Hi- here goes my first post on this board.  Because I want to please her, I've become very curious about what I can do to get her to reach the O.  When I give her oral or use my hand on the clit, she says it makes her go pee, and is very sensitive and she does not like it, period.  Can that be true, do you have any suggestions?  I know I can work on the G-spot, but I would like to here your thoughts on the clit first.

Thank you,
grizzy

Here goes, grizzy763,

The glans [head] of the clitoris is super-sensitive to direct stimulation. Please avoid doing that, as most women will recoil in dislike. The clit is not like a penis; it CANNOT take the same type of pressure. When women are excited and screwing, it's not because the clitoris is rubbing directly on the penis, it's because the clit is getting stimulated and rubbing against its own hood. So...if you want to play with the clit, play with the hood and around it, rather than on it. This is documented in every human sexuality book and not something LG invented.

Again, I recommend buying Bernie Zilbergeld's book The New Male Sexuality. In there, you will find some nice instructions on what to do with your lady friend. My suggestion is this: tongue-flicking AROUND THE CLIT, not on it. Massaging her outer genital lips and pressing them together, rubbing them together gently, so that she gets stimulation from the outer lips touching the clitoral hood, can work too. And what really works: ASK HER what she wants. Let her tell you. Remember that every woman is truly different in this aspect.

Just the basics,
the Love Goddess

Hello Grizzly,

All this is very true.  And some women are more sensitve than others.  Playing around the clit, rubbing the hood, all good things.

One more thing I wanted to add.  You mentioned that she needs to pee when this happens.  It may not be pee, you may have a squirter on your hands and she doesn't even know it yet.  I am a photographer and have worked on several porn sets shooting stills.  I have also seen videos and read about squirting.  The females who REALLY squirt say that it is a sensation of needing to pee when stimulating the clit and/or the G Spot.  If she is into watching squirting and wants to try it may work.  Use towels the first time you try it.  Then just tell her not to hold back when it feel like she needs to pee. Tell to push it out when she cums.  It's worth a shot (no pun intended).