Long story short - texted Lexy (as requested in ad) 2 weeks ago to see which town she was in...no response.
Wake up this morning to see I got a text from her at 1:30am with donation amount and tumbler link and a few salacious lines.
I understand this is a business, but I've got a fucking family, and she should know better than to reach out like that unsolicited. Can I/do I give a review on her ID so folks are aware of what could happen?
Good Gawd if there was ever a convincing argument to get a hobby phone, this guy has it!
Personally, I use Textfree - Pinger. (A LOT of providers will tell you, don't contact me with such apps, but my main fave is fine with it, so there's ZERO exposure on my regular cell phone.)
Flake... she post are on Erx and Bp all over the place at same time...... some thousand miles apart.
I understand if she is fishing but she can say that in her ad...
email replies are vague too..... I pass on that !
Scare the hell out of me....
Honestly I'd say do it. There's an option to leave a note. Just so she knows that wasn't cool. Let me know when you in Chicago babe . I'll respond in one week lol . Kidding. 😘
How much effort would it have taken for her to email/text you when you contacted her?
Is she that busy she doesn't have the time to respond? Yet she had the time to post the
ad. Really? It says a lot about her. Thank you for informing everyone.
It's happened to me too where you don't even get no response. They keeps ads up,
without dates. You contact them.....no response. THEN they pull the ad and don't
have the decency to respond.
Likely because they're business isn't doing well. I by no means will get to answering all request immediately, but generally they're answered within 72 hours.
Though, of you sent a message like "hey" or "hru bb", it may have just been ignored. If that's all you can manage to send in a message, I certainly wouldn't respond.
Good Morning. I am curios about this on your web site? "Appreciate weel though"? Some times it can help to go back through any of our advertisements and do a complete review. Have a good day.
when i dealt with clients in a prior life in a legit biz, mentor advised "never let the sun set on a client's call."
i've brought that over to my current ho life but added "and only speak when spoken to."
and i don't care if a client says i can text them anytime. #NotHappening
to be candid, i don't want y'all to get in trouble 'cuz that could mean trouble for me to.
in this particular instance, not a fan of a review since don't know if maybe her text service went whacky in this one instance (who hasn't had time where texts went into a black hole & then popped up later?)
BE PREPARED! I used to see her somewhat regularly but we had a falling out because she is a complete psycho.
She WILL text you every time she rolls into town, without warning. From what I recall, they were sexy pictures of herself and her telling me to come see her. I'm a single guy so it wasn't an issue for me, but obviously can be a HUGE problem for others.
So what made her go crazy on me? I had gone a little while without seeing her, as I was busy and so forth. She simply got pissed at me for not seeing her. Started cursing me out and saying that I owed her business... like I was obligated to see her every time she came to town. It was absolutely nuts. I actually gave her a great review a while back but haven't taken the time to write a new one.
I would stay away from her, not worth the drama. Her photos are heavily filtered and photoshopped anyway. She doesn't look nearly as hot in person as she does in the pictures. Not to say that she looked bad, but not nearly the smoking hot model-type that is depicted in the pictures. Skin tone in person is much darker and she just looks different.
1) many escorts use Google Voice or Vumber or any number of VOIP solutions to maintain anonymity... texts don't often come through instantly. In fact, texts themselves don't even work instantly, depending on network issues.
2) Most - if not all - escorts don't accept texts from strangers... so why are you doing it? Unless she asks for a text, don't send one.
3) Why in the world are you texting someone from an account you don't want a reply from - even weeks later? That's just plain dumb.
4) Did you ever consider that she was unable to answer your dumb random stranger text, just like your were enraged to receive a reply weeks later? Sometimes I get clients that text me while I'm in line at CVS - despite all my ads saying "no texts". Am I in the same boat because I text them back the next day and tell them to call me instead?
Jesus, get a life. A provider didn't answer your lame text immediately. Who cares? You are seeking HER services, not the other way around.
