I have had moderate success with SA, but figured I'd try the other website after being deluged with blogs and tons of messages from SB gals since I created my profile there a few months ago but never bought the credits. Now I've bought the credits, replyed to and sent messages and.... crickets. For 3 days.
Anybody else have the same experience? I think next round going back to SA. Despite the entertaining blog posts, SB isnt delivering anything.
SB was blowing up with messages and likes right after I signed up but before I gave them any money. As soon as I had full access it seems like none of the interest would reply back and it was just crickets. Also I think there are a lot of fake profiles and I've heard others feel the same way and previous posts. SA has definitely worked out better for me but still a lot of time wasters. A lot to get to the point where let's go meet for a drink and see if there's chemistry and then they just disappear and go away. My theory is there's a lot of young ladies that love the idea of the extra money but when it comes to the reality of meeting with some older guy to have a sugar relationship they just mentally or morally cannot go through with it
I do know at least a few of them must be legit as they are from POT SBs who I have actually met (and fucked) through SA.
For some reason something about the site just screamed "SCAM" to me and so far at least I can't bring myself to give them my money.
IMO SA is a total numbers game. Ive got around 20 conversation threads on sa as well several text conversations. There are a lot of flakes for sure but Ive also fd quite a lit of 20 to 35 year olds in 2 years.
My only complaint is the skill or acting abilities of a lot of SBs is lacking.
Oh I have been succesful using SA in the past and again yesterday. I was simply commetimg on the other sugar site out there. Definitely not as effective as SA
Eom.
the response/success ratio seems to vary a lot. There have been times when almost none of my message exchanges resulted in coffee dates, let alone BCD hookups. But other times, such as right now, I'm getting so many favorable replies I have to pick and choose. Play the numbers, be persistent, and be selective. That's what works.
Twice actually, I bought the 100 credit pack, I think I got 2 replies out 20 messages and nothing came of them. Junk. That's the problem with credit systems, way too easy for them to scam you into spending money, if they switched to a monthly charge, I would be much more likely to try them again.
I tried SB and a couple others before I found this page and GaGa convinced me that SA was real. Never regretted taking the jump into SA. SB was a joke. Full of fake profiles, cam girls, and scammers. Yes there were some profiles that I recognized as being on SA, after I got on SA, but they were only like 1 or 2.
I'm somewhat new to this board, can someone explain what SB and SA are?
I'm thinking sugar babies and seeking arrangements?
thanks gals
Two different websites: Secret Benefits and yes, Seeking Arrangement.