There is a civie that I know that loves to hug me when she see's me in certain types of social situations where hugging is acceptable. She is married and I am married.
Love Goddess is there is any significance if a woman hugs man and makes a point to press her
breast against the man's chest where his heart is ?
I ask because it is something that I can't forget. The lady makes sure she gives me direct eye contact after the hug. Do you think she is trying to signal something or is it something that I am over reading and misinterpreting. Other women that I hug don't do the breast hug unless it is a woman that I have full service sexual relationship such as my wife, provider, or a girlfriend on the side.
About 10 minutes afterwords I have love type feeling in my heart.
That's quite hilarious, The.Edge,
If I had a dime for every man who has asked that question anecdotally, I'd be a very wealthy woman.
Quite frankly, as a female, I'd have to say that my human sisters and I don't necessarily use our breasts to press against a man to signal interest. In studying the literature on evolutionary psychology, it hasn't come up once. Women have different ways of signaling primary interest. These maneuvers can include: touching one's hair while talking to a male; smiling and showing teeth in the process; looking straight into the eyes of the man rather than away; lowering the head or tilting the head but letting the eyes remain on the male; increased blinking rate; blushing...the list goes on. But in my knowledge base, pressing one's breasts against someone to signal availability is not in there as a matter of course.
Now, it could be that THIS particular woman has been trying to tell you something using the above signals and you have been oblivious? And she's trying to hug you extra hard and her breasts are just there? As a woman, I can tell you it's pretty difficult to avoid getting one's breasts between oneself and the other party when hugging.
I think it's much more significant that you "have love type feeling" in your heart after being exposed to this woman, breast hug or not. You'll need to ask yourself what that means? What kind of relationship do you actually want with this woman? Or are you saying that this is HER "love type feeling" that she is trying to give to you?
My simple advice is, if you want some kind of relationship with her beyond the platonic, ask her. Or stay back and see if she escalates. If she does, then your intuition has been well-founded, and you'll decide then and there what to do.
Hugs - women's booby traps, LOL,
The Love Goddess
Thanks for feedback. That was an excellent response. I am on go error on the side of caution and let her escalate if she is interested.
In the mean time I will continue to enjoy her breasts pressing hard against my heart.
is the hug - breast press - slide combo before disengaging. the slide was accomplished by her bending the knee slightly to slip her breasts down my chest followed by rising a little on tip toe.
i took that as a definite signal and was not disappointed. just thinking about it.... hmm i'll have to either take a cold shower or make a few phone calls.....
In both intimate and very innocent hugging situations a woman has sort of rocked from side to side,twisting her body gently so her breasts are alternately softly squeezed or rubbed against me. The first time a woman did that, it was during a hug where I took her ands and stretched her arms way open, and she pressed out her chest and rubbed her breasts on me.
erectile dysfunction.
Just kidding!
Every time I think about those hugs I get an instant hard on. She reminds me of a combination of 2 providers that I have seen for some very hot sessions.
I like the approach because it is a good way to flirt with each other. She squeezes so hard that her breast is completely flattened on my chest. Nice to see the smile and stare at me afterwords.
premature ejaculation. I'm more of an ass man myself, visually, but when the lady's breasts meet my chest, I'm ready to go, like you.
Hello! I know that if Im interested in a guy and I go in for the hug, I will definitely press my DD deep into his chest, so he can feel ME.
If she pulls away and looks you in the eyes theres definite interest.
a hug is more signficant than what she does with her breasts. She can tilt her hips away when she hugs (so it is just an upper body hug) or press the full length of herself against you. I don't have any statistics, but my intution is that the difference is significant.
She may be flirting / teasing but there's no way to know if she's open to more. And you're open to being accused of being a "pig" if you approach her.
Some like to touch & tease the forbidden fruit... knowing you are both married... & feels safe, that you can not act on it.
I'd enjoy the sensation & see if she escalates. Let her make the first move.
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I've always wondered since the first time it happened to me in 6th grade- does it mean anything when a woman comes up behind or beside you, typically to read something you're holding, and pushes her breast into your arm?
Now, I know some females lack the spatial relationship skills we men take for granted, hence parking by sound etc., but wouldn't you think you'd know where your tits ended? A man would know where his tits ended, assuming he had some. I certainly know where my dick is at all times. But I don't know if I can apply male logic to this situation, after all, I've never had a car accident in 42 years of driving.
So someone please tell me if it means something when a woman uses her breasts like bumpers. Is she deliberately trying to get your attention, or express interest in a guy like me that is usually oblivious to female signs of interest. Or does she just apply the same principles as when she's parking the car- wait for impact, then pull ahead slightly.
This isn't a "psycho/sexual" question, per se, but it's been messing with my head for decades so I think it qualifies.
What seems difficult for men to understand is that erotic stimulation of the breast by another is not the same as actively pushing your clothed body into someone to hug or otherwise display non-erotic affection. To men, affection can easily turn erotic in a heartbeat; to women, hugging is...usually hugging, until you transcend the affection-boundary by kissing and doing other things.
Like I've stated before - women don't lead with their breasts - and when they are acting affectionately, the breasts are not subject to arousal the same way a penis appears to be.
From personal experience, I can't begin to tell you how misunderstood my hugs (and my breasts, LOL) have been. Granted, I'm not exactly flat-chested and when I hug someone, yup, the breasts get in there. And boy, throughout the years...so many erroneous return signals from men!
Please understand that the breasts are just THERE....until a woman actively gets erotic, which happens by displaying signals and engaging in acts different than pressing her breasts against someone in a hug.
Sigh,
The Love Goddess
and I was too dense too receive it, hence my confusion/inaction.
Clearly, men and women are on opposite sides of the breast issue. To men, breasts are visually erotic, so we get to enjoy them nearly 100% of the time. Whereas for women, they're "just there" until such time as they become erotic- probably 5% of the time at the most.
Though, one can't help but notice women sure get a LOT of mileage out of them during the other 95% of the time. I've personally seen breasts buy houses, cars, exotic vacations, jobs and degrees, oh, and one time my passenger's low-cut sweater got me out of a speeding ticket- the only time in my life that's happened.
Yeah, breasts are just there, kind of like the Sun is just there, or the Pacific ocean or Mount Everest- no big deal.
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Dude. It's a hug. Why are you reading into this? Women hug everyone. Not a big deal.