About her "reaching out unsolicited", I think if you contacted her first, then it wouldn't be "unsolicited". And with what ever kind of family you got, it's up to you to be careful, not anyone else. It's possible that she thought she would wait to contact you when she was in your city. It's up to us to make clear of what we want. And to follow-up.
It would be better if you carried a spare phone to conduct your other business with. Because any time we contact someone, they will get our contact number. Then they could contact us any time. And like Miss JR said, text can get delayed. I aint sure if this would help, but a lot of ladies use Wat's App. I'm thinking about trying it.
About "Can I/do I give a review" I think you mean "Can I do / give a review".
You are correct that we are all strangers on here, though some are stranger then others. Take care.
As a provider, what my advice is to you is to not text providers. Quality providers have contact forms on their websites and are verified and reviewed. Get a hobby email and email your booking requests and wait for a reply and book an appointment instead of texting fake escorts on BP and getting pissed when they send you a response 2 weeks later. Like what would you expect from someone unprofessional like that in the first place??
If they don't have a website, I wouldn't bother with contacting them...
That is my advice.
You couln' t have said better, most guys like to go on backpage to get cheaper rates and most of them don't care if they are fake or not and trust me deep down they know is a fake ad but they still go see the fake provider because is cheaper instead of calling a lady that is reviewed and verified and that's why things like this happens unfortunately and then they wanna write a bad review for just anything lol.
I get tired of hearing this shit as if providers can do no wrong. First off, this is not some switch and bait provider off of Backpage. Lexy is a well reviewed provider who is Eros verified and charges up to 400/500 roses per session.
"Get a hobby phone. Get a hobby email" - and what if the provider isn't responding to emails? What if the hobbyist doesn't want to spend extra money on another phone? Why is he obligated to do that?
Discretion is a TWO WAY STREET. Why do some providers think it should only go one way? If you are a provider and a hobbyist saw you outside of work in your Civ life, how would you feel if that hobbyist walked up to you and began attempting to book an appointment with you in public?! That would be RIDICULOUS!
IT'S THE SAME CONCEPT, USE SOME COMMON SENSE! There is no way you should be replying two weeks later, and there is no way a "delayed text" comes in 2 weeks later either. Are we back in the 90s with 56k modems? Text messages go out the moment you have a cell signal again.
I get your point about the two weeks reply, I wouldn't do that but there is no need to spend money on another phone there are many free apps that you can download and you can get a free phone number to text and make calls, that's what most guys do now days as far as I know specially if you are married and have a family you don't need to be using your personal number for this because this things can happen.
your situation or how they should run their business. Their Only concern is to try to maximize their revenue - grow up.
and when they show that they clearly don't give a shit about their clients, then that would be BAD FOR BUSINESS, moron!
And that's a great way to maximize revenue....DONT RESPOND TO CLIENTS.
OMG.....
Still waiting for Lexi to participate.....
Feel like I'm talking to a brick wall here. Responding 2 weeks later is the equivalent of randomly texting a past client and soliciting business. You just don't do it unless it's been established that it's safe to do so. It boggles my mind that some of you fail to understand what should be basic etiquette.
it's Best if you ensure your own safety & security, & not leave it up to flakes to do the right thing ... but I suspect, one day, you will learn the error of your ways ...
Never said that the OP shouldn't take precautions. I'm quoted on here as saying it should be a TWO WAY STREET in terms of respect and discretion. The OP isn't entirely at fault here
Xtravirgin, well said!
Things got off target the original issue.
Regardless on the phone, text messaging etc.....2 weeks later is just bad business and she
was doing some funky advertising....
I'm sure Lexy is reading this.
I wonder what she has to say....
Lexy?
Yup, she definitely does that. She advertises in cities that she won't be in for weeks! In that case, why can't she just state in the ad when she will be arriving to that city? Or she could have just texted the OP back and say "Sorry, I'm not in (wherever) yet but I will be there on (whatever date), so contact me then!"
It's not that complicated. Instead she opted for the worst option possible lol