The Erotic Highway

Flakiness and SBs....sad_smile
Glascock69 8 Reviews 1061 reads
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Please remember that the young women who advertise themselves on SA are a breed apart from the norm; Often quite stoned, carpe diem type girls, who have figured out they can be better treated by an older gent than the droopy-drawered sk8trs in the college dorm...If these girls has it together their entire life would look different.
By contrast, Intellegent, motivated young women have graduate degrees and will be running the world soon, so they rarely appear on SA, except for experimental purposes: One brilliant young English girl I knew  summed it up: "Better to be an old man's dream than a young man's fancy".

Steel yourself, brothers: Though I lament the loss of several superb dalliances, all these relationships are destined to come to an end, sooner or later, so I am most grateful to worship the present delight available to me in the moment, and not project unrealistic, businesslike expectations onto the flighty, fallible feminine flirt of the day.

Exception to the rule: I have had one delightful cuddle partner these last five years, we started when she was a teenager and still see each other once a week or so ;)

SB/SD relationships tend to end more quickly than other, although I will confess to having an on again/off again SB/SD type relationship  that lasted almost ten years starting a month or two after her 18th birthday and lasting until just over a year ago.

As for the "quality" of the girls, I mainly see college students, "real" ones, not like the "pretend students" you meet in the hooker world, and only a very small percentage of them have been what I would call "party girls" most of them seem to take their studies rather seriously and are making plans on building real lives.

As GaGambler points out, 'Real' college students are much more interesting, and satisfying, to be with than the professionals, in my opinion; Funding someone's personal development, rather than their addictions, feels better as well.
Depends on the level of depth and intimacy you are seeking, of course; I far prefer depth over shallowness, personally.

I have trouble telling the difference between those two types. I started out as SD, however I quickly suspected they were seeing other men on the side. One sugar baby posted on backpage, while her face was blurry, I identified her by her small tattoo. I am getting old. These days, I don't spend time worrying about it. You just have to take her word for it, the truth you will never know.

I just assume she is seeing other guys, (just like I am seeing other girls) and don't give it a second thought.

My only beef is fully supporting a young girl who in turn is supporting one of those "pimply faced dorm rats" with my money, but since I don't "fully support" any of these girls and only give them "spending money" that has never been an issue for me.

BTW, the reason I even bring up "supporting the BF" is that this did happen to a friend of mine many years back. He was seeing an SB that he was head over heels with, despite the fact she was a part time hooker to boot. One day he told me about how he was kind of bummed that he couldn't see her that weekend after giving her extra money for some emergency she had. I felt bad for him, especially since I already knew she was taking HIS money and taking her "real" boyfriend on vacation for the weekend, I knew this because I was friends with the agency owner where she worked and she had told me this a couple of days before, I didn't have the heart to tell him. Some things you just can't tell a friend, you just hope he finds out on his own. lol

I never meant to suggest that "Real" college girls were seeing me (the SD) exclusively; More reasonable to assume she sees several SD's at a time, and a pimply dorm rat or two to keep up appearances and have something to complain about with her friends....

I strive to be the most memorable/attentive/wisest man in her life that week, which often builds rapport over time..."Way better than a boyfriend, isn't it?" was tonight's refrain

MY SB experiences have been good for the most part.  It may be due to my selecting more mature SBs who had decent jobs but just wanted extra income.

Saying goodbye to the ladies was always the hardest part because I probably was too generous, and they didn't want to part with the cash.

-- Modified on 6/22/2017 4:20:22 AM

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