often we clients get burned. Even worse is when the pictures are real, yet the provider is still downright awful (upsell, phone calls during session, rushing, etc).
Just ask your clients to review you (1 out of 10 of them will) and say you're TER approved in your ad.
Also, don't use different numbers. Automatic red flag.
thank you , i only changed my number one time, but i always have facetime as an option, i hope this time around things would be diffrent
For what it's worth, I think you've done all you can.
I was able to find some of your pics (beautiful by the way) without a lot of issue. But even so I've been burned several times recently by "1000% real" girls with ads and videos, so even those don't prove anything. I've even been burned by providers with "XXXXX verified" accounts so...
That said, I'll generally take the chance if there are reviews and the main things match up like the pics, the phone number, the email etc. Google works well.
You've already said you may be willing to facetime which would be great too.
thanks i recently got my website made which i hope helps alot, they already linked it to my T3R profile so im happy about that. hopefully this tour will be different ! lol
Love to see you doll pay a visit to Cali